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If u need advice please ask for it. I'm here to help u!!!!!!!!!
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My best friend is moving away. I love him. There are two problems. We're both guys and I have a girlfriend. What should I do?
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First u need to find out one thing. R u "in love" w/ ur girlfriend? Or do u just love her? R u "in love' w/ ur best friend or do u love him as a friend? If u love him more than as a friend, go for it. It is never wrong to go for the one u love. Get together w/ both ur friend and girkfriend and tell them ur feelings. I wish u good luck.
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Thank u for the help. My best friend told me he liked me as well. Guess what? Yuki turned out to like some other guy. We are still friends. I wish my best friend, Tetsuya, didn't still have to move away. He said he'd visit. I hope our relationship will only get better. Thank U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Thank u for the help. My best friend told me he liked me as well. Guess what? Yuki turned out to like some other guy. We are still friends. I wish my best friend, Tetsuya, didn't still have to move away. He said he'd visit. I hope our relationship will only get better. Thank U!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


I'm just wondering how it's going. Did he move yet? If he did, how r u feeling?
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Sorry for the late reply. He did move, but he moved into an apartment with me. Our parents weren't happy. Oh well. We are doing very good. One day I hope to marry him. Thanx for all of your help!
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So, I guess I have you to thank. My name is Tetsuya. Thanks to you, I'm going to ask Kyro to marry me soon!
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Sigh this very embarrassing to say but I think I'm in love with my brother. I don't know what to do, and on top of that he already has a gf and she is very pretty. Plus I don't think my parents would ever approve of it. And my brother thinks only of me as his kawaii little sister.
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Sigh this very embarrassing to say but I think I'm in love with my brother. I don't know what to do, and on top of that he already has a gf and she is very pretty. Plus I don't think my parents would ever approve of it. And my brother thinks only of me as his kawaii little sister.


The first thing you need to do is find out if you are "in love" with him or if your feelins of love towards your brother is just very strong. To find out if you're "in love" with him check off the following for yourself if it is true:

~even if you are down in the dumps, just seeing his face makes you happy.
~you hear/feel your heart pounding very hard only around him
~your feel jealousy towards his girlfriend
~when your friends ask you who you think is cute/handsome, you first think of him
~even if he does something wrong, you forgive him
~if he gets hurt, you run and get help or try to make him feel better
~you put himself before yourself
~he is all you can think of
~(you never know, it may happen) you have naughty dreams about him, like kissing him or even more

If you have checked off more than six of these, then you are most likely "in love" with him. I think you should first talk to the person closest to you (not your brother) about how you feel. Next, try to see if your brother thinks that loving one's sibling is wrong. Then slowly tell your parents about these hiden parent. Your parents should always be on your side. I say go for it! Your should follow your heart no matter where it may lead you. Remember, you will always have a friend in me!
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I talked to my best friend about it. And at first she had no idea what to tell me, but she said "If that's really how u feel about him, then I'll try and see what he thinks about the whole brotherXsister thing". The next day she told me that he didn't really see the problem with it, if they were serious about it. I somehow told him but things didn't go so well. He was outright shocked. He said he did love me but only as his sister. I felt/feel horrible. I can't really face him anymore. I ended telling my mom sicne she kept asking me what was wrong. The only thing thing she could do was try to comfort me since she obviously didn't like the idea of me & my brother together. But I thank you for your advice.

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I talked to my best friend about it. And at first she had no idea what to tell me, but she said "If that's really how u feel about him, then I'll try and see what he thinks about the whole brotherXsister thing". The next day she told me that he didn't really see the problem with it, if they were serious about it. I somehow told him but things didn't go so well. He was outright shocked. He said he did love me but only as his sister. I felt/feel horrible. I can't really face him anymore. I ended telling my mom sicne she kept asking me what was wrong. The only thing thing she could do was try to comfort me since she obviously didn't like the idea of me & my brother together. But I thank you for your advice.



I don't think you should give up. I would try to make him think of you not just as a little girl but as a woman. Show him that love can break and overcome anything. Also, I think your mother will change her mind. Love is never wrong! Never Give Up!
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I talked to my best friend about it. And at first she had no idea what to tell me, but she said "If that's really how u feel about him, then I'll try and see what he thinks about the whole brotherXsister thing". The next day she told me that he didn't really see the problem with it, if they were serious about it. I somehow told him but things didn't go so well. He was outright shocked. He said he did love me but only as his sister. I felt/feel horrible. I can't really face him anymore. I ended telling my mom sicne she kept asking me what was wrong. The only thing thing she could do was try to comfort me since she obviously didn't like the idea of me & my brother together. But I thank you for your advice.



I don't think you should give up. I would try to make him think of you not just as a little girl but as a woman. Show him that love can break and overcome anything. Also, I think your mother will change her mind. Love is never wrong! Never Give Up!


All right. I'll keep trying but what should I do. I have no idea how to make him think more of me
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DevilMiku wrote:


Yuki-kyo-kira wrote:


DevilMiku wrote:



I talked to my best friend about it. And at first she had no idea what to tell me, but she said "If that's really how u feel about him, then I'll try and see what he thinks about the whole brotherXsister thing". The next day she told me that he didn't really see the problem with it, if they were serious about it. I somehow told him but things didn't go so well. He was outright shocked. He said he did love me but only as his sister. I felt/feel horrible. I can't really face him anymore. I ended telling my mom sicne she kept asking me what was wrong. The only thing thing she could do was try to comfort me since she obviously didn't like the idea of me & my brother together. But I thank you for your advice.



I don't think you should give up. I would try to make him think of you not just as a little girl but as a woman. Show him that love can break and overcome anything. Also, I think your mother will change her mind. Love is never wrong! Never Give Up!


All right. I'll keep trying but what should I do. I have no idea how to make him think more of me


Show him the you that you want to be. Dress up just for him, show him that you are a good match for him, and once in a while give him a gift. (not expensive, but one that comes from the heart. Keep telling him that you love him. DO NOT be afraid to show him that love. Write love letters she hide them where only he can see. Never give up no matter what he or anyone else says!

Write something like this:


Add:
"..but I did. I love you___(add his name here)__________. "
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Hmm I'll keep trying no matter what. You're really good at this you should get a job doing stuff like this. But when he came home a little while ago and I welcomed him home he was all like "Tch" and when up to his room. He told my dad his problem who told my mom who told me. She said that since he trusts his gf and all he told her about how I loved him all. and she got all annoyed and jealous since we live together and broke up with him which he didn't expect. I kinda feel bad now.
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That just means that his ex-girlfriend wasn't the right person for him. Although you should feel bad for him, you should also be happy for yourself. Try to comfort him by telling him that he will one day find the one he can trust the most. Also try to suggest that you are the one. He may try to push you away but always keep a smile on your face and keep telling him that you love him. Remember to act not as a sister but as a potential lover (girlfriend if you prefer this word).
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