First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  Next  Last
Do fans have the RIGHT to decide upon who an artist/band should or shouldn’t date?
1043 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
72 / F
Offline
Posted 12/5/08 , edited 12/5/08
Lmao, No way. It's that person's life. The fan girls I've heard about probably get mad or cry over seeing their favorite artist hanging out with another chick hahaaha. It's just crazy, these bands/artists are probably just mere strangers to fans, they really do not know them except through their music, and these fans act like that person is their whole life which is totally wrong. People obsess too much -_- Just enjoy their music and support them, not get jealous and stalk them. Oh and I'm talking about OBSESSED of the obsessed fans, not regular fans haha.
12723 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
Malaysia the land...
Offline
Posted 12/5/08

scarlet_tears wrote:


IDoNotKnowOk wrote:


scarlet_tears wrote:

No.. that's a capital N..

its they're personal life, they can date anyone they want as long as they like that person too.. but fans are just so over acting, just because he's not dating you, you started hating his girl friend..

true and loyal fans wants happiness for they're idols.. not ruin they're love relationship..

i heard from one friend that there was this girl who met a guy from a korean band i can't remember the name of the band, and had her picture taken with him. she post it on the internet, you know, if i had a picture with JaeJoong i would totally spread it.. but fans from the guy attacked her and threatened her.. you know what she did?? she killed herself..

fans like those are not fans..

i mean the fans that attacked her..


It was a picture with Kangin from Super Junior



thanks.. if i were the girl.. i would have let those other girls rot to jealousy.. hehe


Haha..yeah! I can't believe they were so mean to the young girl. I mean she worked so hard to lose weight and she just took a pic. Is that wrong?
3258 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / F / Lala Land
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
of course not! since when do fans have the rights to do so?
they're just a bunch of deluded fangirls who dont have a clue as to how much they'll be hurting their own idols, or simply crazy enough to assume that their idols shld date them.
bleurgh.
and about the minwoo and shinae thing, i only knew that they dated around the time when shinhwa released their 7th jib. as to why they broke up.... no idea. prolly fans thought that shinae is not worthy of him(which is bullshit, she's amazingly pretty... just that she's kinda big sized). during that time shinhwa were at their peak, they claimed 3 daesangs that year with their 7th jib.
Posted 12/5/08 , edited 12/5/08
Okay so the obvious answer is NO. Stars could date anybody they please but the majority of fans are teen girls who havent matured yet . the reality is fans = $$ and if you displease your fans; your basically screwing with your income. The smart thing to do is stay single or keep your relationship top secret like most stars do. Plus, they are at the stage of their life were their career is key and they have the rest of their lives to find someone to be with.

btw; this is mostly directed to idols whose fanbase are young. The older bands and artists have a more mature audience who doesnt really care who the hell they date.
954 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
F / right here on CR!...
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
definitely not. it's not like the fans own the stars or anything. it's the stars' right as a human being to date whomever they want. we should just be happy for whomever they date.
8026 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / F / Neverafter
Offline
Posted 12/5/08

IDoNotKnowOk wrote:


scarlet_tears wrote:


IDoNotKnowOk wrote:


scarlet_tears wrote:

No.. that's a capital N..

its they're personal life, they can date anyone they want as long as they like that person too.. but fans are just so over acting, just because he's not dating you, you started hating his girl friend..

true and loyal fans wants happiness for they're idols.. not ruin they're love relationship..

i heard from one friend that there was this girl who met a guy from a korean band i can't remember the name of the band, and had her picture taken with him. she post it on the internet, you know, if i had a picture with JaeJoong i would totally spread it.. but fans from the guy attacked her and threatened her.. you know what she did?? she killed herself..

fans like those are not fans..

i mean the fans that attacked her..


It was a picture with Kangin from Super Junior



thanks.. if i were the girl.. i would have let those other girls rot to jealousy.. hehe


Haha..yeah! I can't believe they were so mean to the young girl. I mean she worked so hard to lose weight and she just took a pic. Is that wrong?




i know.. fans like those shouldn't be called fans.. i wonder how that band member react and how the fans reacted.. i hope they were satisfied with what they did.. they cause a life..
12723 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
Malaysia the land...
Offline
Posted 12/5/08

scarlet_tears wrote:


IDoNotKnowOk wrote:


scarlet_tears wrote:


IDoNotKnowOk wrote:


scarlet_tears wrote:

No.. that's a capital N..

its they're personal life, they can date anyone they want as long as they like that person too.. but fans are just so over acting, just because he's not dating you, you started hating his girl friend..

true and loyal fans wants happiness for they're idols.. not ruin they're love relationship..

i heard from one friend that there was this girl who met a guy from a korean band i can't remember the name of the band, and had her picture taken with him. she post it on the internet, you know, if i had a picture with JaeJoong i would totally spread it.. but fans from the guy attacked her and threatened her.. you know what she did?? she killed herself..

fans like those are not fans..

i mean the fans that attacked her..


It was a picture with Kangin from Super Junior



thanks.. if i were the girl.. i would have let those other girls rot to jealousy.. hehe


Haha..yeah! I can't believe they were so mean to the young girl. I mean she worked so hard to lose weight and she just took a pic. Is that wrong?




i know.. fans like those shouldn't be called fans.. i wonder how that band member react and how the fans reacted.. i hope they were satisfied with what they did.. they cause a life..


Their fanclub is called ELF. Well they are scary. Band member didn't even bother to do anything for the girl. And the fans apologized but I don't think they were sincere with it
20670 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / F / Location Location...
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
i dont think so!
2458 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / F / Still trying loca...
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
sorry for my language usage, but those fans are a bunch of biatchs. yeah BIACTCHS! Seriously, who has the right to tell other people whom to date?! (aside from family and stuff) but face the facts. Fans are TOTAL STRANGERS to their idol. IT's not like he/she's gonna recognize you or sumthing so there's really no use in wanting to control them. yep. Oh, if I were the girl being tortured, I would've just kicked all their freaky-so-called-fan's asses. They're too obessed with the idols, seriously. Pisses me off to know that this kind of thing even happens. Anyways, I support whoever my idol wants to date and I know that got nothing to do with me.
Even if he cries, I can't comfort him,
Even if he smiles, he don't feel my happiness,
Even if I tell him I love him, he can't hear me,
Even if I die for him, he wouldn't acknowledge me
Yep, being a fan hurts like a BIATCH, but DEAL with it!!!!!!!
5627 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
25 / F / Cali
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
hecky naw. psh they shouldn't have any say in that
Posted 12/5/08
no..duh..lol
12651 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
23 / F / Singapore
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
Fan's definitely don't have the right to do that. It's their personal life. They definitely don't need their fans to decide everything for them. -.-
6098 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
26 / M
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
its obvious no. yet i wonder why there is thread like this..
4603 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
32 / F / a land called 'pi...
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
i don't think this should do... besides everyone has that right whom they wanted to be with, maybe the fans could give their opinions bout it but never should they push their demands bout it
1561 cr points
Send Message: Send PM GB Post
22 / F / Canada
Offline
Posted 12/5/08
of course not.
but i see a point in this thread. too many girls go overboard with their obsession.
the stars are afraid of losing fans, so most wont admit to be in a relationship to avoid putting their loved ones in danger.
I just realized how hard being a star is.
I watched DBSK's Come to Play eposide just now and i heard Junsu's first kiss story.
Come on. He only saw his girlfriend for three times in 100 days after his debut.
Being upset that your favorite star is taken is normal, but going overboard and attacking the girl is too much.

for the Minhoo-Shinae. I rememebered watching WGM when Shinae told the audience that she went through a hard time. People were constantly attacking her because of her body. Mind you, she is not fat. She is healthy and beautiful.
I guess they broke up because of the critisms.
But Alex stepped in and filled the gap. So giuess that was a good thing, even though they are not on WGM anymore.
First  Prev  1  2  3  4  5  6  7  8  9  10  11  12  13  Next  Last
You must be logged in to post.