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if you're in love with your friend.....
Posted 12/2/08
Deja vu or what. My best friend is close to this guy who she's had feelings for since she met him, but since she was too afraid to tell him how sh felt to begin with she became his friend... and seeing as though she's too afraid to tell him herself, I had to be the messenger, and he sadly didn't feel the same way, he just saw her as a friend D: She hasn't said but I can tell that's she's really bummed about it :/

To be honest, I don't think it'll always work being friends and then being in a romantic relationship and its best to let them know, as soon as you meet the guy/girl straight away if possible that you like them in that particular way... or you'll just be stuck in the friend zone. >.> and I doubt that's what you want if you fancy the pants off of them. (:
Posted 12/2/08
I've been in this situation before. There was this guy in high school that I just loved, and he was my friend. But, I found out he had a girlfriend. Also, my best friend whom I've know since forever was in love with him too. So, I kept my mouth shut and just stayed out of it.
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Posted 12/2/08
i found out one of my best friends has liked me for five years, so i agreed to go out with him, but it felt so weird... i think i crushed him when i said i didn't want to go out again Also, i liked this guy back in elementary school, then we went off to highschool and i didnt talk to or see him for five years. Now we reunited and are good friends, but i think i like him more than a friend, but i'm too shy to say anything... i think i'll just hold onto the friendship and keep my feelings to myself...
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Posted 12/2/08
I don't tell them because it would make them feel awkward
and ruin our friendship if we ever break up ._.
Breaking up would be hard, too.
Posted 12/2/08

chelseabel wrote:

what if you're in love with a close friend.. what would you do???

would you tell him/her?

keep it to yourself?

sweep him/her off his/her feet?

use body language??

WHAT???


Well that's how you usually go out with someone there your friend.
wtf you think.
stop asking kids with hormone problems.
and ask adult's and close friends , were not therapist.
we don't know what you like?
what you love? What you think of him and why do you like him.

just confess. it is most effective.
Posted 12/2/08
I did like my close friend a long time ago ~ he knows but yea~ we're still friends.
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Posted 12/2/08
Well, this reminds me when a good friend of mine, whom I first met in 7th grade, started acting strange in junior year of high school. I mean, he complimented on me by saying that I looked beautiful (with this priceless look on his face) when I stopped wearing a ponytail and just let my hair down one day after having it straightened, and he bought a necklace with a heart pendant as a present for Christmas. So, as Valentine's Day approached, I gave him a slip of paper explaining that he had been acting strange recently and that I wanted to know if he liked me or not (since it would explain his behavior). He wrote back with his answer in "riddle form" and asked if I liked him...

Eventually I solved his riddle. We both thought about becoming a couple for about a month before getting together. And now, here we are, 1 year and 8 months as a couple, and still going strong. And heck, we're in our first year of college now! I never would have expected for him to start liking me, but also because he has turned out to be an amazing boyfriend and still is. :)

So, if you confess to a friend, there's a 50/50 chance of getting rejected. I guess you could say it's better to ask and get rejected, than to never ask and always wonder.
Posted 12/2/08
I wouldn't want to ruin my friendship with him, so i would just stay friends.
Posted 12/2/08
Impossible.
If you somehow managed to become friends with this person without making a move, you are not meant to love him/her.
Probably just close friendship.
But just in case, take a few nude shots of him/her as a souvenir.
Posted 12/2/08
I have no idea what to do. Do ask her...or should i continue to be JUST friends with her? i have no idea!! haha
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Posted 12/3/08

Rebanex wrote:

From friends to lovers doesn't work at all. I know.


I agree.. :D.. It's better that you become friends during your relationship.. I think friendship is a higher form of love than being lovers..
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Posted 12/7/08
i wouldn't tell him. would not want to ruin the friendship and someone previously mentioned. although i have fallen in love with my best friend before. not a good feeling. he had a girlfriend too.. *sigh*
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Posted 12/7/08
i would tell him....whenever the times right......
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Posted 12/7/08
i would tell as soon as possible the sooner the better

before things get worse
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Posted 12/7/08
Tell her, straight forward
You know what, I like you
" I don't like you though"
pawned..
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