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Do fans have the RIGHT to decide upon who an artist/band should or shouldn’t date?
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Well this topic discussion all started when I began watching the Korean show “We Got Married” (ahaha I know I’m late please don’t kill me > <” lol) anyhow before I heard news about the whole thing with Lee, Minwoo and Shin Ae. Even though I don’t really know what happened to cause fans and family members of Minwoo’s to hate her so much as to harass her to such extremities, I thought (after seeing her on “We Got Married”), this girl is so sweet with a nice personality, why did the fans hinder her relationship with Minwoo? Below: Left=Minwoo, Right= Shin Ae

Which brought me to the forum topic, “Do fans have the RIGHT to decide upon who an artist/band should or shouldn’t date?” I really feel sorry for boy bands and artists out there (i.e. BIG BANG, DBSK, Minwoo) who could be hindered by their fans in finding happiness with a significant other. Why does this happen? Honestly I think that a TRUE fan would want their idol to find happiness just like any other HUMAN BEING. Why are some fan girls so selfish?
Well I would like to hear everyone’s opinion on this matter. Hopefully there will be others out there who can understand and agree with my view point.
Oh and P.S. if anyone knows about the whole Minwoo and Shin Ae thing can you message me please? Thanks. ^^

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Fans do not have the right to decide who artists/bands should date...i totally agree with cloudii...i feel sorry for them....and true fans should only want happiness for their idols but fans are so selfish..it's not they can ever have them.
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what the heck?

of course fans dont have the right!! although, i'm sure that some fans feel that they do have that right... -____- (namely a group of fans, but i wont point fingers...)
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bubbleboo wrote:

Fans do not have the right to decide who artists/bands should date...i totally agree with cloudii...i feel sorry for them....and true fans should only want happiness for their idols but fans are so selfish..it's not they can ever have them.


lol true true. it's like a one in gazillion chance that they could get with them. lol and i think even harder if the fan is overseas. LoL they should just wish them happiness,move on, and enjoy the artists' work. ^^
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this is a pretty simple answer: ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT!!!!lol
i think Asia has some serious issues with these crazy little fan girls, i mean seriously where are there parents, someone needs to be smacked upside the head, be it parents or kids lol theyre way too outta control, some of the stuff they do overthere would get u a serious beatdown here lol anyways now im done venting about the crazy bitches, a real fan appreciates the music and talent, doesnt get so obsessed with said artist,musician,actor etc to the point of stalking, feeling jealous etc everyone has there own right to live life any way they choose, if there wrong then theyll deal with the consequences,but it should not be up to anybody else to make that decision for them.
REAL FANS ADMIRE!!!!!
im really starting to hate asian fan girls lol and when i say asian (for those who would try to pull the racist card or whatever) it has to be said that there especially known for this kinda behaviour, wich is sad because i love the culture,music,etc and they kinda ruin it for everybody else
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Fans don't have the right to decide who artists/bands should date...
they give happiness to us, so they should have happiness, too..

yeah right...feel sorry for them, too...
if the artists/bands i like dated someone..good for them...
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Posted 12/5/08
no they do not
but with that said, alot of fans ARE NOT DELUSIONAL they just care about their oppas
im so tired of ppl saying elves & cassie r insane, jealoused fan girls.
THEY'RE NOT. THEYR HUMAN BEINGS TOO.

& when fake, unappreciative artists try to woo them,
ofc fans r gonna get mad, cause they dont want their oppas to be with those kinda of girls.

& sometimes they go a little over board,
but all they want rly is for their oppas to be happy.
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Posted 12/5/08
its their life not ours....
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Posted 12/5/08 , edited 12/5/08
No.. that's a capital N..

its they're personal life, they can date anyone they want as long as they like that person too.. but fans are just so over acting, just because he's not dating you, you started hating his girl friend..

true and loyal fans wants happiness for they're idols.. not ruin they're love relationship..

i heard from one friend that there was this girl who met a guy from a korean band i can't remember the name of the band, and had her picture taken with him. she post it on the internet, you know, if i had a picture with JaeJoong i would totally spread it.. but fans from the guy attacked her and threatened her.. you know what she did?? she killed herself..

fans like those are not fans..

i mean the fans that attacked her..
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NOPE! FAN'S DON'T
bt if it's family then that's a different story........
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Posted 12/5/08
fans have no right to do that
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Posted 12/5/08
Its easy to answer. Just ask yourself whether you have the right to control your neighbour's dating rights.
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No.. that's a capital N..

its they're personal life, they can date anyone they want as long as they like that person too.. but fans are just so over acting, just because he's not dating you, you started hating his girl friend..

true and loyal fans wants happiness for they're idols.. not ruin they're love relationship..

i heard from one friend that there was this girl who met a guy from a korean band i can't remember the name of the band, and had her picture taken with him. she post it on the internet, you know, if i had a picture with JaeJoong i would totally spread it.. but fans from the guy attacked her and threatened her.. you know what she did?? she killed herself..

fans like those are not fans..

i mean the fans that attacked her..


It was a picture with Kangin from Super Junior
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Posted 12/5/08

IDoNotKnowOk wrote:


scarlet_tears wrote:

No.. that's a capital N..

its they're personal life, they can date anyone they want as long as they like that person too.. but fans are just so over acting, just because he's not dating you, you started hating his girl friend..

true and loyal fans wants happiness for they're idols.. not ruin they're love relationship..

i heard from one friend that there was this girl who met a guy from a korean band i can't remember the name of the band, and had her picture taken with him. she post it on the internet, you know, if i had a picture with JaeJoong i would totally spread it.. but fans from the guy attacked her and threatened her.. you know what she did?? she killed herself..

fans like those are not fans..

i mean the fans that attacked her..


It was a picture with Kangin from Super Junior



thanks.. if i were the girl.. i would have let those other girls rot to jealousy.. hehe
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Posted 12/5/08
'Fans' do not have the right to decide on who the artist should date and shouldn't date. If people were real fans they wouldn't love the artist for what they look like; how much money that person has; or anything else except how much love they're willing to give
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