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why doesn't anyone talk to there X's after they breakup?
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Posted 12/5/08
Because seeing their faces and pretending to be friends hurts more -.- (I guess ^_^)
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29 / F / saturn =)
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Posted 12/5/08
i don't really know. all i know is that i feel awkward seeing him. and i really don't like to be his friend anymore. it can't go back to what we were.
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LilLaoWow wrote:

"Hey, i'm sorry we've been dating for years and years and i'm leaving you and giving you a BS reason. Not only am I leaving, i'm crushing your heart as I walk out on you but can we still be friends?"

Just because you can so easily break it off and feel no hurt whatsoever, doesn't mean the other feels the same. Love hurts. May as well ask someone who just stabbed you in the heart with a rusted butter knife to be your friend because that totally makes sense.

But we're human. Some can overlook it and choose the nonsensical path but i'm sure the majority would like some space between the person they once held dear.


Yes ... That's totally what I'm talking about..
I mean no matter how 'peacefully' things ended there's still a little bitterness when a relationship ends..
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Posted 12/5/08
that's because each of them hurt a Lot..hahaha XD
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Posted 12/5/08

Neukuhn wrote:

i fine it weird how when people break up, they delete them from there cell, msn, myspace, any way possible just to lose contact with that person, i always try to stay friends with them but it never works out, cant you guys or girls just forget the past? the hole point is to learn from your mistakes, that doesnt mean you have to find every way just to eliminate that person from your life, so what are your opinions on why people do this?

The past is not easily forgotten. If your ex removes contact from you, it's either the following:
1. He hates your guts.
2. Being around you brings painful memories.

Logical.

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Posted 12/5/08

LilLaoWow wrote:

"Hey, i'm sorry we've been dating for years and years and i'm leaving you and giving you a BS reason. Not only am I leaving, i'm crushing your heart as I walk out on you but can we still be friends?"


Oh heck yeah, girls who doesn't like you no more always say these words or the like.

Anyway they don't talk to their EX'es coz of the quote above.
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Posted 12/5/08
because there is too much bad blood and most likely they are beyond repair??
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insane_killer_bunny wrote:

I attempted to remain friends with my ex. I've now had two emotional breakdowns, various illnesses and I've had to go to the police and report him for harassment.

Methinks it's better to make a clean break XD


wow! sorry to read that...
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aminasahra wrote:


insane_killer_bunny wrote:

I attempted to remain friends with my ex. I've now had two emotional breakdowns, various illnesses and I've had to go to the police and report him for harassment.

Methinks it's better to make a clean break XD


wow! sorry to read that...


Ahaha it's all good ^_^ broke up with him back in March. It's starting to cool down a little bit now XD
Posted 12/5/08
because even though you broke up in "good terms" someone always gets hurt....you put your heart in a relationship and just there is always animosity.....

plus in my cases they always end up hating me and blaming me for the break up....so i dont end up talking to them....
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Posted 12/5/08

insane_killer_bunny wrote:


aminasahra wrote:


insane_killer_bunny wrote:

I attempted to remain friends with my ex. I've now had two emotional breakdowns, various illnesses and I've had to go to the police and report him for harassment.

Methinks it's better to make a clean break XD


wow! sorry to read that...


Ahaha it's all good ^_^ broke up with him back in March. It's starting to cool down a little bit now XD


that happened to my friend,,, she also got sick.... i was so sad when she told me about... i mean, she loved this guy like SOOOO MUCH and he didn't even like her back...she's really cute, and other guys liked her...but this one,, got her really sick....i didn't believe people would get sick over love till, i heard about her story
Posted 12/5/08 , edited 12/5/08
depends on what grounds you separated. ; )

btw, this is a crappy thread...it's not funny, it's not interesting, it's just one of the millions boring fucktarded threads about some relationship issues.

on top of that, if you'd have some brains, you'd REALISE that you can answer this fucking stupid question on your own, without any help from some bystanders.

boring.
Posted 12/5/08
I talk to my ex from time to time. We hang out even if we have new ones. We are friends after all.
Posted 12/5/08
people delete because it probably brings back painful memories. Sometimes it IS better to just clear ur life of them and just move on. I know that if you try to stay friends with them, one of u will fall back in love, and the other one wont return those feelings.

also, it's hard seeing them w/ their new bf/gf...even as "friends"
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Posted 12/5/08

KinkyHamster wrote:

Probably too busy fucking like rabbits to talk.
Don't like %30 of people get back with their ex's as fuck buddies?


This I concur with break up sex is the new 1980's pink daddy sex....
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