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Posted 3/18/10
t-thank you . . ?
I'm sorry I'm just a little confused right now. .
My brother Micheal. . he just . . . said he wanted to start a relationship with me . .
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Go for it! But tell him how your feel right now. He needs to know and you need to always be true to yourself!
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Posted 4/23/10 , edited 4/23/10

Yuki-kyo-kira wrote:



Go for it! But tell him how your feel right now. He needs to know and you need to always be true to yourself!


This past month has been very happy yet very stressful. I love hanging around Micheal, going on dates, and just being ourselves. but there's my dad, he totally disapproves very strongly. And my mom isn't exactly different from him. We've tried sitting down and talking about but that didn't work. Many times my brother and my dad argue. I argue with my dad and mom. It's just a hell house at home now. I used to look forward going home but now i can't exactly say the same thing. I want and hopefully will stay with Micheal, but i also want my parents acceptance
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It will take time for your parents to accept the relationship. You have two choices: either try to prove that you and Micheal are right together or wait for you parents to accept your relatioonship. I wish there was more I could do to help you, but I'm afraid that sometimes one must let fate guide one's path.
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im depressed and i feel like i dont belong
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im depressed and i feel like i dont belong


Do you mean on CR or in real life?
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How is everything going?
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real life
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real life


Alright. I can give you a few tips. You can always try to find things in common with other people. For example, if you both like anime, start talking about anime and something may click. It doesn't matter what it is that you have in common with someone. It can be anything from a favorite sport to the least favorite teacher. Whatever you do, do not try to be someone else. Stay true to yourself and follow you heart!
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well nobody likes bc of th way i act
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i didn't know which subject to put this in but's it's about my friends, family, lying, my image and my sexuality. I have been dating my best friend for over a year now (we are both female). I knew her since i was in 1st grade. And we started likeing eachother since 5th grade. However I was finally was able to tell my friends I was dating someone, but I told them I was dating someone. I never implied a male. But they kept saying boyfriend and the shiz. My girlfirend and I okay made up a boyfriend for me that takes after her in practically everything (name[Jane to J], athleticness[both good at basketball], skater[both good at skating on roller skates and fall of skateboards], etc). We commonly joke about it. I'm not too close to anyone at school but i still feel that i'm never goin to be myself. I want them to know. But I know the friends (fake) that I have are judgemental. However even though they're fake I can't lose them. I hate bein alone at school and being the one without a partner. So I i like to keep some fake friends. My mom lets me go to my girlfirends house all the time. I practically live at my gf's house in summer. My mom (none of family) doesn't know anything about my orientation nor my gf. She doesn't even know about my fake boyfriend. Heck I'm even afriad to tell her my real religion ( I'm an agnostic atheist she's christian/catholic). I dont really know how I want or need your help. but i just needed to relieve some of my stress
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i didn't know which subject to put this in but's it's about my friends, family, lying, my image and my sexuality. I have been dating my best friend for over a year now (we are both female). I knew her since i was in 1st grade. And we started likeing eachother since 5th grade. However I was finally was able to tell my friends I was dating someone, but I told them I was dating someone. I never implied a male. But they kept saying boyfriend and the shiz. My girlfirend and I okay made up a boyfriend for me that takes after her in practically everything (name[Jane to J], athleticness[both good at basketball], skater[both good at skating on roller skates and fall of skateboards], etc). We commonly joke about it. I'm not too close to anyone at school but i still feel that i'm never goin to be myself. I want them to know. But I know the friends (fake) that I have are judgemental. However even though they're fake I can't lose them. I hate bein alone at school and being the one without a partner. So I i like to keep some fake friends. My mom lets me go to my girlfirends house all the time. I practically live at my gf's house in summer. My mom (none of family) doesn't know anything about my orientation nor my gf. She doesn't even know about my fake boyfriend. Heck I'm even afriad to tell her my real religion ( I'm an agnostic atheist she's christian/catholic). I dont really know how I want or need your help. but i just needed to relieve some of my stress


I'm sorry for not replying sooner. I just returned from my busy life at college! Anyways, lets get to the advice!

First, I know you said that you'd like to keep your "fake" friends, but your girlfriend should be more important then them. I know it won't be easy, but you should first tell your girlfriend that you want to let your friends and family know that you love her. To make it easier, give off hints to your friends. Hint to them that you are dating a female. To be honest, if they do not accept you for who you are, they are not worth hanging out with. Being around "fake" friends is going to hurt you in the end. Once you fully tell them and if the accept you as you are, then start trusting them more and they will soon become true friends. If they do not accept you, find someone who does. No one should have to live as if they are in a cage while others are free to wonder around. I am guessing that is how you feel when you are around them. You have already let your girlfriend in so now it is time to open it wider and let yourself be free.

Telling your parents and the rest of your family may be easier or harder depending on how old fashioned your family is. First, sit down with the family member you feel closest with (it would be best if it was your mother, father, or an older sibling). Start talking to them about your day then begin to tell them how you really feel. Do not be shocked it that person begins to freak out or if they just remain quiet. Give them time to realize that your feelings for your girlfriend will not change your feelings for them. Also, have a family night and watch Prayers for Bobby. It may be painful at first, but your situation is a little simular to Bobby's. This will also help with the religion issue.

Remember that you must be more open with your feelings. Tell your girlfriend how you feel and she will help you. If anything happens, feel free to post here (since I'll be more active) or email me at [email protected] I am also on FaceBook as Yuki Mya Yamato.
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