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People who Constantly Help
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24 / M / Nottingham, Engla...
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Posted 11/9/08
tbh i don't come across people that need help on a daily basis
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27 / F / Canada
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Posted 11/9/08
I guess I'm kind of like a tool. I love to help people because it makes me feel good, but sometimes they ask for too much and I find it kind of hard to say "no". It kind of makes me feel bad if I don't help them... but on the other hand I don't want to be exploited. It's hard to have a balance between the two.
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Posted 11/9/08
It's stupid to call other people "tools." If somebody needs help and you are capable to help them, then why not? It's not like you are going to lose a couple of years of your life by helping others.
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Posted 11/9/08
i usually help my mate but sometimes there r just too damn even a simple thing to do they wanna my help.
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24 / M / O.C. So.Cal
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Posted 11/9/08
yeah i help ut only because i have to hae service hours for college or something. But i will like hold the door for someone and stuff im not a total dick
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Posted 11/9/08
yeah because I feel bad for them .
then later on I realize that it was so stupid then I get pissed off for a few days x_x .
just don't like it when people don't like me , like this class doesn't like just because of a stupid reason =P .
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27 / M / In your room stea...
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Posted 11/9/08
Nah, if they have a issue its there problem not mine.
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24 / M / Chicago
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Posted 11/9/08
I like to help people. But I choose to do so of my own accord, they do not control my actions, I am not their tool. I just like to help people out.
Posted 12/25/11 , edited 12/25/11
I find it hard to turn people down. I'll give it thought and always see what I can do. Though I don't turn and stop everything I'm doing if I think they'll handle themselves.

I'm constantly helping out though I'm not unnecessarily doing things that needn't be.

Posted 12/25/11
Depends on my mood. Asking me for help when I'm angry only awards a few fuck offs.
Posted 12/25/11
Voluntarily, I help. Charity and all of that kajumbo things.
Asking me when I am doing something else, no.
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25 / F / Europe~
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Posted 12/25/11
I'm the biggest tool sometimes. I even offer my help to people I don't know very well and I feel so nice when they say "OMG, that's so nice. Thank you! I'll definitely return the favor!" but they almost never do
On the other hand when I'm in a bad mood (doesn't happen too often) I don't even wanna talk to people so I reject before they even finish the sentence...
"Hey, can u-"
"No sorry, I'm going home. See ya!"
Posted 12/25/11
ME LAK 2 HLP
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Posted 12/25/11
I like to help people out as much as I can.
Posted 12/25/11 , edited 12/25/11
Blame my "Alter ego" for turning me into a tool.
Not out of kindness(subject of charity are those who are weak & I never consider someone else weak other than me),not to be a "nice guy",not for any reward,not to feel good & not for sweet words in return,perhaps I lack feeling & intentions at this.
Regardless of my mood,circumstances,person & physical condition,my "Alter ego" forces me to help someone,even though it be my bitter enemy.I may ignore my enemy at trouble & walk away but can't complete more than few steps.It's hard for me to ignore "his" voice.
Then......."Hey........you need some help??".If that person accepts my help,I help going against my wishes & I JUST HATE THIS.........AGGGGHHH.This feeling is like torturing yourself,while remembering once that person had insulted you,once he had backstabbed you,once she had betrayed you,once they had denied you of any help &..............all those past memories.
So now all these I have mentioned makes me appear as an dumbass.
To strangers & friends(if there any),I help voluntarily.
I help but to a certain limit.If "they" make it an habit I intentionally turn down them speaking "Look,I won't be there always to help you.I may go away or die,so better you have learn to help out yourself."
If I have to help anyone that goes against my principles,I simply deny them.
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