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What you will do if your boyfriend/girlfriend asks you to have sex?
Posted 11/15/11 , edited 11/15/11

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I say be open and want to do it. If you're not then it will suck.


Which party is sucking then?


Ah, which lips are doing the sucking?



The thing Sasha posted can suck ya.



I pass. That animal has touched Sasha. Don't wanna catch the cooties.
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Selwhyn wrote:

Lets see, yes, im 21 I enjoy sex, im picky though, I always end up dating them for years, shortest relationship 1 year and that was freshman year of highschool where has my youth gone lol.


That's because for women, there is an emotional attachment to the guy during intercourse.
Posted 11/15/11 , edited 11/15/11

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Selwhyn wrote:

Lets see, yes, im 21 I enjoy sex, im picky though, I always end up dating them for years, shortest relationship 1 year and that was freshman year of highschool where has my youth gone lol.


That's because for women, there is an emotional attachment to the guy during intercourse.


There's an emotional attachment for me too. For women...pssht. If a man hasn't got that then his sex is dry.

Imagine doing nasty ass things to the woman you love. You think the world of her then you rough her up and do twisted things to her. You sullied your beloved.

That makes it more special.



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You mean people have sex as boyfriend and girlfriend? I guess society maybe IS progressing past one night stands and sex with strangers.
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Posted 11/15/11
Depends... on or off?
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AdamIdris101 wrote:

I say be open and want to do it. If you're not then it will suck. I kinda agree with marriage (it does make it more special) rather than a lot of different partners. Just saying.

It kinda gets wasted and belittled like that. People shouldn't go through other people in a frivolous manner.

I'm extremely possessive and jealous. Though I'm manly and dignified enough to keep her her space. So no I'm not controlling.




AdamIdris101 wrote:


Akiha- wrote:


Selwhyn wrote:

Lets see, yes, im 21 I enjoy sex, im picky though, I always end up dating them for years, shortest relationship 1 year and that was freshman year of highschool where has my youth gone lol.


That's because for women, there is an emotional attachment to the guy during intercourse.


There's an emotional attachment for me too. For women...pssht. If a man hasn't got that then his sex is dry.

Imagine doing nasty ass things to the woman you love. You think the world of her then you rough her up and do twisted things to her. You sullied your beloved.

That makes it more special.





I agree with both things you've said here, especially with how one shouldn't go through people in a frivolous manner. Also, best are those moments when you can say, "I can't believe she just let me do that!"
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LynnTerra wrote:

You mean people have sex as boyfriend and girlfriend? I guess society maybe IS progressing past one night stands and sex with strangers.


It's not.
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Politely decline and ask for her sister instead. Sisters are always cuter. Life Rule #103.
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That I don't believe to be gender specific however. In my experience the guy tends to get attached first because they are prone to infatuation women tend to old off their emotions until they believe fulfillment in other areas of their lives can be met by that person. Of course these reactions are not always the case no one can simplify the complexities of individuality.
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Posted 11/15/11
id say no, i am to weird to get a girlfriend in the first place.
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Posted 11/15/11

Selwhyn wrote:

That I don't believe to be gender specific however. In my experience the guy tends to get attached first because they are prone to infatuation women tend to old off their emotions until they believe fulfillment in other areas of their lives can be met by that person. Of course these reactions are not always the case no one can simplify the complexities of individuality.


Yes. Emotional security is important for a woman before she decides to have sex with the guy. That explains why couples tend to have a 'cooling off' period after a quarrel. (Let's leave hot make-up sex out of this)

And definitely, guys tend to get attracted first. Visual creatures we are.

Face. Tick.
Boobs. Tick.
Body. Tick.
Bum. Tick.

Let's get it on!

Hahaha. I love my one track mind.
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"Why? Did you drink some sort of poisonous alcohol?"
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Posted 11/15/11

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First of all if I date anyone I would lay down the rules first which Including no sex before marriage but if they still ask I will say no


Marriage isn't love, it's legal bonding of those IN love.
Experience love now, for some day it will never come and grow tired of you.


I dont believe that, Marriage should have nothing to do with the law and it never had in the first place. Marriage is a ceremony of two lifes becoming one showing the world that they love each other and want to be with each other for ever which also shows that they belong to another. And your right, it isnt love but I think I'm mature enough to make my own decisions and not get hurt like most girls who have sex before marriage because from personal experience (well I mean friends but I helped them) That they were really hurt because at the time because they thought the guy loved them but didnt any only wanted sex. Marriage isnt love and Sex isnt love :P

Then what is divorce? if these 'couples' want to let the world know they love eachother, why do they divorce?
Is love so weak, and shallow nowadays?
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Love isnt weak but people cant tell the difference between love and lust. Also some it has to do with people having finacial problems which can ruin a relationship because if they put money first usually it doesnt go to well. Plus people get married to young sometimes you know? :/
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Of course it will be a girl.

Me:"WHAT!!!!!!!!!???????" *jaws drop open* "What do you mean?"
Girl:"Yes" *smiles*,"what's wrong with that.Don't worry,it all will be a secret "*winks*.
Me:*sighs & stays silent for a moment while looking away*
Girl:"Are you okay???"
Me:"Well I won't say yes to your proposal,neither would I say go & find some other guy.As a friend of your's I am your well wisher as well.Sex ain't bad only when done with a sense of responsibility.Somewhere I had read that sex is not at all bad only when done with the sense of responsibility,So how much are you responsible for this act of your's?or are you doing this only for the sake of fun?
Look,you know not what consequences you might come across.I won't talk off about all those nor would I teach you what's wrong or right.Sex isn't bad as this act can recreate life as well it's a sort of assurance for closeness & comfort,this is what I believe but it must be preferred only when the soul & mind are one.Only when the partners have gotten a sort of sense to feel each other's feeling & know those before being said in words.I mean to say to know each other too well.Then comes the stage when the bodies want to get together & become one,this is when sex plays it's role.This all together counts for love.Now what you have in your mind is just the bodily part of sex,that is lust.
You might think I am talking of marriage.Marriage is certainly not a sign of love & nothing more than a legal & social acceptance of a bond,if this won't have been the fact instances of extramarital affairs won't have shown up in the society.Marriage is a sort of assurance that what ever will be the consequences of your or mine or our act we both will bear it together.I don't know whom would you choose as your soul mate in future but go forward now & just see how many guys will come forward to bear the responsibility of a act you both were involved in.If anything goes wrong of if you will get addicted to what you think is fun,no one will step forward to support you because it's always a girl who is called a bitch never a guy.It will be you alone to bear the dare consequences of an act you both were involved in.
In friendship I believe in "be protective always but don't be supportive always".I am of course protective towards you but I certainly don't support this decision of your's.So now it's up to your choice what would you choose for "just fun" or "fun with responsibility","lust"or"love".
Now you might think me a gay because I denied to have sex with a cute girl like you but strictly speaking I need not have sex with a girl to prove my manliness or sex isn't the only option for me rather it might be the last option.I know several other ways to prove it & for those who rely only upon sex to prove their manliness have their mind in their dick.They are the weakest person as despite of being a man,they have failed to prove it in some way other than sex & this in turns raises a awkward question,Are they really men?
Next I respect your parents as well,so they certainly will not support this decision of your at this present state of your's."
Girl:"I can't wait so long."
Me:"Be patient,this will add to the fun"*smiles*.
Girl:*takes off her bag & slams it on my face.Walks away while muttering* "Stop trying to be a teacher to me.I had have enough."
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