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and you enjoy that? :T
thats some twisted mind you have there, sir D:


you ought to try it sometime, you find that life gets a hell of a lot easier when you don't give a damn about other people or their feelings.


yes but we're two very different personalities.
when i hurt someone else, i start feeling too guilty, and i have to make it up somehow.


See that's the problem, Learn to not care about anything. People frown upon it, but if you don't care, it doesn't matter now does it. People call me a asshole, when they find out about stuff like I don't give a damn about stuff like 9-11 or little kids getting raped or murdered. Sure they don't like it, but then again I have never cared about being politically correct or my words/actions being socially acceptable. so yea I will cuss or make dirty jokes in front of children, even if the parents are right there. Never bothered me before, and I'm not about to let it bother me now. you ought to try it, you'll find life really does get a lot easier.


thats pretty evil of you :{
i couldnt do that, even if i wanted to. im not a saint but im the kind of person that cant pass by a homeless person without feeling sorry and giving money.
i doubt you care about homeless people too.


Ugh, You could do it, if you wanted to. It's not considered evil either. It's not at all hard to ignore other people and their feelings. it just takes some work to get used to it, if you put your mind to it, i know for a fact you could do it. I used to care about stuff like yous, but then I came to the realisation that the standard person is a complete idiot and everone else is twice as stupid as that. Not to mention I found lots of flaws in things I used to believe in, and If I find too many flaws in something I can't believe in it anymore. So if you really wanted to, with a little bit of effort, you could be the same as me. and simple not care. Trust me, your life will get a LOT easier. And no its not evil either.
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i still believe true love exist and it cant really be explained thru science, thats how i feel about it



Of course you do, and you also believe that the earth is 2000 years old right ?
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i still believe true love exist and it cant really be explained thru science, thats how i feel about it



Of course you do, and you also believe that the earth is 2000 years old right ?


ok i'm not stupid whoever believes that is a retard... now your just trying to offend me. i guess you'll just have to learn yourself and then decide wether its true love or not i don't think your old enough or have experienced it yet. so there it goes.
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i still believe true love exist and it cant really be explained thru science, thats how i feel about it



Of course you do, and you also believe that the earth is 2000 years old right ?


ok i'm not stupid whoever believes that is a retard... now your just trying to offend me. i guess you'll just have to learn yourself and then decide wether its true love or not i don't think your old enough or have experienced it yet. so there it goes.


So the 2 years you have on me is gonna make a signifant difference eh ? Right, Dude i understand that people think true love is magical, and i also understand that those people are idiots. Love, happiness, anger, depression and all other emotions can and have been explained through science. Facts take a shit on religion and personal feelings all the time. Thats how it is. So tough deal with it. Most people are too closed minded to accept that what they believe may be false. thats why there are so many retards on this thread trying to deny what i said. even though the factual evidence is right there, they push it away and ignore it. Most people are like that. When face with facts that disprove what they believe they ignore the facts because their scared to accept something new and different.
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Allhailodin wrote:


tedyesca wrote:


Allhailodin wrote:


tedyesca wrote:




i still believe true love exist and it cant really be explained thru science, thats how i feel about it



Of course you do, and you also believe that the earth is 2000 years old right ?


ok i'm not stupid whoever believes that is a retard... now your just trying to offend me. i guess you'll just have to learn yourself and then decide wether its true love or not i don't think your old enough or have experienced it yet. so there it goes.


So the 2 years you have on me is gonna make a signifant difference eh ? Right, Dude i understand that people think true love is magical, and i also understand that those people are idiots. Love, happiness, anger, depression and all other emotions can and have been explained through science. Facts take a shit on religion and personal feelings all the time. Thats how it is. So tough deal with it. Most people are too closed minded to accept that what they believe may be false. thats why there are so many retards on this thread trying to deny what i said. even though the factual evidence is right there, they push it away and ignore it. Most people are like that. When face with facts that disprove what they believe they ignore the facts because their scared to accept something new and different.


two years can and cannot make a difference a day can make a difference even a second.
and i never said love was magical if you cant understand what love is dont post stuff like that.
you have to see things from different angles you cant just be basing things of off one or two things and you dont have to keep responding not that i care
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blegh , the post was too long I wasn't in the mood to read it all. The whole true love thing to me isn't necessarily true or fake. Of course I'm only young and don't know anything about this fully yet, but I understand feelings are a strong thing, either that or all people are just weak, but if a person believes in true love then let them. I think its better to chase something that isn't there happily than knowing those cold hard facts, cause we feel good when we're happy, knowledge really doesn't have to put us up or bring us down. I think this was already proven though, people deny true love cause they've never felt it, people who believe in true love because they wish to find it are both found here, but doesn't matter what anyone here says, we believe in what we believe.
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seems like someone's been hurt D:


yeah...by you !!!! D:
LOL :P


O_o;; haha i dont think ive ever hurt anyone emotionally :}


Not one person? That's odd, are you sure you're of the female gender? LOL :X
Maybe unconsciously you did. ahhahaha
Well if you haven't I am sure you will.


LMAO pshhh please.
i guess i did sometime. rejection isnt always pretty but i did it nicely, you know? :}
i dont say "NO. YOUR FAT. BYE" i say "no, sorry :}"
ahah.
and PSHHH you questioning my gender.
guys emotionally hurt girls more than the other way around. kthx :}


some people might take it better if you tell them straight up instead of wondering what they did wrong and stuff, heck i'm sure if you said NO YOUR FAT. BYE they might actually get enough inspiration or dedication to lose weight

but then id feel like shit and so would he :T

well that piece of shit might make something better of himself roflmao
and you women are too susceptible to emotion! viva le cruelty


because we women know what it feels like to get hurt by a guy. COS IT HAPPENS. very often.
since the only guys who actually care about how a girl feels are bisexual or gay.


well that means that guys also know what it feels like to get hurt by a girl, afterall a relationship is a 2 way streak ain't it? and you're just implying that only guys break up with girls >.>


but like you said, girls care more about emotion. therefore, guys dont get hurt as badly as girls do :}

but....theres honestly nothing different between a guy breaking up with a girl or the other way around. btw, many guys are sensitive as well ( they don't have to be homo, bi, or heck even metrosexual) its just that theres too much emphasis spent on emotions, which is pointless when breaking up.


not true D: theres a big difference.
if the guy treats me wrong, then breaking up might hurt for him
but then again, he deserved it for treating me wrong D:
BUT it shows when a guy is sensitive and thats when girls say it nicely.
guys would say "this isnt working out. its not you its me. lets break up."
which, ofcourse girls hate the MOST.


how would he care if he treated you terribly in the first place? but what i'm trying to say prettying up a break up still doesn't change anything =/ and i'm telling you hurting him might be helping him in the long run. i.e. dealing with his emotions, learning to treat people better etc, regardless or not that he was nice or not.
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It's funny, a social retard telling us what is and what isn't. I can see where you coming from, and I totally get it, but the other factors that come to play in your little "love doesn't exist, look at me I have no feelings, I hate people, I go on the internet to make social contact, IRONING IRONING".

But really at the end of the day, why the hell is anyone going to take you seriously.

The denial of feelings really just shows the lack of it from others, or shows the rejection from others. I see no other way. "Oh I see flaws in people", yep so do I, but social conditioning and programming has caused us to be a certain way, to have these flaws. And guess what? It's a human thing. It's allowed. The person with the most flaws is the one who thinks they have none.

So you can go around telling people love doesn't exist and then offer no solution to cope with the sudden feeling of loss, but no ones going to listen to a bitter person, everyone just passes them by. If you see that as a flaw, then don't be so self involved.
Posted 12/9/08 , edited 12/9/08

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When we think about love we tend to think about this wonderful warm fuzzy feeling. Most people actually think thats what love is, and those people are total idiots. Allow me to take a shit on that philosophy, and explain how "love" and "happiness" really work



The Emotional Brain, known as the Limbic System, is a grouping of related components surrounding the Brain-Stem and lying beneath the Neocortex. These ancillary artefacts include the Hypothalamus, the Amygdala, and the Hippocampus. Although certain activities and properties are centred in each part, it must be emphasised that although each of these artefacts are discrete constructions in themselves, they, as in all things in the natural world, act not in isolation but as part of an integrated system.

The Hypothalamus triggers the physical manifestations such as the pounding heart and dry mouth that come with fear. The Hippocampus is responsible for our memories of incidents that carry a strong emotional flavour. The Amygdala influences the manners in which we behave when emotionally aroused. For example, laughing when happy, and crying when distressed. It is particularly active in emotional reactions associated with fear, anger, flight and defence.

These parts of the brain are the hardware, the chemicals that they use as communicators may be considered as being our software.

"Emotions are neuropeptides attaching to receptors and stimulating an electrical change on neurons. The mind exists not only in the brain. Neuropeptides are also produced by the spleen, thymus, bone marrow, lymph glands, and the dorsal horn of the spine. Neuropeptides produced by the brain, arriving to open receptors in the intestines, are the root of the expression 'gut feeling'."

So this "love" and "happiness" you think your in, don't exist. the emotion "love" exists for one reason only, and that reason is to continue the species and to further its evolution. After so many more generations who knows that homo-sapiens will evolve into. So when you think your in love, its a total falsehood. It's nothing more than a bio-chemical reaction designed to allow the continuation and further the evolution of this species. And too all the people who still wanna deny it and say" Love is much more than a bio-chemical reaction" your idiots who are too closed minded to accept the truth, but that's ok, most people are like that.


Wow....you know, I've always liked reading your answers, you're a very interesting person, in a philisophical kinda way..

I've never thought about it that way, I actually had to go back over what you were saying (duh, big words confuse me) I'm not going to try and argue with you (since I pretty much have nothing to say) but I've always thought that love was a somewhat useless emotion anyway, and people always say I'm barely happy so....this really doesn't bother me one bit But just because I believe in an religion, doesn't mean I push away other people's opinions. I try to understand their's first, then say my own. I'm only 15, I don't understand love and happiness, but I do know that those things arn't nessarly stupid in my opinion, if it was then why were we given these emotions in the first place.
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Did anyone else lol at Hippocampus, come on Hippocampus what a name XD.

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Allhailodin wrote:

When we think about love we tend to think about this wonderful warm fuzzy feeling. Most people actually think thats what love is, and those people are total idiots. Allow me to take a shit on that philosophy, and explain how "love" and "happiness" really work



The Emotional Brain, known as the Limbic System, is a grouping of related components surrounding the Brain-Stem and lying beneath the Neocortex. These ancillary artefacts include the Hypothalamus, the Amygdala, and the Hippocampus. Although certain activities and properties are centred in each part, it must be emphasised that although each of these artefacts are discrete constructions in themselves, they, as in all things in the natural world, act not in isolation but as part of an integrated system.

The Hypothalamus triggers the physical manifestations such as the pounding heart and dry mouth that come with fear. The Hippocampus is responsible for our memories of incidents that carry a strong emotional flavour. The Amygdala influences the manners in which we behave when emotionally aroused. For example, laughing when happy, and crying when distressed. It is particularly active in emotional reactions associated with fear, anger, flight and defence.

These parts of the brain are the hardware, the chemicals that they use as communicators may be considered as being our software.

"Emotions are neuropeptides attaching to receptors and stimulating an electrical change on neurons. The mind exists not only in the brain. Neuropeptides are also produced by the spleen, thymus, bone marrow, lymph glands, and the dorsal horn of the spine. Neuropeptides produced by the brain, arriving to open receptors in the intestines, are the root of the expression 'gut feeling'."

So this "love" and "happiness" you think your in, don't exist. the emotion "love" exists for one reason only, and that reason is to continue the species and to further its evolution. After so many more generations who knows that homo-sapiens will evolve into. So when you think your in love, its a total falsehood. It's nothing more than a bio-chemical reaction designed to allow the continuation and further the evolution of this species. And too all the people who still wanna deny it and say" Love is much more than a bio-chemical reaction" your idiots who are too closed minded to accept the truth, but that's ok, most people are like that.


Wow....you know, I've always liked reading your answers, you're a very interesting person, in a philisophical kinda way..

I've never thought about it that way, I actually had to go back over what you were saying (duh, big words confuse me) I'm not going to try and argue with you (since I pretty much have nothing to say) but I've always thought that love was a somewhat useless emotion anyway, and people always say I'm barely happy so....this really doesn't bother me one bit But just because I believe in an religion, doesn't mean I push away other people's opinions. I try to understand their's first, then say my own. I'm only 15, I don't understand love and happiness, but I do know that those things arn't nessarly stupid in my opinion, if it was then why were we given these emotions in the first place.


I just find it amusing how many people when faced with the facts, still won't accept that what they know and believe is false. But then again most human beings are closed minded anyway, also most people mindlessly conform to fit in. And the ones who don't mindlessly conform and actually think outside the box are considered "disturbed" or different" It's the things like that, that amuse me. Most people look, act, and think the same. There are roughly 400,000,000,000,000 (400 Trillion) synapses in your brain that give you the ability to think for yourself and yet nobody seems to do so.

In reality "Love" is an emotion designed to make people continue the species thus helping humanity survive and further evolve. While yes I am utterly anti-social and thus I don't meet many people, naturally people are gonna try to use that against me by saying "Well if you've never been in love you can't possibly understand" That really doesn't work. And actually all that does is prove to me how many people are closed minded and refuse to think outside the box, and accept the truth.

And yes Love does exist, its a emotion and emotions do exist. But this entire concept of this "True Love" I endlessly heard about does not in fact exist.

I actually did this thread as an experiment to see how many people would still try to deny something when faced with facts the proved them otherwise.
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It's true if you make it true and if your willing to believe. Don't trust your heart cus it's traitorous and makes you see things that aren't there. I learned that the hard way....
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Allhailodin wrote:

When we think about love we tend to think about this wonderful warm fuzzy feeling. Most people actually think thats what love is, and those people are total idiots. Allow me to take a shit on that philosophy, and explain how "love" and "happiness" really work



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