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Fear of sex
Posted 12/18/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

[I checked and I don't think this topic has been started yet...]

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.


This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.


Has this happened to anyone else?


aww that sux, wat an ass, but not every1 ish a dick like that, u shouldn't be afraid of sex
Posted 12/18/08
Im not fear of it. Im jux....IDK...I think this is only given to me once and I want to treasure it and i'm scare to lose it...I guess im sort of afraid of the change after havin to do it...I jux wants to cherish it and wait for the one and only, soulmate. now that I think about it, I am fear of it caz it cause diease...
Posted 12/18/08 , edited 12/18/08

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fadedsilver wrote:

Sex before marriage is kinda illegal... Though, who cares?
Just move on...


Yeah. If you live in Saudi Arabia or some other very hardcore Islamic place. Then yeah you'll get killed for that. Its a pretty trivial thing to get killed over. I wonder who is more immoral: the people that have premarital sex or those executioners and those that dare to pass righteous judgment. Those "holier than thou" fools.


"Honor killing" is it what they called it? I personally think that is wrong and I do understand that it revolve around their religious and tradition and the way pplz mind's think and how they are brought up, but I think it someone choose if they want to do it...and It aint got nothing to do with anybody else...nobody else period. Caz who the f*ckin do they think they are? It's that person life they get to drawn thier own path not others. I am sorry if I offended some PPLZ but I think they need a rehab for this shit.
Everyone have or is gona do it someday...
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scared of the pain...ouch
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Posted 12/18/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

[I checked and I don't think this topic has been started yet...]

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.


This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.


Has this happened to anyone else?

~LOL! One thing you should really be afraid of is cumming in your vagina. Someone might just pop out of nowhere.

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Posted 12/18/08

pacelia wrote:


angelseraphim wrote:


fadedsilver wrote:

Sex before marriage is kinda illegal... Though, who cares?
Just move on...


Yeah. If you live in Saudi Arabia or some other very hardcore Islamic place. Then yeah you'll get killed for that. Its a pretty trivial thing to get killed over. I wonder who is more immoral: the people that have premarital sex or those executioners and those that dare to pass righteous judgment. Those "holier than thou" fools.


"Honor killing" is it what they called it? I personally think that is wrong and I do understand that it revolve around their religious and tradition and the way pplz mind's think and how they are brought up, but I think it someone choose if they want to do it...and It aint got nothing to do with anybody else...nobody else period. Caz who the f*ckin do they think they are? It's that person life they get to drawn thier own path not others. I am sorry if I offended some PPLZ but I think they need a rehab for this shit.
Everyone have or is gona do it someday...


Its kind of ironic that they call it honor killing. Well actually they are killing a lady's honor by maliciously spilling her blood. Because of these fanatics, Islam's future looks pretty hopeless. A teenage Islamic girl in Canada was honor killed because she didn't wear a hijab. She didn't want to wear a hijab and was killed. She might as well be killed for being an independent woman. That act spate on women's right here in Canada.
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Posted 12/18/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

[I checked and I don't think this topic has been started yet...]

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.


This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.


Has this happened to anyone else?


look, i understand that you're afraid of having sex with the wrong person again, but you should really just take things easy with your future relationships. if your boyfriend doesn't accept your wishes, then he's not the one for you. there's no need to be afraid of sex, just wait for the right guy and right time. don't feel pressured to have sex, you still have plenty of time.
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Posted 12/18/08
im not afraid its just i know i will never have it...
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Posted 12/18/08
na im a guy
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Posted 12/18/08
You know what? lol I feel like a chicken...when i think about it, I'm scared of doing any sexual behavior..
Posted 12/18/08 , edited 12/18/08
I entered a wrong thread. >...>
I do not fear sex. It's just I fear the responsibilities. >..>
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Uh, that's pretty creepy, or it's just me, hm.
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Posted 12/18/08

KakashisLover26 wrote:

[I checked and I don't think this topic has been started yet...]

In less than two months I will be seventeen.And I'm afraid of sex already.

I was in a relationship that took us to a point in less than a month and we had sex very quickly. [Within the first week.] We spent the rest of the day together and it was amazing. He dumped me two weeks later for a band.

He swore up til a month later that he really did love me but I have embedded in my mind that he was just using me for sex and because I wouldn't do oral, dumped me.


This has caused me not to want to have sex in relationships.


Has this happened to anyone else?


No this hasnt happend to me but all i can say is his loss. Not everyone is like him. Some people have different priorities in life. I think that if he just wanted you for sex then as soon as you had sex i think he would have left but he didnt, you 2 had a beautiful day devoted to each other! I dont think you should be scared of other relationships because sex is a beautiful thing but i know there alot of boys out there who will try and use a girl to get what he wants so maybe you can hold off a while and get to know the person. If they wait for you then thats a good sign that they truly care for you. I have had bad experiences in the past and i gave up on men altogether but then my partner now wouldnt take no for an answer and he treats me like the ultimate princess and i have never been happier! and we had sex early 2 but we was getting to know each other for about a month before we actually started our relationship but we started talking knowing that it would lead to more. andd now we are planning for marriage! SO DONT LOOSE HOPE i also recommened if you can waiting for as long as you can! for the man you can call your husband because then sex will always be special and you will never have to worry about being a booty call!


GOOD LUCK and sorry about the essay!
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