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Experience in the field of attraction
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I am creating this topic to get some insights on social dynamics where people stand and how their real social life is like in the reality world.
How much one interact with the opposite sex.
And so, this topic is about how one experience anything and everything.

Examples:
1. first time you ever talk to the girl you like,
2. butterflies in your stomach,
3. i think i her, i think she like me,
4. first kiss,
5. Omg, i asked her out and she shut me down,
6. Rejections,
7. Failed in the test of attraction,
8. I lost it to her/him,
9. I was in love.


Those are just some examples.
We are here not to make fun of you just to better understand someone's experience.

p.s. if your bi/gay/lesbian
feel free to add your stories in with everyone else. There is no hating here.
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Too personal
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oh..i hope it really help us to understand each other..
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Too personal


Hah.

People just don't want to type out how anti-social they are. Most of the people here probably have bad experiences, and won't want to share. Or, they'll just be too shy to talk about how they feel. Even if this is the anonymous internet, people don't want to give away too much about themselves. This topic won't really get far.

Just to contribute in a positive light, and hopefully to set off more replies from people I'll give you a serious response. I've never been in love, nor have any interest in love. I think relationships in general are stupid. I'm pretty much Asexual. So I pretty much don't understand this "field of attraction" thing at all. There are some things I find attractive, but I wouldn't go so far as saying they'd be the foundation to building a relationship with someone. Pretty weird eh? People think I'm pretty weird. When I turn down guys they have a hard time understanding what I'm trying to tell them.
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I dont really give a crap about understanding. Im just gonna answer the questions
1. first time you ever talk to the girl you like,
When I was like fucking 5
2. butterflies in your stomach
idk, high school girlfriend maybe?
3. i think i like her, i think she likes me
Middle school
4. first kiss
Dont remember.
5. Omg, i asked her out and she shut me down
I havent really asked that many girls out. So, never
6. Rejections
Isnt this the same shit?
7. Failed in the test of attraction
Quite a few times actually. Undirect ass hoes.
8. I lost it to her/him
Never!
9. I was in love.
No love. Infatuation.
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People just don't want to type out how anti-social they are. Most of the people here probably have bad experiences, and won't want to share. Or, they'll just be too shy to talk about how they feel. Even if this is the anonymous internet, people don't want to give away too much about themselves. This topic won't really get far.


No, mostly I just don't want to share my experiences whether positive or negative to anon. Now why would I? Anon won't help with problems nor rejoice with my success. Anon is not even my diary.



Just to contribute in a positive light, and hopefully to set off more replies from people I'll give you a serious response. I've never been in love, nor have any interest in love. I think relationships in general are stupid. I'm pretty much Asexual. So I pretty much don't understand this "field of attraction" thing at all. There are some things I find attractive, but I wouldn't go so far as saying they'd be the foundation to building a relationship with someone. Pretty weird eh? People think I'm pretty weird. When I turn down guys they have a hard time understanding what I'm trying to tell them.


Eh? You don't have any interest in love yet you make this thread? And does that not make you the anti-social one?
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Eh? You don't have any interest in love yet you make this thread? And does that not make you the anti-social one?


The OP was asking for experiences, my dear. Negative, or positive, I gave him my experience. Also, being Asexual does not mean you are anti-social. It means you have no interest or attraction when it comes to sex.
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macphapie wrote:

Eh? You don't have any interest in love yet you make this thread? And does that not make you the anti-social one?


The OP was asking for experiences, my dear. Negative, or positive, I gave him my experience. Also, being Asexual does not mean you are anti-social. It means you have no interest or attraction when it comes to sex.


I thought you were OP FUCK!
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Posted 11/17/08

macphapie wrote:


baka2000 wrote:


macphapie wrote:

Eh? You don't have any interest in love yet you make this thread? And does that not make you the anti-social one?


The OP was asking for experiences, my dear. Negative, or positive, I gave him my experience. Also, being Asexual does not mean you are anti-social. It means you have no interest or attraction when it comes to sex.


I thought you were OP FUCK!


GG.
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Are you sure everybody will understand each other?
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I don't have many stories to brag about, if what you want to know is a story beyond normal. Because love stories are very similar from one individual to another. I believe your attraction towards the opposite sex isn't necessarily an indicative of how social you are.

Many people here is social, some others might not be social enough for your standards. Many more simply think of the internet as their 'second life' or whatever it could be the case. But even social people tend to be antisocial when they spend too much time online, I can tell that for sure. Still that doesn't make you antisocial for life.

Personally I am not antisocial, although I like to get online for a couple of minutes several times a day; simply to check on this forums when I have nothing to do. I feel attracted to the opposite sex, and about experiences, as I said nothing too relevant or out of this world to say so.
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I don't believe in love, I think it's all a hoax everyone plays on each other. People say well what about those old people that have been together for like 50years! Their friends, duh or maybe their just too busy knitting socks for their grandchildren and watching reruns of i love lucy to even notice the other ones still there. Even if I met someone who believes in love they end up getting dumped & start crying and getting fat & shit. Loves all in our imagination, it's not real.
Experiences? lol, I'm 14 gone out with maybe 3 guys b4 *shrug* I basically don't have any really.
1. first time you ever talked to the guy you like.
he was my friend so idk 3rd grade?
2. butterflies in your stomach.
when I 1st went to the movies with only 1 other person :]
3. i think i like him, i think he likes me
never had that always got a confession through a text or someone came & told me
4. first kiss
summer between 6th & 7th
5. Omg, i asked him out and he shut me down
2nd grade I had a crush on a 4th grader and he turned me down =[
6. Rejections
isnt that the same as number 5?
7. Failed in the test of attraction
never had that happen b4
8. I lost it to her/him
some new girl ran by & then he was gone =/
9. I was in love.
nope

Posted 11/17/08

bigbox909 wrote:

I am creating this topic to get some insights on social dynamics where people stand and how their real social life is like in the reality world.
How much one interact with the opposite sex.
And so, this topic is about how one experience anything and everything.

Examples:
1. first time you ever talk to the girl you like,
2. butterflies in your stomach,
3. i think i her, i think she like me,
4. first kiss,
5. Omg, i asked her out and she shut me down,
6. Rejections,
7. Failed in the test of attraction,
8. I lost it to her/him,
9. I was in love.


Those are just some examples.
We are here not to make fun of you just to better understand someone's experience.

p.s. if your bi/gay/lesbian
feel free to add your stories in with everyone else. There is no hating here.


lolz never been in real love but liked someone never really got turned down cuz i never ask lolz i do the turning dowbb i dont think i hurt them that bad but i have liked someone did get better sad when i saw they had a gf
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1. first time you ever talk to the girl you like - 4 years old?
2. butterflies in your stomach - high school
3. i think i her, i think she like me - elementary school
4. first kiss - dont remember, do i kiss people or do they kiss me?
5. Omg, i asked her out and she shut me down - summer 08
6. Rejections - once
7. Failed in the test of attraction - its usually on 24/7
8. I lost it to her - do i lose or do i take??
9. I was in love - nah
Posted 11/17/08
This thread is incredibly lame. Why survey people for their experiences when you know over half of the time, people are just going to give faulty answers. I say, if you really want to study human interactions and social hierchy ... go outside and observe the work field, school campuses, packed shopping centers, et cetera.

Besides, people watching is like a sport these days. Stake out at a cafe and start watching drama unfold.
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