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why are bf's so protective over their girl?
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Posted 1/1/09

AjaniDarkBlade wrote:

Girls are a guy's equvialent to a dogs territory. We have to make sure people know that your ours.


so their dogs
haha

well i guess it shows how much they value the person...and vise versa
Posted 1/1/09
Because they scare that :
their girl get hurt (physical pain)
their girl cheat him (he will also get hurt)
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Posted 1/1/09
because its there girlfriend?
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25 / M / In la la la land
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Posted 1/1/09
its just how much we care about our girlfriends, we don't want any other guys out there to touch our girlfriends and stuff like that XD
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man, if you think guys are overprotective, wait till you meet girls who are over protective over their guys! Grab some popcorn and watch a cat fight... meow.
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Posted 1/1/09
They want their girl all to themselves. :)

I think it's cute just not going overboard.
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I think the opposite, I think girls are more paranoid about girls stealing their bf than when boys are paranoid about other guys stealing their gf
Posted 1/1/09
because of instincts?
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Posted 1/1/09
They think that they own you
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25 / M / It be sleepy time...
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Posted 1/1/09

IDoNotKnowOk wrote:

They think that they own you


we don't think it we know it bish.

On a more serious front, it is a set gender role set by the patriarchal society we live in. In fact in many ways it benefits men in general to be seen as the protectors and providers in the relationship because it allows them to control the relationship. This of course is all been contributed to and accepted as the media pushes this idealized view of how relationships should be. A prime example of this can be found in the book that it seems just about every teenage girl has read Twillight. It is apparent the edward controls the relationship while bella is the helpless and rather stupid heroine who is in constant need to be saved do to the fact she is a weak because she is female.

Yeah my first statement in clear conflict with my second but oh well. I blame the feminist paper I had to write for English.
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Because, we show how we love her so much, and cares about her.
When you love someone, you don't want them to leave you forever. That's why you love that person so much.
Posted 1/1/09
Who knows........
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20 / M / the moon
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Posted 1/1/09
would you rather have a bf who didnt care at all?
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Posted 1/1/09
Not all guys are the same.

And to me it'll depend on the girl on how protective I am.
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Posted 1/1/09
most girls like it when their bfs are protective of them. I had a conversation actually about the same question with a bunch of other girls i know and it differs in reasons.
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