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Forgiveness VS Revenge
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Posted 5/16/07
^Nope.
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26 / M / Isla Bonita
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Posted 5/16/07
^and why not??
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I seek revenge through forgiveness because the subtle ways are best. if you can make someone feel guilt because of your forgiveness given freely. it's the sweetest revenge there is. but not as fufilling on a basic level of course.
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lol that is kinda... um.. yeah i guess.... but i could never have revenge on someone, i think about it but when i see them i just couldn't! just too weak i guess
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It's an acquired taste.
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lol you should teach me!
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Ideally, my philosophy is that you forgive everything, the main purpose in that being that you make peace with the issue yourself (accept it, acknowledge it, don't regret or feel sorry). But once you've done that, you're free to think what would be the best course of action in the aftermath.

If someone did something heinous, call the police and let them handle it. If they did something like a personal betrayal, you may consider doing something sneaky and not directly traceable to you or punishable, but which will teach the person a lesson about playing games with you. And of course, if it was something small or unintentional, forgive and get on with your life.

Basically, forgive everything so as not to torture yourself with strong feelings, and then proceed to find the best reaction, which may be some form of revenge.

Forgiveness and 'revenge' are not mutually exclusive.
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life is too short to tolerate meanies! i get it now guys thanks!
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26 / M / The Z-Lair Somewh...
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Also subtle reveng works. drop a note in the kitchen or something. tell someone something bad the other person did recently. the guilt trip thing doesn't always work after all. But generally these people get whats coming to them anyway. at least in my experience. and if not theres always Legal ways to go about the revenge thing.
Karma works sometimes.
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I would forgive, revenge accomplishes nothing!
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31 / M / Iloilo City, PH
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why kill them when you can bait them...? hook, line and sinker...
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Posted 5/16/07

lilprince wrote:

I'm more of a revenge person, and i wont bat an eyelash, but it depends on whom and what they did...if someone breaks up with me I'll get over it, but if someone does something mean vengence shall be mine



I am so with you on that it all depends on who the person is and what they did
i am a very forgiving person unless i already have a reason to hate you than as far as im there is no reason why i shoul hol back except mabey the law or if theres a realy good reason for it if not then col inifrence usualy shakes a person up prity bad revenge in my oppinion should only be used on people who dont get the message your tring to sen any other way.
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30 / M / Japan
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Forgive. Believe me, if only the world knew how to forgive.. we'd be in a better place.
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29 / M / lost
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The best policy is to forgive and let live. it is harder to forgive someone that to seek Revenge. ^_^
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forgive but don't forget. that way u can screw them over x2. revenge tastes sweeter that way. i love that sweet smell the smell of revenge
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