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Would you befriend your ex or hate him/her?
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Well, I don't get too into relationships usually. So, most of the time, unless she has a problem with it herself (almost never, cuz I usually get dumped), I make friends.

The exception is Tanya Starkey... Such a whore. First she tempts me, and I tell her I want to stay a virgin, then she keeps coming. Week after week, then I break, and she says "Alls you want is sex!" Gaa! I hate her so badly! (Just to clarify, my definition of a virgin is very strict. I’d say 90% of people would still consider me a virgin, but not me. I don’t want to be too vivid or inappropriate so that’s all I’ll say. But what you‘re thinking, it‘s a notch down from there.)

She cheats too. Plus she’s a liar who tricked me into dating her in the first place. Acted all sweet and open minded, came out to be racist, sexist, prejudice against pagans, and prejudice against Gays. (She’s the girl I mentioned who says we should have a holiday dedicated to women, but that Black History Month is racist and ignorant and stupid. Ironically she describes her soul sucking self.) Plus, she went out and spread a bunch of rumors about me. Not that I care, but I was so nice to her, and spent money on her, and then she dumps me and gets ticked? I even let her -cheat- on me without saying anything. Now I just hope she dies…

Still, it’s best to forgive and forget, right? Turn the other cheek (but watch out cuz you might get smacked) and pretend nothing happened. There may be bitter emotions, but I’m a firm believer that forgiveness is an act. Not a feeling. Still, holding a grudge is like putting poison in your cup and hoping it kills the target of your anger. So, I hope to one day be mature enough to forgive Tanya for being a bi#$%.


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I guess both but it kind of fells awkward
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at first its hard to talk
but later we can be the best pals
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friends are good...so yes...
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it really depends on the situation... usually it takes awhile to become friends again... sometimes you dont really talk to the person anymore or just choose to avoid each other... i guess itz hard to become friends again for whatever reason... also need to look at why you two broke up in the first place... so if you two ended with an argument or fight it will tend to go the badd way while deciding that it wasnt going anywhere itz best to be friends
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0604433C wrote:

at first its hard to talk
but later we can be the best pals



Oy, there's that. Awkward for a while, but you get over it in time.
Posted 4/28/07 , edited 4/13/08
man if i could i would like prank my numerous exs or something but since setting their houses on fire is illegal i suppose i cant
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Hell no!.. I'll never be friends with my exes... Never! Cuz once a girl left you and break your heart, why be friend?... Most of the time, I feel lost/confusing/heartbroken n I don't ever want to see her face ever again..
Posted 4/28/07 , edited 4/13/08
well first of all I haven't had a bf so I cant have an ex but if I did i think that it would kinda b awkward hanging out with him and acting like nothing happened between the two of us.
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actually i get along surprisingly well with my ex-boyfriends and two of them are best friends and we kick it almost every weekend.. i loove them but just as friends
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Well, I don't get too into relationships usually. So, most of the time, unless she has a problem with it herself (almost never, cuz I usually get dumped), I make friends.

The exception is Tanya Starkey... Such a whore. First she tempts me, and I tell her I want to stay a virgin, then she keeps coming. Week after week, then I break, and she says "Alls you want is sex!" Gaa! I hate her so badly! (Just to clarify, my definition of a virgin is very strict. I’d say 90% of people would still consider me a virgin, but not me. I don’t want to be too vivid or inappropriate so that’s all I’ll say. But what you‘re thinking, it‘s a notch down from there.)

She cheats too. Plus she’s a liar who tricked me into dating her in the first place. Acted all sweet and open minded, came out to be racist, sexist, prejudice against pagans, and prejudice against Gays. (She’s the girl I mentioned who says we should have a holiday dedicated to women, but that Black History Month is racist and ignorant and stupid. Ironically she describes her soul sucking self.) Plus, she went out and spread a bunch of rumors about me. Not that I care, but I was so nice to her, and spent money on her, and then she dumps me and gets ticked? I even let her -cheat- on me without saying anything. Now I just hope she dies…

Still, it’s best to forgive and forget, right? Turn the other cheek (but watch out cuz you might get smacked) and pretend nothing happened. There may be bitter emotions, but I’m a firm believer that forgiveness is an act. Not a feeling. Still, holding a grudge is like putting poison in your cup and hoping it kills the target of your anger. So, I hope to one day be mature enough to forgive Tanya for being a bi#$%.




wow that sucks she sounds like a bitch but not many people would forgive someone like her..that just shows how great of a person you are !!!!!

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well it depends...but usually i do get along with exboyfriends
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i would want to stay as friends assuming it was a mutual decision to end the relationship, but if my ex did something really crappy then i wouldnt even want to be in the same room with him. im the type that if u lost my trust then its gonna be hard for you to get it back...
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i would definitely befriend him =P
hahahah he can tell me all the stuff he liked/disliked about me ... for future reference xD
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honestly i would want to stay friends with my ex but if my ex doesn't want to be friends after then i would have to respect his wishes
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