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Ummm diz is kinda embrassin but how do i no when a dude like mi?!?!
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Okay so this a is probably a common problem but I still need some advice. So my childhood friend asked me out and I really like him and I would so totally say yes but for the past year or so he's been known to be a sex addict. And no one really goes out with him unless they don't know the rumors. What should I do? I've liked him since like forever. But idk what to say to him, yes or no.
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Ummm diz is kinda embrassin but how do i no when a dude like mi?!?!


The way they act around you. They might joke around too much to try to hind their feelings. Simetimes the smallest hints are the ones that people need to pay the most attention to. You can always just ask him or ask a friend to ask him how he feels about you!
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Okay so this a is probably a common problem but I still need some advice. So my childhood friend asked me out and I really like him and I would so totally say yes but for the past year or so he's been known to be a sex addict. And no one really goes out with him unless they don't know the rumors. What should I do? I've liked him since like forever. But idk what to say to him, yes or no.


Always follow your heart! Tell him that you like him, but you do not like the rumors about him. Tell him that you would like to take the relationship slow. If he hesitates for more than a minute, then he is probably not right for you. But if he answers too quickly, he is probably lying. tell him that you are willing to go out with him, if he is willing to compromise. If not, I would just walk away. Talk to your other friends about it (at least one girl and one boy) and see what they say!
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Well I Explained to Andy that I wanted to take things slow and that meant no sex, especially at my age. While I was explaining to him it looked like he hesitated and didn't like the idea but when I paused to let him answer me he told me right away that he wouldn't try anything. After that I said I'd keep thinking about it since I couldn't think of a good way to say no. Another problem is my biology partner David asked me out and also like him but I don't know who I really like. And I'm the first girl ever who David has asked out. Since he's usually more worried about his grades or tests, so I don't want to hurt him if I'm not going to like him. What do I do? I'm so confused, I really like both of them, I think
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Well I Explained to Andy that I wanted to take things slow and that meant no sex, especially at my age. While I was explaining to him it looked like he hesitated and didn't like the idea but when I paused to let him answer me he told me right away that he wouldn't try anything. After that I said I'd keep thinking about it since I couldn't think of a good way to say no. Another problem is my biology partner David asked me out and also like him but I don't know who I really like. And I'm the first girl ever who David has asked out. Since he's usually more worried about his grades or tests, so I don't want to hurt him if I'm not going to like him. What do I do? I'm so confused, I really like both of them, I think


Get to know David more. If in time you start to like him then say yes to a date. You can always hang out as friends first. As for Andy, since you are his childhood friend you know him preety well. Since he hesitated for a long time, it probably meant that he wasn't really ok with what you said or he just was unsure about himself. Take out the two of them for a day. The one that makes your heart thump more is the one you like more. Make sure both of them know that the other is going. They both have to go or this doesn't work. If neither of the two makes your heart pound, then to you, Andy and David are just good firends.
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I had a hard time making them both go with me, I managed somehow to get them to both come with some arguements. Overall it was kinda awkward. But very funny, you could say they kinda tried to show off at first.

I spent the whole day with them at the mall, park & movie. Very tiring, they don't run out of energy. But It was kinda hard to see which one I actually like but I think I know. David is very compassionate and he is very sweet and kind. I really like that about him. He made my heart pound really hard when we were at the park & mall. Andy, still looks gorgeous but his personality I can't take.

Thank You Yuki-kyo-kira-san! If I ever have problems I will surely consult u.

I <3 David
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Good luck with David!
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hey. ^.^ i have someone on CR that i like a whole lot and she knows all about it (i feel like i'm perhaps a little too vocal about my feelings, once i know i'm liked back). i only met her about a month ago, but everything i learn about her is... amazing. i don't have to make excuses in my mind about why she does certain things or why she's a certain way.

o.o sorry for gushing. my problem is this: i'm liked by another person nearby. she broke up with her bf not too long ago and suddenly told me that she's had a crush on me... like forever. i like her a little bit, but not nearly as much, so i know who to choose... i'm just not sure how to communicate my decision with authority. =.= i told her about my crush, but she's still not hesitant to express how she feels and i don't want to be too receptive of her advances and give the wrong impression.

i want to hang out with her, because she's a good friend, but i don't want her tempting me by saying i'm cute or how much she wants to kiss me all the time. @.@ how should i approach the situation?
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hey. ^.^ i have someone on CR that i like a whole lot and she knows all about it (i feel like i'm perhaps a little too vocal about my feelings, once i know i'm liked back). i only met her about a month ago, but everything i learn about her is... amazing. i don't have to make excuses in my mind about why she does certain things or why she's a certain way.

o.o sorry for gushing. my problem is this: i'm liked by another person nearby. she broke up with her bf not too long ago and suddenly told me that she's had a crush on me... like forever. i like her a little bit, but not nearly as much, so i know who to choose... i'm just not sure how to communicate my decision with authority. =.= i told her about my crush, but she's still not hesitant to express how she feels and i don't want to be too receptive of her advances and give the wrong impression.

i want to hang out with her, because she's a good friend, but i don't want her tempting me by saying i'm cute or how much she wants to kiss me all the time. @.@ how should i approach the situation?


The girl you like the most is the one that you should stay faithful to. If the girl that's a friend tries to tempt you, you should be able to either tell her to stop because you cannot return her feelings or ignore the temptations. if she truly loves you then she will be happy with your decision of who to love. In fact, both girls should be happy if you're happy. If one of them or neither of them repect your decision, then that girl (or girls if both) is not right for you. Also, talk to the girl you are in love with about this problem with your girl that's a friend. She may be able to help you as well. Remember: Follow your heart!
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So, how is it going?
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The girl you like the most is the one that you should stay faithful to. If the girl that's a friend tries to tempt you, you should be able to either tell her to stop because you cannot return her feelings or ignore the temptations. if she truly loves you then she will be happy with your decision of who to love. In fact, both girls should be happy if you're happy. If one of them or neither of them repect your decision, then that girl (or girls if both) is not right for you. Also, talk to the girl you are in love with about this problem with your girl that's a friend. She may be able to help you as well. Remember: Follow your heart!

~nods~ i'll do that. if it gets to be too much, i'll let my friend know that i just can't be around that kind of temptation, one way or another. i hope she'll understand though, without having to go to such an extreme...
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Pretty well. I'm still with David. But I know I'm a bit nosy but I was reading the other problems that people had and I just noticed I know one of them in real life. And it explains something o.o
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How's it going with David?
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