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A Parent's Love
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Yes, what is love!
Imagine when the parents are hated by their own children? it is sad, I know someone experiencing this with his own kids in real life. Sometimes trying your best does not end with the result you wish.. the question is... Did you try enough? How many methods did you apply? are you not bothered by that? it must be hard on the children as much as its hard on the parents.

If you have kids already, love them more than you love yourself. Let them try their own way, just make sure they can recover from their mistakes. Always be the closest one to aid them, dont lose them to some other stranger to help them. Your kid is a new beginning, if you did not have a pleasant start in your life then make up for it by supporting those fresh starters. Have fun by holding them around you, let them feel safe, let them feel great, let them do the impossible for you while they willingly do it just for you.

They are special for you just like they see you as the only special person in their life. Try harder, always treasure them, learn to love them. You brought them into this life, continue your favor by insuring they are living happily ever after.


Live and continue being proud of them... This is my son! She is my daughter!
So please.. Baby dont hurt me.
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As for you guys and girls still living with your parents, they love you, all parents do love their children.. sometimes they just dont know how to express it. Dont hate them, never do! no matter how bad they are when they deal with you. They only think its best for you, you can never know how they really think of you. If you are good enough you will surely see their care in their actions. Try whatever you can to get close to them and to understand them better, one day hopefully you will be very close to them and they will understand you much better than you might imagine. Please support them, watch out for what you say to them. Dont hurt them even with words, stay cool and value them for what they are.. your parents... they are not going to be with you all your life. Love them as much as you can for as long as they are around. You can withstand any kind of suffering you face living with your parents, but it will be very hard and sad on you if they leave you with you feeling that you did not give them enough attention and that you still want to spend more time with them.

Just imagine the times your parents were sad for you when at the same time something good happened that they cant enjoy. Think how many times they cried for you or because of you, think how many times they had to give up on some real good opportunity just to be with you for something else you wanted. Are we going to ignore our parents and think just of ourselves even though we know they are not going to live with us forever? so then.. What is Love?
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duplicate.
but for me, LOVE is all. xD
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oh.. is it really dup, should have searched first I guess.
Alright, you still might want to read it, am sure its different from the other topics
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Wow you must be really wise.
Thanks.
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i know someone whose father beats her because of child favoritism

her father expects her to be a genius in school but when she gets bad grades, she gets bruised by her own father---with her mother not doing anything to stop the man from beating her!

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The world is cruel

Parents can be cruel too...

Love, if you experience a bad kind of love just keep loving other people...eventually you'll get the love you deserve

=A=


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also, my aunt has spoiled her 4 kids (all girls, my cousins) since they were born

they all ask for some material thing and she gives it to them because she loves them BUT my cousins dont love her back...

now, the parents can be loving but the CHILDREN would be cruel

seriously, they dont care about my aunt...they only want money from her

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People can be selfish and mean to their own blood...

what happened to "Family"?

[does it even exist in your world?]
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Love is just another way of getting hurt. Only people are blinded by it.
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Dunno...love's different 4 everyone...4 someone its a hurt, 4 someone its a happines, but u must do ur best not 2 loose it!
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Pirus wrote:



thatlove


I agree...

you'll feel the love when you experienced it all... that's love.
Posted 12/1/08
Love is simply troublesome .
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Your title screams duplicate, but the contents aren't really... or are they?

Anyway, your view of love is about parental love which is in most cases, to give and expect nothing in return.
Love is classified into many different kinds and parental love is among the greatest. To teach a child from knowing nothing to someone who is able to teach others is plenty of hard work and consumes precious time. Love isn't troublesome, it holds people together. Love is the greatest.
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something you cant escape
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LOVE is
Posted 12/1/08
oh, baby don't hurt me.


♪♫I want nobody, nobody but you.♪♫
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ahokaze
Thanks for the kind words, I do get some comments regarding my knowledge and wisdom.. but I am sure there are far more intelligent ppl out in the world than me. I used to think am super when I was in school... However, I was immature lol. Nevertheless, thank you.

Pirus
True love is visible to others, when I smile around strangers and help them, thats overflown love. I think thats what you meant. Thanks for commenting.

sakurafan318
That is why I wrote this topic, indeed.. there are lots and lots more situations that are still continuing like that. The solution is very simple, but the gap between the parents and the children already is too big for them to peacefully solve it. One of the sides should work on improving the relationship and bridging the gap in order to get the desired results. Thanks for mentioning some cases in real life. It will help others to understand the subject better.

Kanone
We are in this world because love is still around. Yes sometimes it can hurt, some ppl just cant agree on something easily. Some ppl are hard to feel it when it comes to love. Some are even bad at it. They still are human, there must be a way to make it work.. the day we lose our hearts, is the day we stop trying our best to love others. and whats more important than parental/children love? you should answer yourself once more... What is Love?
Thanks for commenting!

Julia_Julia
Yes, very true, you need to believe that you can make that end-result. If you do your best and give your all for something, you will get the happy ending version, the pleasant outcome. Embrace love, dont let go ^_^
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SukiChanX3
We are all learners in life, my start was not really good, I hated my parents like they were not satisfied with me. As a result, I questioned myself.. Why? for sometime I couldnt find Why? so I just did not bother because I thought at that age it was not worth it... When I saw others, some live much worser than me and some are crowning their parents, I felt cheap.. Am I not trying enough? maybe thats Why? so then What is Love? I needed to find the answer for me. Now I live with my parents doing my "best" and beyond best to make them the happiest couple living their final years in life.. ofcourse am still working hard to improve even more
Thanks for commenting!

makimaki_sat...
I apologize for the title lol.. I know its kind of general for a title
The reason I chose that title is because the first thing anyone experience in life is parents' love. It is the first kind of love we get exposed to.. and based on that, it affects how we love others when we grow up as well. It is very important than some ppl might think. It is the start, it is the core.. if you start positive, it is more likely that you will end up being positive. Love is just another skill to learn, strong love can lead to a bright future for kids
Thank you very much for the wonderful thoughts your sharing with us.

bloodbunny
It is indeed, the question we should think about is.. Are we really want to escape love?
Is the solution to avoid it? or isnt it good to better understand it? What is Love?
Thanks for the comment.

monsteranime1
Family blood or war blood you mean? lol
It should start from family but it should also continue and reach to the entire world. That should be the limit of love. How far are we from it? How long it will take for each of us to reach that far? you start by answering the first question in the first step... What is Love?
Thanks for the comment.

kyoukoujin
If you think of songs and give it too much thought, some songs can be educational. You will end up learning from songs. Sometimes learn something that the singer did not even think about when he/she sang the song. Go to my profile page and listen to the song "What is Love?". It is amazing how it can fit in this subject
Thanks for commenting, music fella!
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