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Fear of sex
Posted 12/17/08
fear of aids, std, pain and kids..lol
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Posted 12/17/08
The only thing you really have to worry about is finding someone you can trust yourself to and can be honest with you. I made my bf go get tested with me cause when I was going into the army they test for aids and what not so I made him go and get tested to. I'm basically out now because I got pregnant it's my first kid I was terrified he'd leave when he found out but he's been here with me through it all. The problem is most guys now only want sex and never want to take responsibility for what comes of it....but so far he's taken me to all my doctor appointments and he even took care of me through the morning sickness.
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Posted 12/17/08
OMG u still too young for this

about me im waiting until i marriage
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Posted 12/17/08
Hmmm... Only like years to come for me? XD

The fears I have of sex is like... aids/HIV... STI's... condoms...lol

If only KH was here... He would solve everything
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Posted 12/17/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

Eh... At this point I don't want to have sex.

I believe once they reach puberty, you shouldn't be allowed to see anyone fully naked.


Sex is wonderful, but it changes people when they have never had it.

When I was younger, I was a very nice, considerate young man who was very concerned for every girl and their needs (non-sexual) I was everyone's "guy friend" and never had the nerve to put the moves on a girl.

Later in life I was seduced by a girl and I LOVED IT!

I became a sex fiend! I would do or say anything for sex. I was such a pathetic horn-ball, but not before having sex.

My wife and I share the same beliefs: If you have had sex and you are dating someone who has not, be prepared for them to change dramatically. It may poison your relationship.

Don't rush a damn thing. Sex should be enjoyed, not feared. Take the proper precautions when you are ready and hopefully if you partner is open to your requests and desires, you both should have an enjoyable time.
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26 / F / Singapore Tanglin...
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Posted 12/17/08
no .. cause as a true women
i really think that women should give birth to a baby to become a TRUE women .
so sex is the thing that can make you a True women
and why would you have to fear for it ?
if you are thinking that having sex = aids/hiv
than forget about being a true women
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Posted 12/17/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

[I checked and I don't think this topic has been started yet...]

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.


This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.


Has this happened to anyone else?



KakashisLover26 wrote:
Well its not just all of that, during the time I was having sex, I couldn't bring myself to relax and my body just kind of went numb.

Masturbation is much better.



I could be wrong, but it sounds like you weren't ready to have sex with your partner. Sex probably brings fear in you because you overall didn't have a good experience with it and since your partner left you after 2 weeks, it doesn't make the situation any better. I'm not judging you or anything, but a month of dating time isn't much time to get to the point of sex unless you were spending 10+ hours per day 5 days a week.

Don't be too scared of sex itself... because you probably aren't scared with sex but more accurately, unwilling to try something that wasn't pleasurable for you.

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Posted 12/17/08
I'm eighteen and still a vigrin.
I don't want to lose it to some randome boyfriend.
nor am I waiting till marriage.
I just think that I have to be in love with the person,
not just love him. hopeless romantic maybe,
but a tool, never.
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Posted 12/17/08
If you have unprotected sex, you might get AIDS, or STD. Few days ago, I learned about STDs in my health class. We watching about gonorrhea and syphilis and how it affects your health negatively. I just learned that you can get pubic lice from sexually transmitted from your partner. There are a lot of diseases you can get not just AIDS. BTW, condom are not always 100% safe. Just learned from this makes me very nervous about sex.
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Posted 12/17/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

[I checked and I don't think this topic has been started yet...]

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.


This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.


Has this happened to anyone else?


sounds about right.....so, wanna share some more traumatizing times with me? i swear i won't use you and dump you a month later! >=) ..............................yea.....i'm just an asshole
Posted 12/17/08
the guy havin a small dick ...
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Posted 12/17/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:



can't say it's happened to me but I think this is fairly common for some people to develop this behavior
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38 / M / Michigan, USA
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KILLglamour wrote:

the guy havin a small dick ...


I am curious as to your definition of "small".
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Posted 12/17/08
Even though I don't think I'll get married, that's what I tell people I'm waiting for.

Things like that aren't as important to people these days.
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76 / M / UK
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Posted 12/17/08
who da fuck deleted my post!? anyways, u sound like a typical teenage white girl!
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