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Experience in the field of attraction
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Posted 11/17/08

bigbox909 wrote:

Instead of quoting him, thanks. You're very insightful.
Xarga your cool.

Question: in the heart, when approaching someone you like, how do you feel?
Does your stomach twist,
your palm sweaty,
and in the back of your head there's someone saying don't go throught with it.


I fear no outcome so no. . . .nothing of the sort happens to me lol. . . .You anticipate the outcome to some severity to feel that way in think. . . .

I'm not a good example cause im usually faded off my ass when i do anything like that. . .

There ya go!!! get plastered and approach a women with that in mind. . . makes shits a whole lot easier
Posted 11/17/08

bigbox909 wrote:

Instead of quoting him, thanks. You're very insightful.
Xarga your cool.

Question: in the heart, when approaching someone you like, how do you feel?
Does your stomach twist,
your palm sweaty,
and in the back of your head there's someone saying don't go throught with it.

Xarga isn't on your side.
Try reading more than the first sentence.

A legitimate topic worthy, of just as legitimate answers, in the slew of usual bullshit in this forum. . . Lame? damn don't be so generous =/

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Posted 11/17/08


Xarga isn't on your side.
Try reading more than the first sentence.


I didn't say he was, I was just merely thanking his insights on the topic.



Posted 11/17/08

bigbox909 wrote:



Xarga isn't on your side.
Try reading more than the first sentence.


I didn't say he was, I was just merely thanking his insights on the topic.




K.
Here's mine.
Boobies=Good
Your welcome.
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Posted 11/17/08

I fear no outcome so no. . . .nothing of the sort happens to me lol. . . .You anticipate the outcome to some severity to feel that way in think. . . .

I'm not a good example cause im usually faded off my ass when i do anything like that. . .

There ya go!!! get plastered and approach a women with that in mind. . . makes shits a whole lot easier


So are you saying think of it just as another test, confidence and clear thoughts? sounds good.
Posted 11/25/08

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What makes you think he hasn't? and what doesn't make this just as good of a resource as any of the others? A legitimate topic worthy, of just as legitimate answers, in the slew of usual bullshit in this forum. . . Lame? damn don't be so generous =/


Legitimacy on the internet is like winning the SuperLotto. The miracle happens for others, but never for you.
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Posted 11/25/08
I'm not in the place to share any, since I've not been in a relationship before... but from what I've heard and seen, you should just be yourself. Rejections come and go and perhaps you might need a little more change in your personality, but you've got to be sincere with her/him and humbleness will take you very far.
Posted 11/26/08
1. first time you ever talk to the guy you like,

The guys I like are usually my friends, so yeah i tlak to them.

2. butterflies in your stomach,

I always get that when my boyfriend hugs me, kiss me, or even smile at me.

3. i think i him, i think he like me,

um....yeah. sometimes.

4. first kiss,

pretty recent.

5. Omg, i asked him out and he shut me down,

I was devastated.... but i got over it.

6. Rejections,

There are better guys out there.

7. Failed in the test of attraction,

are you talking about me? or him? but a lot of people says that i'm really pretty, but i don't think so, there are prettier girls out there.

8. I lost it to her/him,

Be more specific.

9. I was in love.

i hate it when poeple claims that they are in love, when they're not. and honestly, i had never been in love.
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Posted 11/26/08

casualbrutality wrote:


Xarga wrote:

What makes you think he hasn't? and what doesn't make this just as good of a resource as any of the others? A legitimate topic worthy, of just as legitimate answers, in the slew of usual bullshit in this forum. . . Lame? damn don't be so generous =/


Legitimacy on the internet is like winning the SuperLotto. The miracle happens for others, but never for you.


Using the internet as grounds for your pessimism? You should narrow that down to just CR, i think it would sound a bit more....''legitimate'' =/
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Lets see...
A story worth telling...

joking

Love is something I've experienced. You can call it an unrequited love. I met a boy when I was fifteen years old. During that time you could call me ugly. I was chubby, pimple-faced, brace-faced and geeky girl in general.Yes, I also wore glasses and read history books for fun. I still wear glasses now. At a point in time I got rid of them and wore contacts, but I decided to go back to wearing glasses. I will explain later why. The guy I like had the drool factor and still does. He was around six feet and looked like a model. He was on the track team in highschool (not my school). I first saw him at my new church. He was sitting in choir looking so righteous in all senses of the word. I looked at him and was instantly attracted to him. What could I say he is truly gorgeous. Later on I joined the choir, but not for the reason you are thinking. (Plus when you looked like me the chances of getting a guy like that is 0.) I have great vocal skills. I started taking lessons when I was twelve years old, and have been singing since I can remember. I was a soloist at my old church. In choir I was put in the front row with the first soprano. Next to me was another girl who I started to talk to. It turned out to be his older sister. Slowly we got to know each other. My older sister and her also became acquainted. They became very close.Well in the end, my family and his became friends. Not the parents but the siblings. We started hanging out and he started talking to me. Slowly we started flirting and I felt like he truly cared. At first I felt like he loved me. He was so sweet and generous. He made me feel like I was the only girl in the world. He would call me pet names the type you would use to call your girlfriend. His family would make fun of us. Hinting about our relationship. For example, during one point in time they had bunnies. I went to look at them. I picked up a black one and said, " He is simply so cute. I love him. Love him. Love him." His sister replied, " That's The guy I liked name " and started laughing her butt off.But during the whole time he and his sisters would point things out about me. They would say that I would look better with make-up. They would say things about the way I dressed. They asked if I ever tried wearing contacts. Slowly I started to change the way I looked. I started wearing make-up, plucking my eyebrows, wearing contacts, obsessing about shaving, waxing, and laser hair removal.For they kept on joking around sort of hinting that I was like a hairy yetta. Yes I had hair on other parts of my body not only my head, but why make fun of a girl who felt ugly enough already. Every girl has hair on other parts of their body not only their head. It's not like I didn't shave. ( Sorry to inform the male population who didn't know.)Also, I decided I needed to lose weight, and get laser hair removal. I wanted to be like other girls that I realized he also talked to. I wanted to be a size 0 just like them, but I never reached that goal. For soon I realized I wasn't the only girl in his eyes. He was attracted to other girls. Girls who were jealous of me and gave me death glares.They treated me as if I was dirt. Soon enough he started treating me like they did.I guess he decided I was beneath him. Eventually he said I was ugly inside and out. I had no spirituality, and just looked horrid. I realized later on that he just wanted to get rid of me. But for a girl like me it broke my heart. Slowly I became prettier. Every once it a while when he was in a good mood he would say hello to me. I felt he pitied me. I believe he still does. I don't know why I love him. Everytime we talk we irritate each other. Now I wear the glasses he doesn't like and am a size 5. I never became a size zero. I got laser hair removal on some areas of my body, and sort of became obsessed with it. I realize that some of the things they said were true, and am glad I improved. But I feel like the ugly girl that he rejected. Now I usually pretend to not see him at church. But usually I steal glances because I truly miss him. People say we clash. I guess we will never be together. But I still wish to be with him. I can't seem to start relationship with guys who seem to like me. For I am afraid they will be like him. Also, I compare them all to him. I want him and no one else. Sometimes I wish someone will persuade me that they are better than he is.
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Posted 11/26/08
in reality....i never went out before.....but did like a guy before...but we didnt end up in a bf/gf relationship....i wasnt ready at that time and rejected him...
but now i kind of want to experience something like what my sisters have...."a relationship"
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Posted 11/27/08 , edited 11/27/08
1. first time you ever talk to the girl you like,
Just a simple hello, nothing special
2. butterflies in your stomach,
Last year, I saw a girl with a beanie with cat ears in the hall way. She was so cute, I got all warm and fuzzy inside, but I never saw her again.
3. i think i her, i think she like me,
Never, because my dad smokes, therefore I smell like smoke, therefore I am automatically unattractive until I move out.
4. first kiss,
Never
5. Omg, i asked her out and she shut me down,
Too shy to ask her out
6. Rejections,
No opportunities to be rejected
7. Failed in the test of attraction,
What?
8. I lost it to her/him,
Is this refering to virginity? If so then no.
9. I was in love.
First time was 3rd grade I think it was, some girl named Carla, she hated me though.
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Posted 11/28/08
does everyone understand eacch otheR?
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Posted 11/28/08
My answer to everything is never
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Posted 11/28/08
lately ive been pretty anti-social actually.. no guy or girl interaction unless its necessary... the rest of the time i just read books..

ill contribute with the first question, since that seems less personal than the rest :)
the first guy ive ever had a crush on was COLT from THE THREE NINJAS! lol! now lets go back to reality. i actually have the hardest time talking to guys i like in person. i get all self cautious and uncomfortable its annoying@! so i wait until they make the initiative to say "hi". it usually flows easier after they start. the first time was in grade 3. he was so nice and always shared his crayons with me during art ^^. unfortunately i moved the following year, and no contact whatsoever haha.

ill share rejections too.
technically, ive never been rejected because im too embarrassed to blurt out how i feel... UNLESS, he confesses.. then its easier to say it back lol.
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