What would you do?
Posted 12/11/07
I liked my best friend about a year ago and thought I was over her. She was straight so, yeah..anyway I really gave up hope when she got a boyfriend, though I knew it wouldn't work out since he was 5-7 years older than her, only knew her online, and lived in Peru. Still I figured if she'd go out with someone like that instead of me, then she really isn't interested. I just thought I'd try and help make her feel better when it ends and try my best to stop her from actually meeting him until she got a few years older so she wouldn't get hurt physically or mentally.

So today at school she was acting really funny, like she hugged me for a long time and said she wanted to talk later. She just sent me a PM on another site saying that she was depressed and heartbroken, and that she was on her period. The guy cheated on her *figures.* I started remembering why I liked her again. I don't wanna say anything about it, still. It's like she's really sensitive and innocent and hard to figure out. Plus, I really thought I was over her.

Can someone give me some advice on what to do or say?? All I could do was say;
"I'm really sorry..best thing for this is lotsa ice cream and payback XP" all I can do is joke, I'm not good with drama. Like I can probably save my ass for now but she'll probably come to my house crying again and I don't wanna do anything if you get me =_=

Please help

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Posted 12/12/07
The best thing you can possibly do is be there for her.... Be the friend that she knows she can trust.... If you're afraid you'll "do something" Then tell her she can call you.... But it's not a good idea to come to your house.... Drama's not my strong suit either.... but that's what I'd do.... Sorry I'm not more helpful....
Posted 12/12/07

Zora_J wrote:

The best thing you can possibly do is be there for her.... Be the friend that she knows she can trust.... If you're afraid you'll "do something" Then tell her she can call you.... But it's not a good idea to come to your house.... Drama's not my strong suit either.... but that's what I'd do.... Sorry I'm not more helpful....



Actually that's good advice ^^ Thanks
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Posted 12/12/07
Just be a good friend and comfort her. If you're afraid, then call her and comfort her, I hope I helped. I'm pretty good at listening to people.
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Posted 1/11/08

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Zora_J wrote:

The best thing you can possibly do is be there for her.... Be the friend that she knows she can trust.... If you're afraid you'll "do something" Then tell her she can call you.... But it's not a good idea to come to your house.... Drama's not my strong suit either.... but that's what I'd do.... Sorry I'm not more helpful....


AHHHH! THE DREADED DRAMA! i'm not too good with that either! but as far as the situation goes i agree with Zora-chan. the best u can do righ tnow is comfort her. when the time is right tell her how u feel b/c feelings r like burps & farts: better out than in! ^^ lmao anywayz, what did she want to talk to u about? u also might want to bring that up as well! ^^

Actually that's good advice ^^ Thanks


Posted 1/13/08
LOL feelings are like burps n farts thts great

well..yeah it's pretty cool right now..she spent the night bout a week ago n we sleep in the same bed every time but it's really not so great..she grabs the blanket every time =_= i got bad taste in girls.
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