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To people in relationships..Ever cheated?
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i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/
Posted 11/20/08

hmoobbeauty wrote:

i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/

Weekday sex=Good reason
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No.....that's a bitch move
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Posted 11/20/08

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hmoobbeauty wrote:

i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/

Weekday sex=Good reason


OMG i cant believe u just said that........that is one of the WORST reason to Cheat.....and that is cheating anyways........if u want "it" that much....nvm :/
Posted 11/20/08

hmoobbeauty wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:

i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/

Weekday sex=Good reason


OMG i cant believe u just said that........that is one of the WORST reason to Cheat.....and that is cheating anyways........if u want "it" that much....nvm :/

Morning sex.
Happy?
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Posted 11/20/08

KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:

i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/

Weekday sex=Good reason


OMG i cant believe u just said that........that is one of the WORST reason to Cheat.....and that is cheating anyways........if u want "it" that much....nvm :/

Morning sex.
Happy?


OMG just use ur hands or something
Posted 11/20/08

hmoobbeauty wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:

i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/

Weekday sex=Good reason


OMG i cant believe u just said that........that is one of the WORST reason to Cheat.....and that is cheating anyways........if u want "it" that much....nvm :/

Morning sex.
Happy?


OMG just use ur hands or something

I need "visual aid".
Posted 11/20/08 , edited 11/20/08
kinkyhamster is only looking for attention, don't feed the troll. Your comments are dumb and pointless. Hes only looking to up his post points. Stupid! Probably never even had sex. So immature.

Besides the point....(clears throat) I am actually cheered up that some guys think it wrong. Good to know that there are some good guys still out there.
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Posted 11/20/08

Shotaru wrote:

kinkyhamster is only looking for attention, don't feed the troll. Your comments are dumb and pointless. Hes only looking to up his post points. Stupid! Probably never even had sex. So immature.

Besides the point....(clears throat) I am actually cheered up that some guys think it wrong. Good to know that there are some good guys still out there.


hahahaha thanks for the heads up.....appreciate it.....and of course there are good guys out there......but some are too sweet/kind.....
Posted 11/20/08

Shotaru wrote:

kinkyhamster is only looking for attention, don't feed the troll. Your comments are dumb and pointless. Hes only looking to up his post points. Stupid! Probably never even had sex. So immature.

Besides the point....(clears throat) I am actually cheered up that some guys think it wrong. Good to know that there are some good guys still out there.

Notice the "15" below my username.
Are all 15 year old, hormone crazed boys mature?
Try actually talking to some boys sometime.
BiBi.
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Posted 11/20/08

KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


hmoobbeauty wrote:

i never been in a relationship....but from what i see from my sisters relationships.........Cheatin is such a stupid thing to do....unless....there was a Very very very good reason behind it :/

Weekday sex=Good reason


OMG i cant believe u just said that........that is one of the WORST reason to Cheat.....and that is cheating anyways........if u want "it" that much....nvm :/

Morning sex.
Happy?


OMG just use ur hands or something

I need "visual aid".


i'm ready to drop this conversation....its goin nowhere....and an uncomfortable subject anyways :/
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Never had and never will. I've been cheated on and the guy who did the worst damage to me at the time was kicking himself when i got engaged. I mean what the hell was he thinking 'for old time sake'. Did I look like an idiot back then just because the 'other' girl didn't work out. I walked away very calmly. theres no shouting or a slap on his face.

Both men and women cheats, but why? Is it the thrill? Is it because you think you're better than your partner? Some says it comes down to low self-esteem. What kind of excuse is that? If you can't be faithful, don't be in a relationship. Cheaters don't change. Then again what goes around comes around.
Posted 11/20/08
Jacque76 I agree with you. I don't understand it myself. Your parnter is lucky to have someone like you.

I know! I don't believe the low self esteem thing either. I think it is for the thrill. I saw a show on tv the other night and it was about how its getting more common for partners to cheat on each other. ANd a woman said on the show that most people don't realize how much fun it is. What crap is that. I was so pissed I had to change the channel. I still don't understand how those people think though.

Wow your a big person to just walk away like that. I admire that. I torn my guy apart. Not when I first found out thought. I called his ex up and talked to her. Not like I had much of a choice. She kept calling to his cell phone.And waited a week before confronting him about it. So I had all the facts.
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Honestly, cheating is not something to be proud of... in fact, I felt like shit afterwards.

My guy at the time and myself were going through some really rough times, since he was having problems at home and taking it out on me. It got to the point where he mentally and emotionally degraded me EVERYDAY, so I went out with some friends one night, met a few people, got tipsy, and made out with a girl.

But now that I think back on it... would you call that cheating? I mean, I'm still a virgin in every way possible 'cept for kissing and groping (17 years of celebacy -sp?-, yay). Is it only considered cheating if you sleep with someone else? Well, either way, I felt like shit. I've forgiven myself, since that was a long time ago, but my ex has yet to forgive and forget.

Losing his friendship was my karma.
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Posted 11/20/08

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Jacque76 I agree with you. I don't understand it myself. Your parnter is lucky to have someone like you.

I know! I don't believe the low self esteem thing either. I think it is for the thrill. I saw a show on tv the other night and it was about how its getting more common for partners to cheat on each other. ANd a woman said on the show that most people don't realize how much fun it is. What crap is that. I was so pissed I had to change the channel. I still don't understand how those people think though.

Wow your a big person to just walk away like that. I admire that. I torn my guy apart. Not when I first found out thought. I called his ex up and talked to her. Not like I had much of a choice. She kept calling to his cell phone.And waited a week before confronting him about it. So I had all the facts.


You're brave for talking to her in the first place. I also don't get 'we have a connection' with the ex. Hello, you're with me now, so whatever connection you had was gone the day you broke up. I don't get the whole 'reconnection' thing either. So I spent a good part of my life with you only for you to say 'we've reconnected'.

When you're committed into a relationship, that means theres something special. If you find yourself not being attracted to the relationship anymore, be the better person and end it before you move on to another relationship. Someone bound to get hurt but it won't be as bad as cheating
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