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How do you court ladies?
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30 / M / Hell
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What the best way to have a friend..

1. I think the No. 1 way is if youre handsome your In!
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Smile, be kind, loyal and yourself ^-^

I'm sorry but this might be a bit too similar to:
What do girls want?
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=3117

EDIT- ohh you mean steps in courting? The handsome bit confused me because that isn;t really a step and more a matter of what women 'want'. I'm either going mad or there is a similar thread ^-^.
Anyway i shall assume the gender of a guy:
1- speak and spend time with them
2- get a form of contact (number, email, msn etc)
3- arrange to go out places (ie. dates)
4- if it goes well then make it official ^-^
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I know that thread . XD
Im asking
1. On step
2. How to ask a lady to date
and the like..
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be friends with the girl first and slowly let her know of your intentions. - good intentions as possible
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Its pretty simple. Take proper care of yourself and be active in some sort of social scene, and sooner or later the ladies will come to you. Make sure you are well groomed, have some clear priorities in life for the future, are dedicated to something, and it will show in the way you come across with others.Oh and Ladies - see how a guy treats his family because after the first few months, that's how he is going to treat you, don't fall for the facade guys put up.
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30 / M / Sask-at-chew-an,...
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Step 1: Purchase some Roofies
Step 2: Order a couple of drinks
Step 3: Insert Roofies in one of the drinks
Step 4: Give her Drink with Roofies. (I can not stress this enough make sure you give her the right drink)
Step 5: Wait a little
Step 6: I'll leave that up to you.

I'm kidding some drugs are bad kiddies.
Ok here we go:
Step 1: Get her name.
Step 2: Ask her out.
Your not building a rocketship. It's not anymore complicated then my 2 steps. And yes it is a little easier if your a good looking person. If your really uncomfortable make it a group thing. Get a bunch of friends and go to a movie and invite her along.

By the by This thread seems really similar to many other threads.
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Acer2110 wrote:

Ok here we go:
Step 1: Get her name.
Step 2: Ask her out.
Your not building a rocketship. It's not anymore complicated then my 2 steps. And yes it is a little easier if your a good looking person. If your really uncomfortable make it a group thing. Get a bunch of friends and go to a movie and invite her along.

By the by This thread seems really similar to many other threads.


This gentleman is the only person in this topic who has offered any remotely true or useful advice. Become her friend first and slowly let her know your intentions? Are you kidding me? Do you think that the way you feel should be treated like some kind of game? Some sort of, extravagant process where you have to play some kind of outrageous strategy, in order to gradually let her know how you feel while being her pal at the same time? Is your heart some play thing for you to toss out there like a god damn soccer ball? Of course not. No, like my buddy over here said, it's not so hard. Rather than playing some silly game and putting on some fake act, be as brutally honest as possible.

Get her name, ask her out, the end. I can't count the number of times I've said something akin to, "Hey, can't help but find you to be very attractive, would you like to go on a date with me?" and have had a positive result. Quite simply, just be honest. Works better than spending weeks on end trying to put on some obscure facade/friendship when that isn't what you're after. The TRUTH is always better than some game or act. Your feelings aren't something you should have to hide. That's wrong. Period.

On a side note, be VERY careful when taking dating advice from a woman. No offense girls, REALLY! I'm sorry, I know this sounds bad. But I've rarely gotten good dating advice from a girl in my entire life. It's often either resulted in huge amounts of wasted time ("first become her friend and slowly let her know how you feel") or heart ache ("Just leave her alone for a while, she probably doesn't want to talk"). Nearly all of the dating disasters I've had in my life are from accepting advice from some girl or from not being honest with my feelings. Being open, honest and really letting her know your feelings and trying to actually communicate with her, is the best way in my experience.

At the very least, if you're honest and it doesn't work out, you know that girl wasn't right for you anyway. There's no "What if" guessing games of regret or questions if it doesn't work out. You know the result would've ended up the same no matter what. Let me tell you, that takes quite the load off.
Posted 5/5/07
Make her laugh.
Let her know you like her but not in a way that comes across as desperate.
Playing hard to get once in a while seems to work as well.
Posted 5/5/07
Hehe this is kinda funny
Just be convinced talk to her know where to let your arms (not in your pockets or somthing like that) look at her while you talk... listen to her and respond to that...
Do not talk about lame things... Dance buy a drink etc.

btw: if youre goodlooking this will work a bit easier...
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PerfectChaosZero wrote:

On a side note, be VERY careful when taking dating advice from a woman. No offense girls, REALLY! I'm sorry, I know this sounds bad. But I've rarely gotten good dating advice from a girl in my entire life. It's often either resulted in huge amounts of wasted time ("first become her friend and slowly let her know how you feel") or heart ache ("Just leave her alone for a while, she probably doesn't want to talk").
XD Damn straight. In fairness it goes for advice from guys, too. Guys' advice is more straightforward and to the point while girls' advice is a tad, shall we say, "complicated".

It seems that girls treat dating as some kind of a game. Or an engineering problem. As in "if she doesn't respond this way, then do that way, but only if you do it this way first, but not before you do that first... unless you did this before you did that but on the other hand, if you already did that, then you should have done this first, but!... only if that was done before that... why are you looking like that, J? It's not that hard."

How I court her depends almost wholly on her. You know, every girl is different - each has their own personality, interests and quirks. All in all I usually treat her as a favoured friend until when I think it's time to take it to the next level. Until then it's strictly on the getting-to-know-you basis by the way of making conversations, socialising and generally having fun. Keeping it within the comfort zone is the main factor - if we both are clearly comfortable, then it's going good.

The toughest type is the shy type who doesn't talk much. Most times there were absolutely no clues there to help me out, so in this case the courting style is called "Let's Make a Wild Guess" cos that is what it is. It'd be nice if shy girls would help out a bit sometimes, but it seems they are more concerned about how they feel than what goes on around them including guys who might be interested in them.
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Friendship first, then boyfriend? I don't think so. That may work on some girls but not all. Some of us would just like to know straight up what a guy wants. You wanna be friends or you wanna ask me out? But if you start in the friends zone, you'll most likely stay there. A guy's chances improve if he looks good [I don't mean model looking fine, just above avg].

As for this shy stuff, well what do you mean... cause there are girls that are the silent type but not really shy. They tend to be relaxed, listening and watching. These girls are hard to read. Cause you never really know where you stand with them. They won't let you in, or they'll only partially let you in. I think trust is an issue with them.
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I sweet talk them. Compliment them. Don't go for those corny ass pick up line. Play it cool. It's easier if you try to make friends with them first.
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Be yourself! Don't end up doing things just to impress her... it might be annoying...

Get to know each other... it's easier that way...
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how bout if i court u
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Be friends with her.
Be a good listener to her.
Make her laugh.
Give compliments once in a while
In occassion buy something nice (doesnt have to be expensive) like a funny doll ect...
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