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To people in relationships..Ever cheated?
Posted 11/20/08 , edited 11/20/08

BlackRainWillFall wrote:

Honestly, cheating is not something to be proud of... in fact, I felt like shit afterwards.

My guy at the time and myself were going through some really rough times, since he was having problems at home and taking it out on me. It got to the point where he mentally and emotionally degraded me EVERYDAY, so I went out with some friends one night, met a few people, got tipsy, and made out with a girl.

But now that I think back on it... would you call that cheating? I mean, I'm still a virgin in every way possible 'cept for kissing and groping (17 years of celebacy -sp?-, yay). Is it only considered cheating if you sleep with someone else? Well, either way, I felt like shit. I've forgiven myself, since that was a long time ago, but my ex has yet to forgive and forget.

Losing his friendship was my karma.

Your ex is probably gay.
Any male would be immensely turned on to know that their partner has groped someone else of the same sex.
Posted 11/20/08
Your a hundred percent right. Wow I completely see where you are coming from. My guys excuse was I just want to be friends with her, I've known her for so long. Yes it was that dumb. I don't understand the whole connection thing either. Its ridiculous in my opinion. Just another way for them to say hey if things don't work out with the person I'm screwing you over with I'll come back to you, because I don't care about you, I'm selfish. Such bullSh*t.

I was surprised that his ex wasn't upset with me for calling. But apparently she didn't know about me either. I don't know if that is true or not. She didn't even know it was his baby. Just talking about it is putting fire in my veins all over. I sadly probably will never forgive or forget this. Sadly that was my first relationship. What a mean person to do that to me when it was my first time living and being with a guy in a real relationship. Anyways.....this topic isn't about me so I'm sorry I'm talking stupidly about myself. Appologizes people.
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Posted 11/20/08

KinkyHamster wrote:


BlackRainWillFall wrote:

Honestly, cheating is not something to be proud of... in fact, I felt like shit afterwards.

My guy at the time and myself were going through some really rough times, since he was having problems at home and taking it out on me. It got to the point where he mentally and emotionally degraded me EVERYDAY, so I went out with some friends one night, met a few people, got tipsy, and made out with a girl.

But now that I think back on it... would you call that cheating? I mean, I'm still a virgin in every way possible 'cept for kissing and groping (17 years of celebacy -sp?-, yay). Is it only considered cheating if you sleep with someone else? Well, either way, I felt like shit. I've forgiven myself, since that was a long time ago, but my ex has yet to forgive and forget.

Losing his friendship was my karma.

Your ex is probably gay.
Any male would be immensely turned on to know that their partner has groped someone else of the same sex.


LMAO, seriously!

But he hates gay/lesbian people. I think that was a contributing factor of why I made out with that girl, just to spite him y'know? I think he took it worse than he would have if I had made out with a guy...
Posted 11/20/08

BlackRainWillFall wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


BlackRainWillFall wrote:

Honestly, cheating is not something to be proud of... in fact, I felt like shit afterwards.

My guy at the time and myself were going through some really rough times, since he was having problems at home and taking it out on me. It got to the point where he mentally and emotionally degraded me EVERYDAY, so I went out with some friends one night, met a few people, got tipsy, and made out with a girl.

But now that I think back on it... would you call that cheating? I mean, I'm still a virgin in every way possible 'cept for kissing and groping (17 years of celebacy -sp?-, yay). Is it only considered cheating if you sleep with someone else? Well, either way, I felt like shit. I've forgiven myself, since that was a long time ago, but my ex has yet to forgive and forget.

Losing his friendship was my karma.

Your ex is probably gay.
Any male would be immensely turned on to know that their partner has groped someone else of the same sex.


LMAO, seriously!

But he hates gay/lesbian people. I think that was a contributing factor of why I made out with that girl, just to spite him y'know? I think he took it worse than he would have if I had made out with a guy...

Then he's homophobic.
Better off with a horny drunk girl than a fag-in-denial.
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Posted 11/20/08

KinkyHamster wrote:


BlackRainWillFall wrote:


KinkyHamster wrote:


BlackRainWillFall wrote:

Honestly, cheating is not something to be proud of... in fact, I felt like shit afterwards.

My guy at the time and myself were going through some really rough times, since he was having problems at home and taking it out on me. It got to the point where he mentally and emotionally degraded me EVERYDAY, so I went out with some friends one night, met a few people, got tipsy, and made out with a girl.

But now that I think back on it... would you call that cheating? I mean, I'm still a virgin in every way possible 'cept for kissing and groping (17 years of celebacy -sp?-, yay). Is it only considered cheating if you sleep with someone else? Well, either way, I felt like shit. I've forgiven myself, since that was a long time ago, but my ex has yet to forgive and forget.

Losing his friendship was my karma.

Your ex is probably gay.
Any male would be immensely turned on to know that their partner has groped someone else of the same sex.


LMAO, seriously!

But he hates gay/lesbian people. I think that was a contributing factor of why I made out with that girl, just to spite him y'know? I think he took it worse than he would have if I had made out with a guy...

Then he's homophobic.
Better off with a horny drunk girl than a fag-in-denial.


Wise words indeed. Still sore about the loss of his friendship, though. Whatevs.

Posted 11/20/08
Yeah once but he doesn't care. O_O
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Posted 11/20/08 , edited 11/20/08
heres what a wise quote i heard when i was a freshman

you've gotta get as many pussies as you can before your only stuck with one
Posted 11/21/08

super52 wrote:

*raises hand*...*3 times*

I'm just curious as to how many people will admit if they have before and if so, how did karma end up paying you back? Were you cheated on by your next partner...etc? Because I was I'll never cheat ever again because of that........sike..no but seriously. To the people not in a relationship, do you think you are the type of person that once you've found that PRINCE CHARMING riding on a beautiful white horse with ass-less chaps on, riding off into the sunset on the beach in his ass-less chaps TYPE of soulmate, and vice versa for the guys, do you feel like no matter what you would never ever cheat on them?


Use the below threads please

Have you ever cheated on someone?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-17489


and for a reverse..
Did your BF/GF cheat on you?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/forumtopic-114729

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