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why doesn't anyone talk to there X's after they breakup?
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Posted 11/25/08
i fine it weird how when people break up, they delete them from there cell, msn, myspace, any way possible just to lose contact with that person, i always try to stay friends with them but it never works out, cant you guys or girls just forget the past? the hole point is to learn from your mistakes, that doesnt mean you have to find every way just to eliminate that person from your life, so what are your opinions on why people do this?
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Because you come to know too much about the person through dating, and find that they are not someone you want to be associated with. Or, you may still have feelings for them a little, and you know it can't work out, so the basic instinct of fight or flight comes into play. Out of sight is out of mind. But that's just me, and I date fucktards.
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Eh, I would remain friends. I would have no problem with that.
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23 / F / Wales, UK
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what!!!!!
my friend and her x are still friends well i gess eveybody is diffrent
some people do some people don't thats life *does peace sign*
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Posted 11/25/08
Emotions are a powerful thing. Maybe it's because they still care and they don't want to be in pain when they see them online.
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o_o i sometimes talk to my ex's . not very often , but its not really awkward or anything... most of the time , anyway .
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Posted 11/25/08
it depends on what kind of person you used to date
and if your ex doesn't wanna be friends anymore after you guys break up, then move on. you deserve to be with nicer people.

i'm still on good terms with a few of my ex. the rest of them can just go to hell cos they're a rotten bunch with the word bastard written on their faces.
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Never had a gf...

But if I did and broke up I would still be friends and talk to my X... Just not as much...lol
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Cause mine was so annoying
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25 / F / Trinidad and Tobago
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Posted 11/25/08

Akaoni21 wrote:



and vice versa.
Posted 11/25/08
There are only two guys from my past that I deliberately have no contact with and in both cases it's because they just couldn't seem to let go. There are others who just slowly drifted out of my life but when I run into one of them we usually stop for coffee and a chat.
I very seldom cut someone out of my life.

~Echo
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either because they still care for that person and it hurts them to just be friends with them OR
they got dumped when they didnt want to


im still friends, no actually, CLOSE friends with most of my ex's
but some i didnt want to break up with and so that i wont feel pain anymore
i lose contact but it actually depends what kinda person he/she is
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I attempted to remain friends with my ex. I've now had two emotional breakdowns, various illnesses and I've had to go to the police and report him for harassment.

Methinks it's better to make a clean break XD
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Nyarth wrote:

Never had a gf...

But if I did and broke up I would still be friends and talk to my X... Just not as much...lol


Same here.
But I don't really see why you have to stop being friends with someone you went out with.
It just means you ain't involved in an intimate relationship.
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