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If it was a girl, and the hentai in question was only about girls, and it would only be us two watching it then I might put up with it. Although I wouldn't really be pleased. If you are in a relationship with someone you really care about, you shouldn't need anything extra like hentai. I would take it as an insultment to me. I mean basically, if you need porn to get off as well then that's like saying the person you are going out with isn't good enough. Who wants to be in a relationship like that? If I'm not good enough, then go out with someone else.
"an insult to me" is the correct word.
anyways, that doesn't disprove my point at all. "they suggested something i don't like, so i'm breaking up with them immediately" is a hugely over-reactive response. what happened to just sitting down and talking about it? "i have a really strong aversion to watching anything penis-y. [insert reasons here] how about we watch something else instead?" ....or "why do we need porn? is our relationship that boring?" etc etc.
anyways, this seems to be turning into a personal attack, and i don't really think it's going anywhere either, so i'm done, now.
It's not a personal attack on you. I just don't like guys in general. And if I think about it, I probably would just talk about it and say I didn't want to with a girl rather than dump them on the spot. If they pushed the subject though I would dump them.
Thing is, (and I can't really say this in any way without sounding sexist) I would if it was a guy. Guys just scare the hell out of me. And I doubt a guy would be able to except that I just don't want to do that. Where as I am confident a girl would be ok with that and respect my opinion. I suppose I am just not meant to have a boyfriend. Which is ok with me. I just hate the fact that guys get all offended when I don't want to hook up with them.
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SOMEONE needs to learn a little more about sexuality and sexual psychology.
I have never seen someone as ignorant and judgemental as this.
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Syndicaidramon wrote:
SOMEONE needs to learn a little more about sexuality and sexual psychology.
I have never seen someone as ignorant and judgemental as this.
eh.. with such black and white opinions, it feels like there might be something from her past leading to that kind of behavior.
eclair-lumiere wrote:
It's not a personal attack on you.
Thing is, (and I can't really say this in any way without sounding sexist) I would if it was a guy. Guys just scare the hell out of me. And I doubt a guy would be able to except that I just don't want to do that. Where as I am confident a girl would be ok with that and respect my opinion. I suppose I am just not meant to have a boyfriend. Which is ok with me. I just hate the fact that guys get all offended when I don't want to hook up with them.
no, i meant it felt like i was starting to attack you personally. but like i just said to Syndicaidramon, it sounds like there's something in your past involving guys that has made you scared of them.
it doesn't really sound sexist to say that you're scared of guys... it sounds like either past bad history, or complete ignorance. you would just have to find the right guy who -could- accept (is it -really- so hard to distinguish between these two words?) the way you feel.
mind you, if boy-bits are so scary and repulsive anyways, you probably are better off with a girl in the first place.
...so much for me being done with it. lol.
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I would end up having an extremely hard boner for her and ask her to have rough sex with me.
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Hentai is weird. I would probably be weirded out if he asked.
BUUUUTTTTTTT... if it was any normal porn video, I would watch it with him. I get to pick though.
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I would be wierded out but then watch it in hopes it lead to us getting it on
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youwannaroll wrote:
eclair-lumiere wrote:
It's not a personal attack on you.
Thing is, (and I can't really say this in any way without sounding sexist) I would if it was a guy. Guys just scare the hell out of me. And I doubt a guy would be able to except that I just don't want to do that. Where as I am confident a girl would be ok with that and respect my opinion. I suppose I am just not meant to have a boyfriend. Which is ok with me. I just hate the fact that guys get all offended when I don't want to hook up with them.
no, i meant it felt like i was starting to attack you personally. but like i just said to Syndicaidramon, it sounds like there's something in your past involving guys that has made you scared of them.
it doesn't really sound sexist to say that you're scared of guys... it sounds like either past bad history, or complete ignorance. you would just have to find the right guy who -could- accept (is it -really- so hard to distinguish between these two words?) the way you feel.
mind you, if boy-bits are so scary and repulsive anyways, you probably are better off with a girl in the first place.
...so much for me being done with it. lol.
It's never a good idea to pry into people's personal lives and assume that if they seem a bit bothered by a subject, that you can notice why.
About this thread...I wouldn't feel very comfortable since it's an invitation for awkwardness. I mean, hentai isn't the right way to bond or to even get turned on. People should just do that on their free time by themselves.
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Darkraivids wrote:
It's never a good idea to pry into people's personal lives and assume that if they seem a bit bothered by a subject, that you can notice why.
About this thread...I wouldn't feel very comfortable since it's an invitation for awkwardness. I mean, hentai isn't the right way to bond or to even get turned on. People should just do that on their free time by themselves.
yea, i don't really want to pry into peoples' personal lives either. for that matter it might not even be something consciously aware. but there's some really strong feelings going on there, regardless... and i figure to have feelings -that- strong, it's got to have -some- basis.
anyways, what's wrong with watching a lil porn with someone you're a;ready intimate with?
i mean sure, it's not "first date" kinda stuff. but when you've been together for a while... lots of couples enjoy watching porn sometimes. it might be an interesting way to spice it up once in a while.
on the other hand, if you -need- to watch porn, just to get turned on enough to get it on with your partner.... that's kind of a problem.
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youwannaroll wrote:
Darkraivids wrote:
It's never a good idea to pry into people's personal lives and assume that if they seem a bit bothered by a subject, that you can notice why.
About this thread...I wouldn't feel very comfortable since it's an invitation for awkwardness. I mean, hentai isn't the right way to bond or to even get turned on. People should just do that on their free time by themselves.
yea, i don't really want to pry into peoples' personal lives either. for that matter it might not even be something consciously aware. but there's some really strong feelings going on there, regardless... and i figure to have feelings -that- strong, it's got to have -some- basis.
anyways, what's wrong with watching a lil porn with someone you're a;ready intimate with?
i mean sure, it's not "first date" kinda stuff. but when you've been together for a while... lots of couples enjoy watching porn sometimes. it might be an interesting way to spice it up once in a while.
on the other hand, if you -need- to watch porn, just to get turned on enough to get it on with your partner.... that's kind of a problem.
I see. Well, you sir, will make a great detective! :)
And there's nothing really wrong.. like I said, it invites awkwardness in the sense that it will make the 2 people watching want to have sex.. lol. This reminds me of the anime B Gata H Kei when Yamada and Kosuda were in the hotel watching porn.. ahh.. that was so funny.
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It's a trap! They'll ask you to watch yaoi later.
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Darkraivids wrote:
And there's nothing really wrong.. like I said, it invites awkwardness in the sense that it will make the 2 people watching want to have sex.. lol. This reminds me of the anime B Gata H Kei when Yamada and Kosuda were in the hotel watching porn.. ahh.. that was so funny.
hm. i still need to watch that series.
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And here lies youwannaroll, dead after watching one of the worse piece of crap ever.
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I'd be kinda surprised and then be like, "Okay, whatever."
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Spoiler Alert! Click to show or hide Syndicaidramon wrote:
SOMEONE needs to learn a little more about sexuality and sexual psychology.
I have never seen someone as ignorant and judgemental as this.
Says the guy who can't stop trolling me. And I've seen you trolling other people too. If you want me to stop being sexist, why don't you stop acting like such an idiot? Because you are just proving my point.
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