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Posted 12/3/08

xXSerenityLiteXx wrote:


sweetmelody17 wrote:

hey there there...i have a problem....
you see (whispers: i am kinda fat and ugly.....oh okay i don't think i am ugly but hey! i am fat)
ok...this is my problem a friend of mine always forcing me to have a boyfriend...
but my problem is will someone like me?? after all i am nice...and i really want to experience love...that's all..and thanks in advance




There is nothing wrong with you. No matter how you look like or act like, you are always beautiful! It doesn't matter if you're skinny or fat (gomenosai ^^") because there is a person who will be looking for a person like you! Don't let your looks get in your way. Most people will go after their personality. There's nothing wrong with your problem. It's ok to be who you are because you are who you are! (hehe sorry if it sounds kinda confusing ^^") So no worries! And I'm sure that someone will like you! Don't give up yet!~


i am so happy!!! thank you so much!!!
Posted 12/3/08

sweetmelody17 wrote:


xXSerenityLiteXx wrote:


sweetmelody17 wrote:

hey there there...i have a problem....
you see (whispers: i am kinda fat and ugly.....oh okay i don't think i am ugly but hey! i am fat)
ok...this is my problem a friend of mine always forcing me to have a boyfriend...
but my problem is will someone like me?? after all i am nice...and i really want to experience love...that's all..and thanks in advance




There is nothing wrong with you. No matter how you look like or act like, you are always beautiful! It doesn't matter if you're skinny or fat (gomenosai ^^") because there is a person who will be looking for a person like you! Don't let your looks get in your way. Most people will go after their personality. There's nothing wrong with your problem. It's ok to be who you are because you are who you are! (hehe sorry if it sounds kinda confusing ^^") So no worries! And I'm sure that someone will like you! Don't give up yet!~


i am so happy!!! thank you so much!!!



No problem! Glad to help!
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Posted 12/4/08

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Ahem......this problem is not mine....this is one of my friends problem.....
she is a girl ok...
There is a guy who always bullies her......but it's like flirting bully...like he always tells his friends that he was asking that girl to go out but the truth isn't....and he always complements my friend.....and even said to me that they were going out.....then one time when we are on the camp...we all girls play truth or dare and then its my turn to ask questions and my friend is the one who will answer i ask to her who is your crush? then she replied that boy's name...after camp i ask her if she really like that boy she said she really love him...but a week later i found out that the boy already got a girlfriend...and my friend did not know that...and she really believe that the boy likes her...so now what should i do??



Okay, Ayu-chan wants to butt in again because, well, Ayu-chan is nosy....

First, that guy is a big jerk. Yes, a scumbag of the lowest kind.
Okay, now that I've said that, let's move on.
I think you should be honest to your friend. It would be best to do so instead of keeping it from her---not telling her would noly hurt her more in the end...no matter how much the truth hurts, we must learn to face it and accept it. So that we can move on.
Tell your friend as gently as possible about that guy and be there for her when she needs you. Eventually, she will accept is--as long as she has someone beside her to help her. DON'T leave her alone after such a revelation. People--especially those in love---tend to be very emotional and sensitive at times like this. Just be honest and tell her you're there for her. *smiles* Gambatte, Pamela-chan. ^_^


Thank you so much onee-chan ^_^


You're welcome! ^_^
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Posted 12/4/08
How do I know if a guy likes me?
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Posted 12/4/08

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How do I know if a guy likes me?


Hmm...there are many types of guys out there. Some are flirty, some bashful, while others may be cold or disinterested. Normally, you can notice if a guys like you if...

1. They really nice to you. As in they would do anything you want.
2. They always smile at you.
3. They stare at you when you're not looking.
4, They blush when they see you.
5. They hate seeing you cry.
6. They hate people who make you cry.
7. They super sweet with you.
8. They can't stand being away from you.
9. They would rather hurt themselves rather than hurt you.
10. They do the dumbest things just to make you smile or laugh when you're down.

These are the things I've noticed about some guys. I'm not certain if they apply to all guys...sorry... (I'm so sorry, I'm absolutely clueless about guys... *bows apologetically*)
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Thanks for telling me, what if that guy is someone that always smiles and kind to others, sometimes send message that have a bit kinda like love letters and told you to reply them if you like them~ (sorry if it's confusing XD)
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Posted 12/4/08

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Thanks for telling me, what if that guy is someone that always smiles and kind to others, sometimes send message that have a bit kinda like love letters and told you to reply them if you like them~ (sorry if it's confusing XD)


You're welcome!
Hmm...that kind of guy...I've met that kind...more than once before...
Why not ask that guy why he sends you such messages? To avoid confusion and misinterpretation, it is always better to find out more before jumping to conclusions. Trust me, jumping to conclusions and ending up wrong really sucks. Big time. And it totally hurts too...
Anyway, I suggest asking that someone first. Gambatte!
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Hai, arrigato gozaimasu ^-^
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Posted 12/4/08

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Hai, arrigato gozaimasu ^-^


You're welcome! ♥ -^_^- ♥ I'm glad I was able to give you some advice.
Posted 12/6/08
i have a friend i and i always met him by accident, and he said that is all my fault that i attracted him .
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Posted 12/7/08

ionthi wrote:

i have a friend i and i always met him by accident, and he said that is all my fault that i attracted him .


He told you that it was your fault he was attracted to you?
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Posted 12/17/08
why dont guys seem to like me i tanks (sucks) its not like im hideous or malformed or even ugly really and ppl always tell me how awesome i am so whats the deal?
Posted 12/21/08

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why dont guys seem to like me i tanks (sucks) its not like im hideous or malformed or even ugly really and ppl always tell me how awesome i am so whats the deal?



What do you mean by that?
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Posted 12/28/08
Well I have a question for maybe one u can't answer but it's worth a try...
Well it starts out with me falling for my ex-boyfriend and well I kinda still like him but I think he hates me... well heres the question: How do I find a different bf if I still like him and can't stop thinking about him?
Posted 1/1/09

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Well I have a question for maybe one u can't answer but it's worth a try...
Well it starts out with me falling for my ex-boyfriend and well I kinda still like him but I think he hates me... well heres the question: How do I find a different bf if I still like him and can't stop thinking about him?



Well, for my advice, try to find another person that kinda acts like him. It could be anyone! There are still many people out in the world that may have some similarities like your boyfriend. It just takes time. But, if you want to find a different boyfriend you can look for another guy that may act differently than your crush right now. If you can't stop thinking about him, then try thinking about something else that makes you feel a bit better than just having your boyfriend around you. For instance, it can be your family or friends that you had a great time with in your past. That's all I can say for now. I'm sorry if I wasn't as much help but, I tried.
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