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What if you've fallen to a guy/girl because of his/her "anime-like" characteristics but he/she dosen't love you back?
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gLamOrOuz21 wrote:

right now i'm experiencing that..

and that boy is like otani from lovely complex..

i got really attracted to him because i see otani's traits inside him..

they say he also has a crush on me but never had the courage to court me

because he thinks that its impossible that i'm going to like him..

but there is this girl that i dont know if he's really courting...

all i know is they are always together..

right now i'm wondering that what if i tell him that i like him..?

would he leave the other girl and court me instead??

but what if the other girl already fell in love with him..?

it's going to turn out that i'm cruel, right?

wAaAaAaAhh!!

i really dont know what to do......


Oh my gosh... Are we like... twins or something??! I'm experiencing that as well! Only, drop the anime characteristics part... He's a veeeeeeery nice person! and I hear he also likes me back(I doubt it T.T) but doesn't have the courage to court me. And then here comes another girl who likes him but she insists that she treats him like an elder brother... But... they're always together and I'm beginning to have 2nd thoughts... Anyway, evreything you wrote here, it describes everything I'm experiencing! OMG, I can't believe there's also another person with my situation... therefore, I think I can understand how you feel...
Do you two talk often? cuz we don't... I mean, before we did and we were close but then he stopps talking to me and I did the same... Right now it would only be like, "hi" or "yeah" or "please"... *sigh*... and there's a sad bit at the end....
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How the fuck can you be like an anime?
Does he have huge eyes, a tiny mouth, and overreact in the presence of women?
Or are you talking about the proverbial Asshole, who is sometimes presented in anime as cool, and laid back, laissez-faire, etc.? Those guys are in the cartoon because the animators are sick of their bullshit. Women always fall for these guys because you can't resist a fucking challenge to your authority. Men are violent when they get territorial, women are just stupid as fuck, and attack their friends, sacrifice themselves, and worst of all, fall for the same tricks and get stuck in bad situations.



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Hmm I [wanted] to say that [I'd] do everything [so that] [he would] fall in love , and stay with me...[but] [should] he [reject] (neglect?) me {I would} just step [aside] [because] [I am too proud] and I think [I'd] [just] leave and suffer and [after a while I would forget.] I hope [To some it may seem stupid, but I feel the urge to express my feelings the way they are, rather than pretend to be somebody I'm not. Don't judge.]


This would be the perfect example of this retarded behavior. After seeing the grammatical changes I made to the post, notice the devotion, that she claims that she would gladly give (despite her forgetfulness of the conditional tense). Notice how she also says that she would just let things go, should they turn for the worse. Women lie all the time, but they have no idea that they're doing it, I swear to god. What does being proud have to do with sidestepping the issue? That just seems like a refusal to admit defeat to me, and a pretense by which Velvet over here would imagine that she was a better person for having failed.

Women of the world, stop being proud. Did you know?: It's a fact, in China, they used to kill women born under the sign of the horse, because they would be proud later on in life. The same was true in england for girls born with red hair, although that discrimination was based more upon a blatant racism against the irish on the adjacent island. Being proud doesn't make you a stronger person, I think that this new sense of 'pride' that girls of this era are coming into stems mainly from an overdeveloped defense mechanism. Girls are fucking brutal to begin with, so the less popular ones get harassed all the time. What does this leave us? A bunch of insecure unpopular girls, of course! Lardos, Goths, and Anime fans for all, Yeah! Now, what can these girls do to stop being harassed? Nothing, because our legal code doesn't have any 'fighting words' clauses in it. For this, they learn to defend themselves by glancing the blows, and becoming hardheaded. They want justification for having such a pretty defense, since all girls want fucking justification for everything: In comes "I'm a proud person! It's just me!" I'm not saying for girls to open themselves up to being harassed, since that would cause an even higher spike in self-mutilation and suicide rates, but I am saying not to let that become your person. Just realize, please, that you're not going to be defined by what other people say or do to you, and instead of building up a shell of 'pride,' just say to yourselves, "Whatever, I'm just going to let that one slide." and actually mean it. Don't ever remember anything that anyone has ever said. Don't hire a shrink. Don't confide in your pseudo-boyfriends, whom you toy around with to get attention. Don't even think for a second that anyone else even thinks about what they say. Don't believe in yourself either, believe in me who believes in you.

Also, stop toying with the hearts of men. If you're secretly lusting after the asshole, stop. Go fuck your best friend instead, lord knows he's been waiting for it. And for the love of god, pretend for a god damned second that you like other people. Wear bright colors, smile at strangers, laugh when a joke is funny, and allow men to hold doors for you. I'm calling for a Womanist movement: stop being freemartins. Go be who you are, not who you've been forced into being.

I doubt that this user is actually 21, because first off, 21-year-olds can fucking type; otherwise, they wouldn't have made it out of high school. God I hope that women stop being retarded by the time they reach that age, otherwise I am going to be a very lonely man. At least I'll have Jack Daniels.

Good night, and Fuck off.
Peace.


lol hmm you`re much critical regarding me...without even know me ei may be you`re right about some of the thinks...but I don`t think is bad for the woman to have pride !!!!! The pride can be bad quality sometimes but if it is matched to a good heart I do not think that it is bad...and again why you think is bad for woman to be pride??? lol I can`t understand that...really are you that guy tipe who thing the womans plase is in the hause...if is it like that you`re lil late with the centuries... I know that the man has pride too and when I`m with some one I never do something to Rumple Or Reject this...but you can know that you just saw I few words and make a psychological decision...lol My pride is something important for me but Its not my way of the life !!! OK enough with this...you really make me lil mad because yea I`m 21 and yea I`m that tipe of woman who wons to do everything by herself and I don`t think is bad...also to say that words may be I have some bad experience...but you can`t know that do you?
P.S. You`re 17 and you think of Jack Daniels like a save from the world lol you`re really...never mind
ok kid peace lol
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i think someone just got a Major heart break

never experience love, or even fallen in love, but if that happened i'll do everything i can for her to fall for me (like the manga/anime Suzuka)
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Kill them!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL
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Velvet_gaze I don't think Sade612's comment was meant to say that pride in women doesn't make them strong but shows their insecurities and that pride is our natural self defense.
I think that his description is very perceptive and if you look at his comment closely you can see a lot of supporting details that supports his stand of his view on women pride.
However, I have to say that not all unpopular girls are insecure and that the comment about women being irrational is something I have noticed for a long time. But I think it depends on the type of pride that someone has that justifies their actions in both men and women. I have noticed overconfidence and extreme pride in girls that have led them into bad situations. But I think that everyone has pride in them especially girls because it is their "defense mechanism" just as Sade612 has mentioned. I don't think pride is that bad but it
depends on how proud a person is.

p.s.: The sentence about what China did to women back them irritates me greatly and if I were alive when that was happening I probably would have bashed my head against a wall.
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kh3eff wrote:

Velvet_gaze I don't think Sade612's comment was meant to say that pride in women doesn't make them strong but shows their insecurities and that pride is our natural self defense.
I think that his description is very perceptive and if you look at his comment closely you can see a lot of supporting details that supports his stand of his view on women pride.
However, I have to say that not all unpopular girls are insecure and that the comment about women being irrational is something I have noticed for a long time. But I think it depends on the type of pride that someone has that justifies their actions in both men and women. I have noticed overconfidence and extreme pride in girls that have led them into bad situations. But I think that everyone has pride in them especially girls because it is their "defense mechanism" just as Sade612 has mentioned. I don't think pride is that bad but it
depends on how proud a person is.

p.s.: The sentence about what China did to women back them irritates me greatly and if I were alive when that was happening I probably would have bashed my head against a wall.


Yea may be you`re right...I taked too personaly I think...yea I also think the pride is like "defense mechanism" for the most of the woman but why you think is like thet !?!? may be it has a reson and that reson is because someones cause (may be woman or man) may be because of trample...I don`t wont to intensify the subject so I`ll stop here...but really I can say a lot of things about why womans in this age, are takeing much seriously their pride..and its not only my personal vew Also about that what China did to woman I can say only that...THANK GOD THAT I`M NOT CHINA Citizen in this time because I`ll try to kill all mankind there I have free will and I`m happy of that...lol I like more your vew of the things
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Thank you Velvet_gaze. I happen to be a girl who goes to an all girls school so I can say I have seen a lot of prideful people. I am a proud person too; however, that is only when I need to be which doesn't happen very often. I suppose I experienced the whole popular girl bullies people faze in middle school but I wasn't the one bullied it was my friend which took a toll on her confidence. Girls are very brutal but in my high school I am on good terms on everyone (its probably because I look like an elementary student).

p.s.: there is an all boys school across the street that our school shares classes with and vice versa so I guess you can't really call our school an all girls school

p.s.: I am an eccentric person in my school who wears pants all the time. (it makes life fun!)
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bang my head againt the wall and say, OK IM DREAMING then life goes on
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Sade612 wrote:

How the fuck can you be like an anime?
Does he have huge eyes, a tiny mouth, and overreact in the presence of women?
Or are you talking about the proverbial Asshole, who is sometimes presented in anime as cool, and laid back, laissez-faire, etc.? Those guys are in the cartoon because the animators are sick of their bullshit. Women always fall for these guys because you can't resist a fucking challenge to your authority. Men are violent when they get territorial, women are just stupid as fuck, and attack their friends, sacrifice themselves, and worst of all, fall for the same tricks and get stuck in bad situations.



velvet_gaze wrote:

Hmm I [wanted] to say that [I'd] do everything [so that] [he would] fall in love , and stay with me...[but] [should] he [reject] (neglect?) me {I would} just step [aside] [because] [I am too proud] and I think [I'd] [just] leave and suffer and [after a while I would forget.] I hope [To some it may seem stupid, but I feel the urge to express my feelings the way they are, rather than pretend to be somebody I'm not. Don't judge.]


This would be the perfect example of this retarded behavior. After seeing the grammatical changes I made to the post, notice the devotion, that she claims that she would gladly give (despite her forgetfulness of the conditional tense). Notice how she also says that she would just let things go, should they turn for the worse. Women lie all the time, but they have no idea that they're doing it, I swear to god. What does being proud have to do with sidestepping the issue? That just seems like a refusal to admit defeat to me, and a pretense by which Velvet over here would imagine that she was a better person for having failed.

Women of the world, stop being proud. Did you know?: It's a fact, in China, they used to kill women born under the sign of the horse, because they would be proud later on in life. The same was true in england for girls born with red hair, although that discrimination was based more upon a blatant racism against the irish on the adjacent island. Being proud doesn't make you a stronger person, I think that this new sense of 'pride' that girls of this era are coming into stems mainly from an overdeveloped defense mechanism. Girls are fucking brutal to begin with, so the less popular ones get harassed all the time. What does this leave us? A bunch of insecure unpopular girls, of course! Lardos, Goths, and Anime fans for all, Yeah! Now, what can these girls do to stop being harassed? Nothing, because our legal code doesn't have any 'fighting words' clauses in it. For this, they learn to defend themselves by glancing the blows, and becoming hardheaded. They want justification for having such a pretty defense, since all girls want fucking justification for everything: In comes "I'm a proud person! It's just me!" I'm not saying for girls to open themselves up to being harassed, since that would cause an even higher spike in self-mutilation and suicide rates, but I am saying not to let that become your person. Just realize, please, that you're not going to be defined by what other people say or do to you, and instead of building up a shell of 'pride,' just say to yourselves, "Whatever, I'm just going to let that one slide." and actually mean it. Don't ever remember anything that anyone has ever said. Don't hire a shrink. Don't confide in your pseudo-boyfriends, whom you toy around with to get attention. Don't even think for a second that anyone else even thinks about what they say. Don't believe in yourself either, believe in me who believes in you.

Also, stop toying with the hearts of men. If you're secretly lusting after the asshole, stop. Go fuck your best friend instead, lord knows he's been waiting for it. And for the love of god, pretend for a god damned second that you like other people. Wear bright colors, smile at strangers, laugh when a joke is funny, and allow men to hold doors for you. I'm calling for a Womanist movement: stop being freemartins. Go be who you are, not who you've been forced into being.

I doubt that this user is actually 21, because first off, 21-year-olds can fucking type; otherwise, they wouldn't have made it out of high school. God I hope that women stop being retarded by the time they reach that age, otherwise I am going to be a very lonely man. At least I'll have Jack Daniels.

Good night, and Fuck off.
Peace.


I agree with 99% of what you had to say.Except, don't fuck your best friend, its a BAD idea, but yeah, don't lust after assholes, its really quite annoying, and doesn't do much to redeem women's character.
Women are wonderful, really.But thats once you get past this messed up external shell of, well, pride would be the most accurate word i guess, though not quite :P
And its due to this that guys have it hard when they wanna just go up to a girl they like and even hold a normal conversation without any pretence.
And I was almost in shock when Sade612 said "And for the love of god, pretend for a god damned second that you like other people. Wear bright colors, smile at strangers, laugh when a joke is funny, and allow men to hold doors for you."
That is so true.Don't treat men like shit just cause they are nice to you.Its so completely messed up.
As for the topic, I'd think anyone resembling an anime character for physical features would be a freak xD
But, if I ever found a girl with a personality like Minori's(from toradora) I'd try my best to get to know her, and atleast be her friends if the romantic side doesn't work.
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find a new one, i dun think that i will onli fall for 1 out of like a billion people out there
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velvet_gaze wrote:


iamaweirdo wrote:


velvet_gaze wrote:


iamaweirdo wrote:


velvet_gaze wrote:

Hmm I woned to say that I`ll do everything for him to fall in love and stay with me...BUT if he regect me just step a said BECAUSE I`m too pride persone and I think I`ll gust leave and suffer and afther wail forget I hopee Its stuped but its me


o_o how many typos are in here?


lo I ges too many...but It can`t be helped


roflmao another 2 typos

Yea in my heart its like a kindergarden sooooo many kids with so many diferent personality....what about you? ^^


-____- hmm in my heart its a gamestation, too many nerds? I dont seem to understand roflmao
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just accept that he doesn't like you and find for someone else
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iamaweirdo wrote:


velvet_gaze wrote:


iamaweirdo wrote:


velvet_gaze wrote:


iamaweirdo wrote:


velvet_gaze wrote:

Hmm I woned to say that I`ll do everything for him to fall in love and stay with me...BUT if he regect me just step a said BECAUSE I`m too pride persone and I think I`ll gust leave and suffer and afther wail forget I hopee Its stuped but its me


o_o how many typos are in here?


lo I ges too many...but It can`t be helped


roflmao another 2 typos

Yea in my heart its like a kindergarden sooooo many kids with so many diferent personality....what about you? ^^


-____- hmm in my heart its a gamestation, too many nerds? I dont seem to understand roflmao


To tell you the true me tooooooo
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i don't care.

why would i even need a gf if i could do it with my hand


Best. Quote. Ever
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