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if you're in love with your friend.....
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Posted 12/7/08
how about this

do you like me
because i like you
Posted 12/8/08
You definatly need to tell them. Don't keep it a secret, or else it could possibly make your friendship awkward. Plus you never know; theres always a possibility your friend could return the feelings. Study shows that most couples start off as friends first.



Aaaand if they don't share your feelings, then you still need to talk it over with them to find out how to solve the problem.
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Posted 12/8/08
It doesnt work hehe. If you really feel strong for them then just be their playmate lol. Friends with benefit is better then nuthing right? Imean at least u get them. Other than that if u want romantic stuff with them, it wont work, if u keep feelings to urself it will work but inside u will always want a piece of that =D
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Posted 12/8/08
keep it to my self for a while and then find the right time...

just saying how you feel...
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Posted 12/8/08
Oh ya very problematic. Wish i didn't say anything and kept it hugh cus now i feel weird talking to her. I can't exactly look her in the eyes anymore. Just plain weirded myself out. lol.

we still friends....so i'm trying to smooth out the wrinkles in the friendship.
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Posted 12/8/08 , edited 12/8/08
just be straight out about it ... if it doesnt work out then just talk about it together incase he /she feel weird about it .. but before u ask he /she... make sure that you got a chance to cross the friend line ...if not then just go fish in another pond ... =) life is good yah ?



ZeroCorp wrote:

Oh ya very problematic. Wish i didn't say anything and kept it hugh cus now i feel weird talking to her. I can't exactly look her in the eyes anymore. Just plain weirded myself out. lol.

we still friends....so i'm trying to smooth out the wrinkles in the friendship.


why weird out ? u still got the feeling for her or something ? if not then just act normal .. kidd' around and do the stuff that u used to do.. if u keep on not making eyes contact and feel weird while talking ... those wrinkles would prob' get more wrinkles yah ? just an opinion ! cheers !
Posted 12/8/08
I'd tell...
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20 / F / ToKyO,JaPaN
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Posted 12/8/08
No, I won't. I believe friendship is stronger than love, so I'll keep to it and be his close friend
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Posted 12/8/08
tell her in a joke way
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33 / M / canada
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Posted 12/8/08
make sure he/she isnt with anyone if you plan on telling, otherwise it'll be just awkward. if he/she is single then give hints about your feelings for him/her.
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24 / F / iloilo city, Phil...
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Posted 12/9/08
i already told my girlfriend.....

but i'm not a lesbian fyi....
Posted 12/9/08
i'll keep it a secret..........
Posted 12/9/08
I'm not a lesbian. =/
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26 / M / Vancouver BC
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Posted 12/9/08
aha...oh god this situation. it becomes the fun game of "What if?". so what if i did tell them, what if i didn't tell them. but personally i go with the just tell them straight up cuz i hate wondering about the what ifs. its just a serious pain. and if you don't tell them then nothing will happen or can happen or maybe should happen?

love is selfish and irrational, at least thats how i see it =\
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31 / F / ---mystic moon----
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Posted 12/9/08
This is actually my case. I keep it to myself coz I don't want to break our friendship. If he feels the same way, then I think it is ok to tell him my feelings....but if I am jsut a friend to him...then I would stay as a friend.
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