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haven't heard much from the my friend. apparently things have gotten busy in her life. ^.^ my crush and i are doing great though. still not together, but she's saving that for when we meet. ^///^
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haven't heard much from the my friend. apparently things have gotten busy in her life. ^.^ my crush and i are doing great though. still not together, but she's saving that for when we meet. ^///^


How is everything?
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]I'm still going out with David. I have soo much fun with him. He's so cute and innocent. But now that exams just finished we can spend even more time with each other. ^_^.
However there is one thing . . . David spends so much time studding or at club activities, that I start to feel lonely. I mean he already has great grades. I've tried telling him that we should try and spend more time together and he said ok. But he still only spends some days with me.
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]I'm still going out with David. I have soo much fun with him. He's so cute and innocent. But now that exams just finished we can spend even more time with each other. ^_^.
However there is one thing . . . David spends so much time studding or at club activities, that I start to feel lonely. I mean he already has great grades. I've tried telling him that we should try and spend more time together and he said ok. But he still only spends some days with me.


Why not try studying with him? You could also see what he is up to in his club activities!
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Alright, I'll give it a try.
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Ahem, where to begin.

Lets see I seem to have a reputation of being a "slut, bitch, whore". You probably get the point. Dis is a mixed Dating/Family/Other Problem. I actually kinda get why i get called dat. I date guy after guy, I steal boyfriends. But my mom is just starting to get the hint of dis, it's not like I'm ashamed of the way I'm living it's just the consequences I'd have to deal wit. Den my cousin Zane who goes to school wit me and whatever, is like trying to blackmail me so he won't tell my mom dat i'm a slut. You kinda get my problem rite
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Ahem, where to begin.

Lets see I seem to have a reputation of being a "slut, bitch, whore". You probably get the point. Dis is a mixed Dating/Family/Other Problem. I actually kinda get why i get called dat. I date guy after guy, I steal boyfriends. But my mom is just starting to get the hint of dis, it's not like I'm ashamed of the way I'm living it's just the consequences I'd have to deal wit. Den my cousin Zane who goes to school wit me and whatever, is like trying to blackmail me so he won't tell my mom dat i'm a slut. You kinda get my problem rite


You should wait for the right guy to find you. There is nothing wrong with dating, but sometime it causes problems. You should trust the way you feel and look back upon all the things that have happened since you began your "dating parade." What you think of yourself is more important than what others think. Blackmail is illegal. Ignore Zane and go straight to your mom. She has a lot of experience and love yous you no matter what. You mother is there as a supporter who will support you through troubled times. Everything one does has consequences. The best way to deal with them is to put yourself in the shoes of someone else so you can understand how they feel. Look to your friends who are very close to you and explain to them how you feel and why you date so many guys. Although they might not understand, at least you get it off of your chest and become more open. I believe the best thing to do right now, is have a one-on-one chat with your mom. Plan ahead what you want to say and how you want to say it. These notes will help you a lot.
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You should wait for the right guy to find you. There is nothing wrong with dating, but sometime it causes problems. You should trust the way you feel and look back upon all the things that have happened since you began your "dating parade." What you think of yourself is more important than what others think. Blackmail is illegal. Ignore Zane and go straight to your mom. She has a lot of experience and love yous you no matter what. You mother is there as a supporter who will support you through troubled times. Everything one does has consequences. The best way to deal with them is to put yourself in the shoes of someone else so you can understand how they feel. Look to your friends who are very close to you and explain to them how you feel and why you date so many guys. Although they might not understand, at least you get it off of your chest and become more open. I believe the best thing to do right now, is have a one-on-one chat with your mom. Plan ahead what you want to say and how you want to say it. These notes will help you a lot.


I've tried to create an opportunity to talk to my mom but I just get scared and end up not being able to talk to her. . Hahaha I guess I'm to scared to confront my my mom about my problems. Besides I don't really talk to her in the first place. And she's always busy wit work. Now I'm just making excuses. I know blackmail is illegal but I still do wat Zane tells me to do. My brain doesn't want to listen to me anymore, I guess deep in my heart I'm just to scared to confront anyone.
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The greatest thing to fear is fear itself. That's why it is so pointless to not be afraid of anything. Things happen for a reason. It is always ok to follow your heart. Your mom will understand you. Try this:

You: "Hi mom. How was your day?"

Mom: "Good. Yours?"

You: "My was good, but.... um...."

Mom: "What is it?"

You: "I'm afraid. Zane has been blackmailing me. I.... I have to tell you something." Then you should begin to tell her about you 'dating parade.' The one who makes the first move can win, but only if that person has the heart to.
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Yuki-kyo-kira wrote:



The greatest thing to fear is fear itself. That's why it is so pointless to not be afraid of anything. Things happen for a reason. It is always ok to follow your heart. Your mom will understand you. Try this:

You: "Hi mom. How was your day?"

Mom: "Good. Yours?"

You: "My was good, but.... um...."

Mom: "What is it?"

You: "I'm afraid. Zane has been blackmailing me. I.... I have to tell you something." Then you should begin to tell her about you 'dating parade.' The one who makes the first move can win, but only if that person has the heart to.


Hmm well here's how it pretty much went

Me: Hey Mom, how did your day go?
Mom: *Stare* ". . . . . . . Are you feeling alright?"
Me: "Yeah, Why?"
Mom: "You never ask me how my day went, you just ask for money or something"

My first attempt failed. . . I tried again later. . It was rather more successful..
I told her about my dating problem, she wasn't amused but she just listened to me talk. I didn't tell her bout Zane. One of the first questions dat came out of my moms mouth was "are you using protection?" [u know what that means] The conversation went pretty well. I later told Zane dat I told my mom already so he can stop blackmailing me. He said he'll just have to find another puppy. However I don't know how to stop myself from dating guys or stop having sex wit then. .
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I would start volunteering at daycares and see what it's like to be around younger children. You should search for the one you love and attempt to restrain yourself. Kissing would be fine. Look through your heart, not your desires. Sometimes a slap in the face helps (not litterally). You should talk to your mom more and may be spend more time with her to get your mind off of having sex. This may help your realize more about yourself.
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i really like this ruy and lots of people think he likes me and he flirts with me alot... and i want to tell him but im scared and im worried he might think im to young or weird or loud....but he keeps hitting on me even at school and we always tease each other and i dont know how to tell him and even if i will.... im just soo confused!
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i really like this ruy and lots of people think he likes me and he flirts with me alot... and i want to tell him but im scared and im worried he might think im to young or weird or loud....but he keeps hitting on me even at school and we always tease each other and i dont know how to tell him and even if i will.... im just soo confused!


Get him in a room with you alone and had him a note saying that you like him and that you would like to go out with him. Nothing gets done unless you try to do it!
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