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When you start talking to someone
Posted 11/20/08
So, I don't know if this has been said or not because I'm too lazy to look and I haven't seen it in on the forums but, what do you people think when people start talking to someone because they are "interested in them" I mean, like I hear people all the time say that they don't really care about looks, but don't you need to be at least a bit attracted to someone's looks to start talking to them?

For example, if you saw a fat guy on the bus and he happens to be a really nice guy, are you going to talk to him? Most chances are you're not.

But if the guy was not fat, and pretty attractive who is kind of nice, you'll at least want to talk to him.

And so, I wanted your guys' opinions on this.
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Posted 11/20/08
its easy for me i just dont talk to ne one.
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Posted 11/20/08
yeah that's pretty true..
but I don't really care I talk to anyone.
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Posted 11/20/08

senjiku wrote:
For example, if you saw a fat guy on the bus and he happens to be a really nice guy, are you going to talk to him? Most chances are you're not.


I've had my share of talking to fat men on buses.
2 out of 10 were actually real nice and interesting to talk to. Would never start a relationship with them but I don't see why you would need to be attracted to someone to talk to them..

Thats like someone trying to ask for directions and you going..
NO! sorryy! you're too fat to talk too! go away! I have a boyfriend, creep!
Posted 11/20/08

Kippu wrote:


senjiku wrote:
For example, if you saw a fat guy on the bus and he happens to be a really nice guy, are you going to talk to him? Most chances are you're not.


I've had my share of talking to fat men on buses.
2 out of 10 were actually real nice and interesting to talk to. Would never start a relationship with them but I don't see why you would need to be attracted to someone to talk to them..

Thats like someone trying to ask for directions and you going..
NO! sorryy! you're too fat to talk too! go away! I have a boyfriend, creep!


Im not saying that you shouldn't talk to someone if they aren't attractive or they're too fat. What im trying to say is why people say they dont care about looks but they probably wouldn't talk to someone like "that" who isn't attractive unless they were introduced to each other and got to know each other.

By "that" i mean talking to someone and getting to know them so that you could get in a relationship.

I hope im making sense.. -.-
Posted 11/20/08
I only talk to people if they talk to me first.
Or.
If I need help with something.
If I find someone attractive, I would rather install hidden cams in their shower instead of talking to them.
Posted 11/20/08
i get to meet people here and there and well its not hard to talk to someone else.
unless they dont wanna talk to you.
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Posted 11/20/08 , edited 11/20/08
I avoid ppl i dont no as much as i can im not good around new ppl i get quiet till i actually feel comfortable around them
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Posted 11/20/08

KinkyHamster wrote:

I only talk to people if they talk to me first.
Or.
If I need help with something.
If I find someone attractive, I would rather install hidden cams in their shower instead of talking to them.


MmMm ` hidden cams will work xD
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Posted 11/20/08
I have more trouble talking to attractive people, honestly. If I see a fat guy on the bus reading manga or something, I will talk to him.
Posted 11/20/08
Kinkyhamster, wow your dumbness doesn't seem to amaze me. Anyways back to what the person posted this thread for.


Honestly I see where your coming from. Maybe its just me. But I talk to over weight people. Yes you are right to a degree, we have to physically be attracted to someone in order to want to pursue them. For me its not about the body, its the eyes. Eyes to someone say everything about them. You can tell if someone is lying. I read some where that the eyes are the key to a persons soul. I don't know if thats true. But I seem to believe it.

I would date a guy even if he couldn't give me sex and was in a wheelchair if he loved me enough and treated me like a lady. I would even marry a guy like that. I have found in alot of my searches for the right guy that looks are not what is important. I always end up with a great looker who is a asshole in the end. And has screwed me over because I'm too nice I guess.

They say its a thing built into us naturally to like physically fit people. For mating purposes. Now hear me out. They say guys like big breasts because back in the day that is how a guy picked out a good woman to breed with.(sounds strange saying it like in science terms)lol And they say women like mental qualites in men because of what women wanted back then and that is how they accepted the right mate. Again a theory.

I like it when a guy just looks at me and smiles and says hi. Even if hes not the best looker. That smile in his eyes can make up for the difference in looks if he has the heart.

But yes most women probably will not go out of their way to talk to someone who doesn't take care of himself. Unless they are gold diggers which sicken me.
Sorry for the rant.
Posted 11/20/08 , edited 11/20/08

Shotaru wrote:

Kinkyhamster, wow your dumbness doesn't seem to amaze me. Anyways back to what the person posted this thread for.


Honestly I see where your coming from. Maybe its just me. But I talk to over weight people. Yes you are right to a degree, we have to physically be attracted to someone in order to want to pursue them. For me its not about the body, its the eyes. Eyes to someone say everything about them. You can tell if someone is lying. I read some where that the eyes are the key to a persons soul. I don't know if thats true. But I seem to believe it.

I would date a guy even if he couldn't give me sex and was in a wheelchair if he loved me enough and treated me like a lady. I would even marry a guy like that. I have found in alot of my searches for the right guy that looks are not what is important. I always end up with a great looker who is a asshole in the end. And has screwed me over because I'm too nice I guess.

They say its a thing built into us naturally to like physically fit people. For mating purposes. Now hear me out. They say guys like big breasts because back in the day that is how a guy picked out a good woman to breed with.(sounds strange saying it like in science terms)lol And they say women like mental qualites in men because of what women wanted back then and that is how they accepted the right mate. Again a theory.

I like it when a guy just looks at me and smiles and says hi. Even if hes not the best looker. That smile in his eyes can make up for the difference in looks if he has the heart.

But yes most women probably will not go out of their way to talk to someone who doesn't take care of himself. Unless they are gold diggers which sicken me.
Sorry for the rant.

Shotaru.
You still haven't responded to my earlier post.
I am 15.
If you expect any level of maturity from a normal 15 year old boy, then you have never interacted with a male of your species.
Also, you are probably the only person who takes things srsly.
Go suck a dick and loosen up.
Considering your name has "shota" in it, you do not know anything about little boys.
Go back to pedophile school.

And that concludes the lesson for today.
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Posted 11/20/08
Well I've talked with a bunch of strangers on the bus, but I'm not the one that starts the conversation. I don't mind the weight if they're nice people. I rather talk to an overweight but nice person, than a hot chick with a crappy personality.
Posted 11/20/08
I talk to anyone! hahaha i don't talk to them randomly of course. O__O thats just kind of weird.
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Posted 11/20/08
nah I don't to everybody lol, when they seem nice. But I do agree on the fact that sometimes, you're interested in the person's look thus you'll talk to him/her
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