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how could love turn to hate?
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Posted 1/22/09
Personaly in my life those words scare me "love" "hate" My best friend Luis once told me if you love someone so much and it is not reciprical "meaning that they do not return it" that it will become hate. In my life I have experienced this in a big way yet it did not convert into hatred but internal sadness. Till I got over it.
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Posted 1/23/09
It's easy, especially if it's not true love. Once the other person does something extremely unforgivable, that would no doubt ignite hate. It would take a lot of courage (or love?) to tolerate something generally considered unforgivable.
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Posted 1/23/09
???if you give up on the idea of trying to understand someone you can't,, you'll probably end up hating him/her.
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22 / F / Destiny Islands. X3
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Posted 1/25/09
..some people break up bcos they blame themselves for some happenings and they think their worthless and unworthy of someone they love. but whatever. its not hate. its actually love. its hate when people turn into complete assholes when they're together. so chances are...of course...people might want to end it.
Posted 1/25/09
the more u hate the more u love???
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Posted 1/28/09
love is a mystery,sometimes u fall hardely & sometimes easely,sometimes in crazy wild way & sometimes in a quit deep way!
Love,is it just hormones?little molecules inside our heads ?is it complicated freudian processus or is it just,simply LOVE???
i don't know how love turn into hate,all i know is no matter what,even if u hates that person to death,always a sweet memory stays & reminds you of good moments,without big love u can't hate that much!
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Posted 5/13/09 , edited 5/13/09

The opposite of love is indifference, not hatred.

i think the amount of hate after a relationship is directly in proportion to the amount of love there was to begin with.
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Posted 5/14/09
I think this quote explains it quite well, how love turn into hatred.


Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defences, you build up a whole suit of armour, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own any more. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like "maybe we should be just friends" or "how very perceptive" turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. Nothing should be able to do that. Especially not love. I hate love.

* Rose Walker, in SANDMAN #65: "The Kindly Ones:9"


Point being, when you fall in love with someone, you become vulnerable. You are more easily hurt by that special person, and seeing as we humans are as we are, in some cases, it's doomed to happened that someone gets hurt. The hurt can come from many different reasons. Like declining sex life, lack of confidence in each other, distrust/paranoia and many other reasons.

Eventually that hurt becomes too much, and grows into dislike, or even worse, hatred for the special person.
Posted 5/14/09
love is to make that person your world and everything ~ but when that person betrays you and you never expected that from that parson ~ the love change in to hate ~ and sometimes hate power can be stronger that love ~
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Posted 5/14/09
For relationships love converting to hate may come as a direct result of repeated failure to at least attempt to make the relationship work.
Posted 5/15/09
i guess when the relationship goes sour. i don't like using the word love because people really don't know what true love is...
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Posted 5/16/09 , edited 5/16/09
when hate become love................
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21 / F / south east asia..^^
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Posted 5/16/09 , edited 5/16/09

loz0ot wrote:


leviathan343 wrote:

You people must be really naive to believe that every time you're attracted to someone it counts as love.

"Love" can easily turn to hate when it isn't real love.


thats deep, r u a poet?


i agree...its really deep...haahaa...

well..love can turn to hate when the person you love...changes the path both of you started...takes a left turn then a right...when the feeling of feeling cpmfortable in each others company fades away..then suddenly..everythiing turns black...then you'll just have to say bye-bye...^^
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Posted 5/16/09
If it turns into hate, I don't think it was really love to begin with, but you know the saying of how love and hate are two sides of the same coin.
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Posted 5/17/09
you love someone and when you realize they're jerks, you hate them?
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