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Posted 1/8/08
....my sister has a long distance relationship....he lives in Paris and we live in California....9 hours ahead...its been a few months and she is still going for it...its love!
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Take it from someone who knows from personal experience. Long distance relationships bite wind. They suck major. And if u r stupid enough to get into one, I pity you.


yeah it does suck but unfortunately im in it!
but hey...if you really love the person and trust the one you love and vise versa..everything is going to be fine.
take mine for example: we were friends when we were still at high school and became lovers when we both left for college. but unfortunately, our universities are from different places.. we have to travel for 5 hours just to be together. and now i left our country and shes still back in our country but look at us..we reached 2 years!

but i admit, it was hard work and it still is... you have a lot of fights if you dont trust each other and if you dont cope up..you end up to nothing..
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I dont think I can survive in a long distant relationship. Maybe , I was never really in the situation. I really cant live without seeing my boyfriends for max is one weeks or not being able to hear his voice the the whole day is torture enough. Maybe because im use to hearing his voice and seing often. The thought of being in a distant relationship is really unbearable for me. Butthere are people that canreally commit to that.
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they dont work...in most cases.
but even if they did, how could you stand to be apart from your loved one so much?
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emm0548 wrote:


saiyukilover wrote:

Take it from someone who knows from personal experience. Long distance relationships bite wind. They suck major. And if u r stupid enough to get into one, I pity you.


yeah it does suck but unfortunately im in it!
but hey...if you really love the person and trust the one you love and vise versa..everything is going to be fine.
take mine for example: we were friends when we were still at high school and became lovers when we both left for college. but unfortunately, our universities are from different places.. we have to travel for 5 hours just to be together. and now i left our country and shes still back in our country but look at us..we reached 2 years!

but i admit, it was hard work and it still is... you have a lot of fights if you dont trust each other and if you dont cope up..you end up to nothing..


Well we trusted and loved each other too, that wasn't the problem at all. But, what I meant was just that, it's hard to not see them, to not be able to be there for them. Plus, being under 18, we couldn't visit each other, esp since our families didn't like the idea of our dating anyway, esp since it would b long distance. We survived a whole year, but it was pure torture and then it turned out that it would be another 6 years b4 we could really b together. That's when we decided to end it. Cuz it would've been unfair to ask that of each other.
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Hmm, I'm in one right now. But we've been together for a year and he's my first also. I live in vegas and he lives in Arizona.We always see each other about once a month and we're mostly pretty busy with our schoolwork in college. Every night we always talk to each other and make that time to at least tell each other good night. But he was also a friend of mine first at first he didn't want to do long distance, but we ended up doing one. It's tough but he's a great guy and I find good relationships long distance or not are very hard to come by! Yeah, some times I tell myself why I'm with him but then at the end of the day I'm happy because he's sweet, we click with each other, and he cooks for me and takes me out to nice places. I also send him care packages too!
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Posted 1/8/08

saiyukilover wrote:


emm0548 wrote:


saiyukilover wrote:

Take it from someone who knows from personal experience. Long distance relationships bite wind. They suck major. And if u r stupid enough to get into one, I pity you.


yeah it does suck but unfortunately im in it!
but hey...if you really love the person and trust the one you love and vise versa..everything is going to be fine.
take mine for example: we were friends when we were still at high school and became lovers when we both left for college. but unfortunately, our universities are from different places.. we have to travel for 5 hours just to be together. and now i left our country and shes still back in our country but look at us..we reached 2 years!

but i admit, it was hard work and it still is... you have a lot of fights if you dont trust each other and if you dont cope up..you end up to nothing..


Well we trusted and loved each other too, that wasn't the problem at all. But, what I meant was just that, it's hard to not see them, to not be able to be there for them. Plus, being under 18, we couldn't visit each other, esp since our families didn't like the idea of our dating anyway, esp since it would b long distance. We survived a whole year, but it was pure torture and then it turned out that it would be another 6 years b4 we could really b together. That's when we decided to end it. Cuz it would've been unfair to ask that of each other.


yeah i get it but hey, we hid it from our family too.. its up to you HOW you be there for them..were really religious so we pray for each other..and by the way, i just turned 18 and it didnt stop me from being with the person i love.. i had to cross the sea to be with that person literally..sice back there in the philippines..cities are mostly separated by ocean..its an archiphelago "i dont know if i spelled it ryt" *sigh*

anyway, we almost got busted with my boo's mom..so it was kind of an adventure for us..but still, we stayed together..
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I doubt the relationship will last long.
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emm0548 wrote:

hey..our country isnt that small you know..haha! i encounterd this situation one time when i came to pick my boo up.. besides..thats easy.give them full information..lack of info as to where you should pick them up is just a headache..just be mature enuf to handle things and thats it...


we are on abt 10000 miles of sea water and air...u wuld have no one there... u be lik anyother new comer..to a new place...


shes in the philippines and im here in california.. i came here last year..and im still here..and shes in silliman and is studying....and were not seeing each other but we still have communication..

technically, i am a new comer in this new place..
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emm0548 wrote:


navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:

hey..our country isnt that small you know..haha! i encounterd this situation one time when i came to pick my boo up.. besides..thats easy.give them full information..lack of info as to where you should pick them up is just a headache..just be mature enuf to handle things and thats it...


we are on abt 10000 miles of sea water and air...u wuld have no one there... u be lik anyother new comer..to a new place...


shes in the philippines and im here in california.. i came here last year..and im still here..and shes in silliman and is studying....and were not seeing each other but we still have communication..

technically, i am a new comer in this new place..


ur 18 dude... and msot people oncr are 13-18 and most 13-16 have relationship long distance.... now think abt that...
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Posted 1/8/08

navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:


navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:

hey..our country isnt that small you know..haha! i encounterd this situation one time when i came to pick my boo up.. besides..thats easy.give them full information..lack of info as to where you should pick them up is just a headache..just be mature enuf to handle things and thats it...


we are on abt 10000 miles of sea water and air...u wuld have no one there... u be lik anyother new comer..to a new place...


shes in the philippines and im here in california.. i came here last year..and im still here..and shes in silliman and is studying....and were not seeing each other but we still have communication..

technically, i am a new comer in this new place..


ur 18 dude... and msot people oncr are 13-18 and most 13-16 have relationship long distance.... now think abt that...


i just turned 18.. we did all of those crazy stuff when i was 16 to 17..
Posted 1/8/08

emm0548 wrote:


navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:


navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:

hey..our country isnt that small you know..haha! i encounterd this situation one time when i came to pick my boo up.. besides..thats easy.give them full information..lack of info as to where you should pick them up is just a headache..just be mature enuf to handle things and thats it...


we are on abt 10000 miles of sea water and air...u wuld have no one there... u be lik anyother new comer..to a new place...


shes in the philippines and im here in california.. i came here last year..and im still here..and shes in silliman and is studying....and were not seeing each other but we still have communication..

technically, i am a new comer in this new place..


ur 18 dude... and msot people oncr are 13-18 and most 13-16 have relationship long distance.... now think abt that...


i just turned 18.. we did all of those crazy stuff when i was 16 to 17..


anyways dude.... stilll
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my sister is married to a guy she found on Cuba.. however.. after nearly 3 year he moved here.. so u cant say its a long distance relationship anymore..
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Posted 1/8/08

navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:


navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:


navyseal171 wrote:


emm0548 wrote:

hey..our country isnt that small you know..haha! i encounterd this situation one time when i came to pick my boo up.. besides..thats easy.give them full information..lack of info as to where you should pick them up is just a headache..just be mature enuf to handle things and thats it...


we are on abt 10000 miles of sea water and air...u wuld have no one there... u be lik anyother new comer..to a new place...


shes in the philippines and im here in california.. i came here last year..and im still here..and shes in silliman and is studying....and were not seeing each other but we still have communication..

technically, i am a new comer in this new place..


ur 18 dude... and msot people oncr are 13-18 and most 13-16 have relationship long distance.... now think abt that...


i just turned 18.. we did all of those crazy stuff when i was 16 to 17..


anyways dude.... stilll


yeah i know..
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25 / M / England
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I'm currently in a long distance relationship.
Although I used to live in the same place as her and we met in High School.
They arn't easy and they kinda suck, but we had been together three years before I moved away.
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