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Are you sexually active?
Posted 12/8/08

Laharalsan_666 wrote:

no i am 23 and yet to have sex =_= my hand is another story <.<


nicely done. We shall go have sex with escorts together
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Posted 12/8/08
I am waiting for the right woman to enter my life =3...*said that 4 years ago*

Where the heck is she! *said that a minute ago*

*cries* *currently doing this at the moment*
Posted 12/8/08

Xaszx wrote:

I am waiting for the right woman to enter my life =3...*said that 4 years ago*

Where the heck is she! *said that a minute ago*

*cries* *currently doing this at the moment*


why bother waiting? soon that Ms Right would let you down and probably end up leaving you. Then you'd regret ever waiting 4+ years for her. yeahhhh

Go out and have sex with whoever. Better to let others down than to be let down yourself =o

Never be optimistic with love whahahaa
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Posted 12/8/08

LilLaoWow wrote:


Xaszx wrote:

I am waiting for the right woman to enter my life =3...*said that 4 years ago*

Where the heck is she! *said that a minute ago*

*cries* *currently doing this at the moment*


why bother waiting? soon that Ms Right would let you down and probably end up leaving you. Then you'd regret ever waiting 4+ years for her. yeahhhh

Go out and have sex with whoever. Better to let others down than to be let down yourself =o

Never be optimistic with love whahahaa


i was engaged once at 16, i am not a virgin, this was the best decision for me, and i owe it to my future wife to wait for her <3 (whoever the heck she is!)
Posted 12/8/08

Xaszx wrote:


LilLaoWow wrote:


Xaszx wrote:

I am waiting for the right woman to enter my life =3...*said that 4 years ago*

Where the heck is she! *said that a minute ago*

*cries* *currently doing this at the moment*


why bother waiting? soon that Ms Right would let you down and probably end up leaving you. Then you'd regret ever waiting 4+ years for her. yeahhhh

Go out and have sex with whoever. Better to let others down than to be let down yourself =o

Never be optimistic with love whahahaa


i was engaged once at 16, i am not a virgin, this was the best decision for me, and i owe it to my future wife to wait for her <3 (whoever the heck she is!)


hahaha sounds like me, dude. Oh the things we say when we're teens. Guesss that first 'engagement' never worked out haha neither did mines. You're missing out though. Whose to say your fiancee is waiting for you as well =D
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Posted 12/8/08

LilLaoWow wrote:


Xaszx wrote:


LilLaoWow wrote:


Xaszx wrote:

I am waiting for the right woman to enter my life =3...*said that 4 years ago*

Where the heck is she! *said that a minute ago*

*cries* *currently doing this at the moment*


why bother waiting? soon that Ms Right would let you down and probably end up leaving you. Then you'd regret ever waiting 4+ years for her. yeahhhh

Go out and have sex with whoever. Better to let others down than to be let down yourself =o

Never be optimistic with love whahahaa


i was engaged once at 16, i am not a virgin, this was the best decision for me, and i owe it to my future wife to wait for her <3 (whoever the heck she is!)


hahaha sounds like me, dude. Oh the things we say when we're teens. Guesss that first 'engagement' never worked out haha neither did mines. You're missing out though. Whose to say your fiancee is waiting for you as well =D


fu-fu-fu, your mistaken my friend, i have already given up hope in finding her and have accepted my eternal fate xD, alas i must go as well and watch some more of ze anime! *trickles off sadly with his tail between his toes*
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Posted 12/8/08
hah..you got me there xDD Will it not be better if you don't figure out xD
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Woahhh,I'm only 14 shiatt.
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Posted 12/8/08
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Posted 12/8/08 , edited 12/8/08

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men1986 wrote:

Well I'm sure your parents would't be happy to read these open ups.

My best advice is just get to your 18s or 21s or over and do whatever the heck you wanna do.

After all,kids you should listen to your parents stay out of trouble.

There are many things you want to accomplish then sex,believe me.

So,you should concentrate on your future rather then stupidity.


She's sixteen years old. She's well at the age where she starts thinking about these things. I don't think that parents should hide sex from their children and from how you speak it's almost as though you think sex is bad and that you should stay away from it--that it's "trouble" (at least that's how you make it sound).

I don't think that young folk should have sex due to the fact that for women it can increase the chances of cancer if you have sex at an age where your body hasn't developed fully (happened to a friend for that exact reason. Ever had to sit there and hold your friend's hand while they "burn" off the possibly cancerous cyst on the inside of her cervix at 14 years old? I did).

But sex/love making is very natural. I think you should wait to have sex until you're in love. Stay away from a friends with benefits situation. Some people swear by it but believe me that it feels great when it's with someone you love. Yes, I've only been with one person--but my relationship with this person began as a friends with benefits situation and I'm very glad that I was lucky enough to where it progressed into a relationship and then love.

To the girl who wrote this thread, or to anyone who reads this, be friends first. Make sure there's chemistry between you and your partner before you act upon your "primal" instincts and lust.

To the guy that I quoted... you were a teenager once... lighten up. Sex is a part of life. They'll do it regardless of whether or not you say it's stupid or troublesome. The best you can do is offer them support on ways to practice safe sex rather than stifling it and ignoring the issue and the fact that they'll do it no matter what you say!

<3<3


You see by reading your post I certainly understood your attitude toward sex which is ok or moreover should be taught in school.
Well,here is the problem. One thing is for sure that underage teen is not ready to make desicions on how to live and how to deal with life situations and that's why parents in place because they are the ones in charge of a kid while kid is not grown up yet at least to the legal terms.
I could be agree on sex education in school and certainly parents need to take responsibility for that because nowadays when sex is all over the TV and media there is no doubt you have to teach or keep it under control otherwise you could end up with teen pregnancy or teen father which is not recommended after all.
No matter what you say on safe sex and all that condoms break anyway even if it's worlds top condom brand.It's rubber when you beat that thing in to another out of 10 condoms 1 will break if it's not more.
Again,parents are the ones who should take care of a kid until kid turns a legal age and after that you are free to do so because it's good for your own sake.

Whether sex is good? Of course it is,I'm not gonna argue over that.
But,when you'll be having your own kids then you will understand what this is all about.Until then,I don't think you do realize how really this is an issue for parents if it happens.
When you get there I would't want you to be in that situation because it's not the way to go.

It's better for kids to be involved in something else like education and all sorts of activities.

But early sex is certainly not one of them.You better of thinking about your bright future because in this world as soon as you grow up you will need a lot to learn yet and be ready for many challenges in life like job,family,career maybe or something like that and most make sure you'll be having food on your own table plus be able to pay your own bills.



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You see by reading your post I certainly understood your attitude toward sex which is ok or moreover should be taught in school.
Well,here is the problem. One thing is for sure that underage teen is not ready to make desicions on how to live and how to deal with life situations and that's why parents in place because they are the ones in charge of a kid while kid is not grown up yet at least to the legal terms.
I could be agree on sex education in school and certainly parents need to take responsibility for that because nowadays when sex is all over the TV and media there is no doubt you have to teach or keep it under control otherwise you could end up with teen pregnancy or teen father which is not recommended after all.
No matter what you say on safe sex and all that condoms break anyway even if it's worlds top condom brand.It's rubber when you beat that thing in to another out of 10 condoms 1 will break if it's not more.
Again,parents are the ones who should take care of a kid until kid turns a legal age and after that you are free to do so because it's good for your own sake.

Whether sex is good? Of course it is,I'm not gonna argue over that.
But,when you'll be having your own kids then you will understand what this is all about.Until then,I don't think you do realize how really this is an issue for parents if it happens.
When you get there I would't want you to be in that situation because it's not the way to go.

It's better for kids to be involved in something else like education and all sorts of activities.

But early sex is certainly not one of them.You better of thinking about your bright future because in this world as soon as you grow up you will need a lot to learn yet and be ready for many challenges in life like job,family,career maybe or something like that and most make sure you'll be having food on your own table plus be able to pay your own bills.


Don't speak to me as though you know what my life is all about, guy. I'm 23 years old, live on my own and pay my own bills. I am perfectly aware of the chances of pregnancy when it comes to sex. Condoms provide 97% effectiveness whereas feminine birth control provides 99.9%. If you use the two of them together the chances of you getting pregnant are fairly slim to none--though there is always a possibility.

You say that 1 out of 10 condoms break. Have you had bad experience with breaking condoms? If so I'd wager it's more of a problem on your own part than the condom itself. Perhaps you aren't using it correctly; perhaps you aren't providing enough "bubble" at the tip of the penis to allow for adequate room. I've had a condom break on me once within the 4 years and 9 months of me dating my boyfriend and the reason it broke was our own fault--not the condom.

Do condoms break? Yes, they do. Some of the fault is with the person (put it on incorrectly, placed the condom on their person it shouldn't be, e.g. wallet), some is on an actual faulty condom.

Parents... your idea of parenting seems to be more overbearing than not. I understand being protective of your child but at the same time you have to give and take. You have to be protective but at the same time you can't be too overbearing or shadow over them too much (when they reach a certain age). If you begin to crowd them you only push them away. In fact they may even do the very thing you are trying to keep them away from.

I understand your logic on the matter. I do. I understand that what I am saying now may change in the future if I become a parent--but I would like to be a mother like my own who was open about everything with me. Treated and talked to me in a way where I felt as though I could tell her anything. Any question I had about sex (educational, of course) I could ask her.

When I was a child (about 5 or so) some bullies in my neighborhood told me that I was having sex with my best friend who happened to be a boy. I went home and asked my mother, "What is sex?" She told me, "Nothing you need to know about." "How do I know if I'm not doing it though?" I asked. She said, "You aren't. Trust me." But being the smart little girl I was, I said something that totally floored my mother and she decided to tell me:

"How do I know if I'm not doing it if I don't even know what it is?"

It's a touchy subject, but I don't think you need to lecture her on asking who is sexually active (I'm referring to the girl who posted this). The only reason you would need to worry if the reason for her inquiry was that she felt left out and was considering getting sexually active to "fit in".

In the end, all you can hope is that these kids are knowledgeable on the risks of getting an STD, getting pregnant and how to practice safe sex. After all... it only takes one time.
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it's so heartwarming to think about it

P.S. what does the OP mean lol?
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Uh when I was 18 not anymore though .
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