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Being rejected because of skin color
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Posted 11/11/08
You like someone very much and you two seem to like each other to as close friends. You develop feelings and when you told that you like him/her, you get rejected because you have an other skin color

This happened to me, but this is not a personal topic. I want to let you guys to think how it would be if it happened to you and how would you react to it?
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Be grateful you didn't enter into a relationship with a racist...
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Your close friend rejected you because of your skin color!? The fuck? I mean any other reason would probably be okay, but skin color!? I hope you aren't friends with him anymore...
Posted 11/11/08 , edited 11/11/08
..I always thought sometimes it had to do with family orders. My friend who's Filipina was going out with this Jewish guy, and their parents kept telling them to break up. In the end they were forced to..so I mean sometimes the individual is racist, I'm sure but also, it can be due to the parents lack of acceptance.
Posted 11/11/08
I hate people like that. Seriously, I hope you have stopped being friends with this douchebag racist. It was probably for the better anyone, since it would be pretty lousy to be dating a goddamn racist.
Posted 11/11/08
Oh wth = = what an ass :/
actully i know my close is like that.. shes like ( non - asian ) and my friend is asian and he likes her so much and he told her he likes her and she said she wants to be friends and stuff~ anyway i asked her if she likes him yet and shes like no hes asian == i said " okay.. whats so bad about that " and blah blah~ yeah -- its pretty stupid just because of their race/skin color - -
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If he's racist, why would he be friends with me anyway?
That's why I'm shocked when I heard that.
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it's so true..parents are more likely to be racist...

anyways...if it happened to me...maybe i'll cry in front of him.....and beg him...ACCEPT ME!~...lol...
but yeah i may tear up....if i truly like him...and change my skin color...lol...and have a mental instability..haha
Posted 11/11/08

Lithvana wrote:

If he's racist, why would he be friends with me anyway?
That's why I'm shocked when I heard that.


That's what I'm saying. Maybe he was just limited, you know? Maybe it wasn't completely his choice.

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Its sad to say but appearence plays a big role in choseing relationships. I dont think he was racist for not wanting to go out with you. He is just probably not attracted to different races for reasons unkown. Which i think is stupid, thats why lots of relationships dont last. Because people always lookin for the wrong things. You know I hear that alot." I have alot of blank blank blank friends but Im just not attracted to them." OH WELL!!! Who cares theres more people out there.
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flourlove wrote:


Lithvana wrote:

If he's racist, why would he be friends with me anyway?
That's why I'm shocked when I heard that.


That's what I'm saying. Maybe he was just limited, you know? Maybe it wasn't completely his choice.



That could be possible.
You know what? I'll ask him directly.
Posted 11/11/08

Lithvana wrote:


flourlove wrote:


Lithvana wrote:

If he's racist, why would he be friends with me anyway?
That's why I'm shocked when I heard that.


That's what I'm saying. Maybe he was just limited, you know? Maybe it wasn't completely his choice.



That could be possible.
You know what? I'll ask him directly.


XD Umm..are you sure??
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Posted 11/11/08

flourlove wrote:


Lithvana wrote:


flourlove wrote:


Lithvana wrote:

If he's racist, why would he be friends with me anyway?
That's why I'm shocked when I heard that.


That's what I'm saying. Maybe he was just limited, you know? Maybe it wasn't completely his choice.



That could be possible.
You know what? I'll ask him directly.


XD Umm..are you sure??


No, actually.
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Posted 11/11/08

greg06m wrote:

Its sad to say but appearence plays a big role in choseing relationships. I dont think he was racist for not wanting to go out with you. He is just probably not attracted to different races for reasons unkown. Which i think is stupid, thats why lots of relationships dont last. Because people always lookin for the wrong things. You know I hear that alot." I have alot of blank blank blank friends but Im just not attracted to them." OH WELL!!! Who cares theres more people out there.


Yeah, I never understood that. I hear people talk about it a lot that they just don't like people with different skin color even tough they're not racist.

Could someone explain to me why?
Posted 11/11/08 , edited 11/11/08

Lithvana wrote:


flourlove wrote:


Lithvana wrote:


flourlove wrote:


Lithvana wrote:

If he's racist, why would he be friends with me anyway?
That's why I'm shocked when I heard that.


That's what I'm saying. Maybe he was just limited, you know? Maybe it wasn't completely his choice.



That could be possible.
You know what? I'll ask him directly.


XD Umm..are you sure??


No, actually.


You know..if you really like him then I can see you getting involved, but if you know you can probably find someone better, I wouldn't do that. XD Cuz if you're somehow able to change it and everything, and you end up not working out cuz you guys weren't even that sure in the first place it's like you did it all for nothing.

I would just look at the pros and cons or whatever..yknow all that jazz
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