How would u ask a girl out?
Posted 12/7/08
yeah i've tried everykind exept #4 and i wanna know which one would have the most effect on a girls heart
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Posted 12/10/08
Lets see,

1st option, It seems the best also worst option since if you got no confidence when you walk the walk(yes your the way you walk matters) then your most likely get rejected or get lucky still go out with the girl.

2nd option: It sounds like something that comes out in a teen movie or drama series. This will not work most of the time, since your reaction gives insecurities already which is bad, if you going to say that might as well say that out front with no secrets involve.

3rd option: This goes back to what I explained about in 2nd option plus its better if you feel your going to rejected might as leave out the "Please go out with me" bit and just add "just wanted to be friends" then establish the grounds from there.

5th option: Well if you have reputation, the looks, and money this might work but still if you don't got the right attitude things wouldn't work it long term and probably using your less important feature while not taking advantage of your best weapon on hand your "personality".

I go with none of the above, It's best for my personality to be friends first and go from there to establish a comfort zone and interest grounds by all means this my opinion
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Posted 12/10/08
i choose #4
Posted 12/10/08
well i was guna go for none of the above but the main reason i picked the first one is because most of us girls wait til the guy asks us out. or we end up getting our friends to ask the guy and then the guy thinks oh she doesnt like me that much coz she didnt ask me herself. most girls are scared to ask. but thats also the same with guys but i do think its best to get to know the girl first and after a while when u are close frends to ask the question. but even if she doesnt want to go out with her still be frends because normally we girls just need more time to get to know you, if u ask a little later we may say yes. dont justy aks once but dont ask too much coz thats desperate. ^-^ hope that helps
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Posted 12/11/08

smexcii_tiger_loves_you wrote:

well i was guna go for none of the above but the main reason i picked the first one is because most of us girls wait til the guy asks us out. or we end up getting our friends to ask the guy and then the guy thinks oh she doesnt like me that much coz she didnt ask me herself. most girls are scared to ask. but thats also the same with guys but i do think its best to get to know the girl first and after a while when u are close frends to ask the question. but even if she doesnt want to go out with her still be frends because normally we girls just need more time to get to know you, if u ask a little later we may say yes. dont justy aks once but dont ask too much coz thats desperate. ^-^ hope that helps


:) nice to know the opposite genders point of view(although I am not the person who started this topic) :D
Posted 12/11/08

psyopslayerx wrote:


smexcii_tiger_loves_you wrote:

well i was guna go for none of the above but the main reason i picked the first one is because most of us girls wait til the guy asks us out. or we end up getting our friends to ask the guy and then the guy thinks oh she doesnt like me that much coz she didnt ask me herself. most girls are scared to ask. but thats also the same with guys but i do think its best to get to know the girl first and after a while when u are close frends to ask the question. but even if she doesnt want to go out with her still be frends because normally we girls just need more time to get to know you, if u ask a little later we may say yes. dont justy aks once but dont ask too much coz thats desperate. ^-^ hope that helps


:) nice to know the opposite genders point of view(although I am not the person who started this topic) :D


lol hehe well thats just what i think but hey im only 15 i dont really know the meaning of love but i know im in love with this one guy. But yeah i got more to learn ^-^
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Posted 12/11/08

smexcii_tiger_loves_you wrote:


psyopslayerx wrote:


smexcii_tiger_loves_you wrote:

well i was guna go for none of the above but the main reason i picked the first one is because most of us girls wait til the guy asks us out. or we end up getting our friends to ask the guy and then the guy thinks oh she doesnt like me that much coz she didnt ask me herself. most girls are scared to ask. but thats also the same with guys but i do think its best to get to know the girl first and after a while when u are close frends to ask the question. but even if she doesnt want to go out with her still be frends because normally we girls just need more time to get to know you, if u ask a little later we may say yes. dont justy aks once but dont ask too much coz thats desperate. ^-^ hope that helps


:) nice to know the opposite genders point of view(although I am not the person who started this topic) :D


lol hehe well thats just what i think but hey im only 15 i dont really know the meaning of love but i know im in love with this one guy. But yeah i got more to learn ^-^


Its not about age that counts but more experience, and your opinion is great and covers a detail base All in all, Learning is applied to all, there's always something new to learn everyday
Posted 12/11/08

psyopslayerx wrote:


smexcii_tiger_loves_you wrote:


psyopslayerx wrote:


smexcii_tiger_loves_you wrote:

well i was guna go for none of the above but the main reason i picked the first one is because most of us girls wait til the guy asks us out. or we end up getting our friends to ask the guy and then the guy thinks oh she doesnt like me that much coz she didnt ask me herself. most girls are scared to ask. but thats also the same with guys but i do think its best to get to know the girl first and after a while when u are close frends to ask the question. but even if she doesnt want to go out with her still be frends because normally we girls just need more time to get to know you, if u ask a little later we may say yes. dont justy aks once but dont ask too much coz thats desperate. ^-^ hope that helps


:) nice to know the opposite genders point of view(although I am not the person who started this topic) :D


lol hehe well thats just what i think but hey im only 15 i dont really know the meaning of love but i know im in love with this one guy. But yeah i got more to learn ^-^


Its not about age that counts but more experience, and your opinion is great and covers a detail base All in all, Learning is applied to all, there's always something new to learn everyday


hehe yes that is true, love is something you cant control but when you have it its great. you can never stop learning about love due to there is no end of it. its infinite. thats whats so amazing about it. ^-^ its just finding the right person and then its like 3 2 1 lift off lol lol
Posted 12/11/08
lol im shy i wont do any of those hahaha.....im probbly the type that would run up uphill on a mountain and shout out "i really like you!!!!" then go back down again and pretend like nothing hapenned
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Posted 12/12/08
direct approach to the girl is the greatest thing thats' for sure'
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