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Posted 11/21/08

KinkyHamster wrote:

I only talk to people if they talk to me first.
Or.
If I need help with something.
If I find someone attractive, I would rather install hidden cams in their shower instead of talking to them.


haha,
i create a porn satellite,
Posted 11/21/08
That's like saying every girl that talks to you likes you (which would be pretty creepy for someone to think that...), but I just to people because I'm bored.
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Yes, at first people are attracted by looks. But it only takes around a few minutes to get a feel for a person, and decide if they are right for you. Sometimes what happens is girls purposely choose uglier guys to talk to because they know their personalities are usually better than those "Hot" guys. Don't think we don't know about the fact that less attractive guys go out of their way to make girls feel wanted, and that's exactly what we want.

Personally, I don't talk to guys I am actually physically attracted to. I've been hurt by one of those "Hot" guys. I don't want the same thing happening again. If I do decide to talk to a "Hot" guy, I would first make sure they are "safe" to talk to. In other words, they won't put me down.
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Posted 11/21/08
It usually depend on what kind of conversion you're talking about.

Personally, I don't talk to anyone unless they talk to me first.
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Posted 11/21/08

wolfkaiser wrote:

It usually depend on what kind of conversion you're talking about.

Personally, I don't talk to anyone unless they talk to me first.


Hahah, me too. I consider it to be kind of a bad habit of mine. =0 But once in a while I will strike up conversations with strangers, they're usually other girls though. =)
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bahaha i talk to anyone!!=)
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chances r u r right
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Posted 11/21/08 , edited 11/21/08

I wouldnt mind the persons weight because personally i dont think its right to judge someone before you get to know them..anyways anyone who is nice and not rude or mean is good enough...but most of the time id probably b listening to music to realli pay attentionto anyone on the bus anways..lol..
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Posted 11/21/08

Kippu wrote:


senjiku wrote:
For example, if you saw a fat guy on the bus and he happens to be a really nice guy, are you going to talk to him? Most chances are you're not.


I've had my share of talking to fat men on buses.
2 out of 10 were actually real nice and interesting to talk to. Would never start a relationship with them but I don't see why you would need to be attracted to someone to talk to them..

Thats like someone trying to ask for directions and you going..
NO! sorryy! you're too fat to talk too! go away! I have a boyfriend, creep!


HMM, if the guy were fat, that wouldn't stop me from talking to him.
Personality is uuuber key.
Most fat en are nice to me though O:
More like 9 outta 10 ^^
Posted 11/23/08

senjiku wrote:

So, I don't know if this has been said or not because I'm too lazy to look and I haven't seen it in on the forums but, what do you people think when people start talking to someone because they are "interested in them" I mean, like I hear people all the time say that they don't really care about looks, but don't you need to be at least a bit attracted to someone's looks to start talking to them?

For example, if you saw a fat guy on the bus and he happens to be a really nice guy, are you going to talk to him? Most chances are you're not.

But if the guy was not fat, and pretty attractive who is kind of nice, you'll at least want to talk to him.

And so, I wanted your guys' opinions on this.



OK so I guess I am maybe a bit weird but when I ride the bus (which doesn't happen much as bus service in our city sucks) I do talk to the fat guy....and the crazy looking gangster...and the old lady who makes the funny sounds....and the little kid on the way to school....and the homeless dude too. I have had some really enlightening conversations this way... and I guess I just like to meet new people. But then, I am also never really out scouting around for potential boyfriends just enjoying the people fate brings my way.

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Posted 11/23/08
First Impressions are important. If its a fat guy we're talking about and he/she is asking for help or the other way around, I would talk to him/her since. But if the guy looks like crap, then I'd probably avoid him.
On the other hand, I would talk to a fat person because I wouldn't want to be seen discriminating someone just because of their appearance. I contradict with what I said earlier didn't I...
Posted 11/23/08

Shotaru wrote:

I would date a guy even if he couldn't give me sex and was in a wheelchair if he loved me enough and treated me like a lady. I would even marry a guy like that. I have found in alot of my searches for the right guy that looks are not what is important. I always end up with a great looker who is a asshole in the end. And has screwed me over because I'm too nice I guess.

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I just had to respond to this because recently my brother set me up to date a friend of his who is in a wheelchair, and also because I sometimes do volunteer work with people who are wheelchair bound. I have since dated him four more times because he is just fun to be with and we have a lot in common. It is a common myth that guys who are paralized can't have sex but it is for the most part wrong. Even though they cannot really feel anything "down there" the body does tend to still respond in the same ways to stimulus and all the parts still tend to work. In other words most guys in wheelchairs can still have sex and can "make babies". There is a famous paraplegic known as "The Hollywood Quad" and he has a web site you can visit if you want more detailed information. So anyway if you do decide to date a guy in a wheelchair you may have to give up some things but sex is probably not one of them.
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Posted 11/23/08 , edited 11/23/08

KinkyHamster wrote:

I only talk to people if they talk to me first.
Or.
If I need help with something.
If I find someone attractive, I would rather install hidden cams in their shower instead of talking to them.


i have a hidden camera in my shoe so i can look up skirts with out the hassle of getting caught i also do it to men when they are on the toilet seat



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Posted 11/23/08
I talk to people most of the time there is nothing better to do so if someone seems interesting I normally talk to them. I am not really shy I think it has something to do with the fact that nothing really fazes me anymore I can do things most people would be to embarressed to do and not really care one way or another. So if I want to speak to someone I go ahead and do so.
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Posted 11/23/08
erm I talk with anyone, as long as they start the conversation, I find it too wierd to start a convo out of the blue to a complete stranger, to me, it doesn't matter what the person looks like if it is just a quick chat or something, but if I am looking for a relationship then obvoisly I'd want to talk with someone who looks good lol, does that make me vain??
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