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Post Reply What do you think of Long Distance Relationships?
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Posted 1/12/08
tell me what do u think
Actually, it's hard... obviously. Couples who do it really need to make time for each other and really commit to the relationship for it to grow. It takes a lot of trust, really.

will it work, will it not work?
It depends on the couple. If they're strong enough to withstand not being together and being quite far away from each other, then it will work. But if one of you doubts easily or one does something really idiotic while s/he's away, then it definitely won't work. The other party will just be wasting his/her time and effort.

what do you think makes people wants to commit in long distance relationships?
They believe they could do it. they don't want to break the relationship because their love for each other is strong. : )

what are the positive and negative about it?
Depends on how you look at it. The positive, for me, is that you'll still be a couple. The negative is that you won't see each other and spend time with each other maybe except for chat or IM conversations.

would you do it?
yeah, I would. In fact, I am doing it. haha XD
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Posted 1/13/08
I think it's stupid. How are you sure if your bf/ gf is being faithful. It wouldn't really work. It's sort of the same as putting a relationship on break. But i seriously think that a long distance relationhsip will not do.
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Posted 1/13/08
i don't see the point in long distance i've tried it and i was cheated on so i think you shoudl choose closer to home
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Posted 1/13/08
sad coz it wont work
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Posted 1/14/08
It can work but probably won't. Out of countless people I've seen only 1 may have worked out with some luck involved. And if you really have a lot of yourself invested in the relationship, you'll probably end up with emotional scars. Two most likely situations: 1) She/he tells you that they want to take a small break or plain out say that it won't work out. (due to them feeling confined/lonely or finding someone else) 2) They just cheat on you.

It always depends on the duration though. If you 2 can't handle a 3-5 month period apart when you have been together for 1 year, the relationship has issues. If it's like several years, it's best to end it there and see if one day you guys can end up together again. Expect a lot of trust issues, fighting, misunderstanding, and, perhaps worse, betrayal or boredom.
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Posted 1/14/08
Long distance relationships are so !@#$ed, You don't know if your boyfriend/girlfriend will cheat on you and yeah etc.
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Posted 1/14/08
I'll make it simple, to me I think long distance relationship will not last cause the key words you know are already in there...LONG DISTANCE
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Posted 1/14/08
it's a real test of relationships.
and i believe that at some point....
one or both of the two will fall for someone else.
caresses and hugs are the best affirmation of love
of course other than saying the words.
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Posted 1/14/08
noooo. i'd miss them too much it'd never work for me =(
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Posted 1/15/08
Already bin there, done that. Didnt work several times but its not definite that jus cause its long-distance it wont work.

People have gotten married before without ever meeting irl. Not my style personally but it seems it works for some.
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Posted 1/15/08
they don't exist...that's an open friendship-like relationship...
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23 / M / Brisbane, Australia
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Posted 1/15/08
doesnt work

sorry to all you pretty girls on crunchy roll

im taken anyway
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Posted 1/15/08
hmm..i agree it hurts when u break up and there r loads of uncertainties
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Posted 1/15/08
I dont think it`ll last for long its hard to maintain.
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Whats the point in it?
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