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what will you do if you caught your bf/gf cheating on you?
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Posted 12/20/08 , edited 12/20/08

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Well, considering that I've never had a boyfriend, I can't really talk, can I?


get out from under that rock and start dating people! lol j/k do what you want but its not bad to date few and get to know people and who knows maybe you'll just gain a friend rather than having it be an actual relationship


Well, even if I COULD date, I couldn't. In my family (but not necessarily in my culture), I can't date until I'm out of college. I'm supposed to focus on my studies right now.

Even if I brought a guy friend home, he'll be criticized by my dad.

Edit: I'm the first post of the fifth page! Whee! (This is the second time today. :D)
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Pack it up in the suitcase?? you're too nice lol :P

hmm i dont know though, if you really saw them on your bed doing stuff i would prolly be just like hmm.... okay... *deep breath* sigh... okayyy... yeah... uh huh.... lol

and being a guy it could be different, not sure if i would end up beating the guy up to feel better :P

i guess it would also depend on how long the relationship was, if it was like a couple of months i prolly wont care as much as it would be if it were 1-2 years...


I'm a nice girl!

Despite the longevity of the relationship, obviously there is a reason for them going behind my back, isn't there? One of the two parties isn't satisfied and I'm not going to blame or push any guilt onto them since human beings always have a changing heart. I'd take that is a sign to move onward.

Besides, I'm prone to having a wandering eye as well so I can't be a hypocrite! =]


(hmm i need to get my suitcase packed, i better cheat on my gf) lol j/k

yeah i guess you're right, whenever something like that happens i always think that it was for the best and it was better that it happened now and that you caught them rather then not knowing and for it to continue behind your back, even with regular friends that ive known for a couple of years and end up not going so well i take it as a sign to move on... guess thats life and thats why theres a billion more people out there to find a better person
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Posted 12/20/08

starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:



Well, considering that I've never had a boyfriend, I can't really talk, can I?


get out from under that rock and start dating people! lol j/k do what you want but its not bad to date few and get to know people and who knows maybe you'll just gain a friend rather than having it be an actual relationship


Well, even if I COULD date, I couldn't. In my family (but not necessarily in my culture), I can't date until I'm out of college. I'm supposed to focus on my studies right now.

Even if I brought a guy friend home, he'll be criticized by my dad.

Edit: I'm the first post of the fifth page! Whee! (This is the second time today. :D)


haha so true, my parents say the same but they cant stop me if i were to get into a relationship or not but they say to wait till im out of school, have my own steady job and my own place and i can do whatever i want and in a way they're right because if you focus on relationships and not your studies you might end up with a broken heart in the end along with a series of bad grades and not being able to continue... having a bf/gf can easily be done anytime but having a good education opportunity and going to your career should be first priority.. but that doesnt mean you cant have a little fun here and there (thats what college is for XD)
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Say its over...but i'm kind enough to hear her out and give her a second chance if she explains herself well enough.
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i dunno..
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Posted 12/23/08

specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:



Well, considering that I've never had a boyfriend, I can't really talk, can I?


get out from under that rock and start dating people! lol j/k do what you want but its not bad to date few and get to know people and who knows maybe you'll just gain a friend rather than having it be an actual relationship


Well, even if I COULD date, I couldn't. In my family (but not necessarily in my culture), I can't date until I'm out of college. I'm supposed to focus on my studies right now.

Even if I brought a guy friend home, he'll be criticized by my dad.

Edit: I'm the first post of the fifth page! Whee! (This is the second time today. :D)


haha so true, my parents say the same but they cant stop me if i were to get into a relationship or not but they say to wait till im out of school, have my own steady job and my own place and i can do whatever i want and in a way they're right because if you focus on relationships and not your studies you might end up with a broken heart in the end along with a series of bad grades and not being able to continue... having a bf/gf can easily be done anytime but having a good education opportunity and going to your career should be first priority.. but that doesnt mean you cant have a little fun here and there (thats what college is for XD)


Hmm...I do see your point, but in my family, it's WAY different for a girl than for a guy. Besides, school is for school, yes?
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Posted 12/23/08

starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:



Well, considering that I've never had a boyfriend, I can't really talk, can I?


get out from under that rock and start dating people! lol j/k do what you want but its not bad to date few and get to know people and who knows maybe you'll just gain a friend rather than having it be an actual relationship


Well, even if I COULD date, I couldn't. In my family (but not necessarily in my culture), I can't date until I'm out of college. I'm supposed to focus on my studies right now.

Even if I brought a guy friend home, he'll be criticized by my dad.

Edit: I'm the first post of the fifth page! Whee! (This is the second time today. :D)


haha so true, my parents say the same but they cant stop me if i were to get into a relationship or not but they say to wait till im out of school, have my own steady job and my own place and i can do whatever i want and in a way they're right because if you focus on relationships and not your studies you might end up with a broken heart in the end along with a series of bad grades and not being able to continue... having a bf/gf can easily be done anytime but having a good education opportunity and going to your career should be first priority.. but that doesnt mean you cant have a little fun here and there (thats what college is for XD)


Hmm...I do see your point, but in my family, it's WAY different for a girl than for a guy. Besides, school is for school, yes?


yeap, school is for school! and yeah its different for a girl and a guy... i know if i ever had a daughter she would be on lockdown till she graduates
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Posted 12/23/08

specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:



Well, considering that I've never had a boyfriend, I can't really talk, can I?


get out from under that rock and start dating people! lol j/k do what you want but its not bad to date few and get to know people and who knows maybe you'll just gain a friend rather than having it be an actual relationship


Well, even if I COULD date, I couldn't. In my family (but not necessarily in my culture), I can't date until I'm out of college. I'm supposed to focus on my studies right now.

Even if I brought a guy friend home, he'll be criticized by my dad.

Edit: I'm the first post of the fifth page! Whee! (This is the second time today. :D)


haha so true, my parents say the same but they cant stop me if i were to get into a relationship or not but they say to wait till im out of school, have my own steady job and my own place and i can do whatever i want and in a way they're right because if you focus on relationships and not your studies you might end up with a broken heart in the end along with a series of bad grades and not being able to continue... having a bf/gf can easily be done anytime but having a good education opportunity and going to your career should be first priority.. but that doesnt mean you cant have a little fun here and there (thats what college is for XD)


Hmm...I do see your point, but in my family, it's WAY different for a girl than for a guy. Besides, school is for school, yes?


yeap, school is for school! and yeah its different for a girl and a guy... i know if i ever had a daughter she would be on lockdown till she graduates


That sounds like my dad. You now know why I can't date or even TALK to a guy friend on the friend, right?
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Posted 12/23/08 , edited 12/23/08

starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:


specialist7 wrote:


starlight153 wrote:



Well, considering that I've never had a boyfriend, I can't really talk, can I?


get out from under that rock and start dating people! lol j/k do what you want but its not bad to date few and get to know people and who knows maybe you'll just gain a friend rather than having it be an actual relationship


Well, even if I COULD date, I couldn't. In my family (but not necessarily in my culture), I can't date until I'm out of college. I'm supposed to focus on my studies right now.

Even if I brought a guy friend home, he'll be criticized by my dad.

Edit: I'm the first post of the fifth page! Whee! (This is the second time today. :D)


haha so true, my parents say the same but they cant stop me if i were to get into a relationship or not but they say to wait till im out of school, have my own steady job and my own place and i can do whatever i want and in a way they're right because if you focus on relationships and not your studies you might end up with a broken heart in the end along with a series of bad grades and not being able to continue... having a bf/gf can easily be done anytime but having a good education opportunity and going to your career should be first priority.. but that doesnt mean you cant have a little fun here and there (thats what college is for XD)


Hmm...I do see your point, but in my family, it's WAY different for a girl than for a guy. Besides, school is for school, yes?


yeap, school is for school! and yeah its different for a girl and a guy... i know if i ever had a daughter she would be on lockdown till she graduates


That sounds like my dad. You now know why I can't date or even TALK to a guy friend on the friend, right?


haha well you know to a father the daughter his his "little baby girl" so he doesnt want anything happening to her and there is a lot of dumb guys out there so hes just waiting for her to grow up to the point where she can take care of herself on her own even if that means prohibiting any relationships with guy till their out of college or something... especially with asian families, i went to a friend's house before and the parents were asking my friend who's bf i was lol... then they ask you questions and interrogate you and stuff, but hey at least your parents are protective over you and care a lot for you, i know some people dont get that kind of opportunity in their life
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Posted 12/23/08
Wait till she falls asleep then...
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Posted 12/23/08
If it was with another girl ask if i could join
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depends on how hard i'm hooked.
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Posted 12/23/08
I don't know. Just let it be.. He/She will get it's revenge..
Yea same, I once been cheated by a guy and never have a bf since then. I rejected so many guys already, afraid of being cheated..
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i'm going to break-up with him, and slap him 3 times and punch him on the face!!!
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I would go back home for a while, wait for stuff to calm down, then go back and see if we could work things out.
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