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why are bf's so protective over their girl?
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Posted 9/13/10

kaira741 wrote:

im just wondering why are boys so over protective over their girl
and how far would they go just to be with her? :O


I think there is a song just for this moment that will answer both of these questions.



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=69AvNm8zubo&feature=related
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Posted 9/13/10
Because we want to protect the ones we love? we don't some1 close to us get hurt? Seriously can't you figure it out on yourself,making this a thread is quite pathetic on my opinion.
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che he he he.


Yeah, you probably know me well enough that I'd go the sarcastic route.

ya i think so
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Well several reasons depending on the guy:

If guy is serious about girl then he does it to protect what he probably worked his ass off for. No good girl is gonna give it up easy.

If guy isn't serious about girl then he does it to protect what he probably worked his ass off for because it'll be a strain to get another girl like her.

That's the short version of it. Questions? Comments? Flames? All accepted.
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Posted 9/13/10

kaira741 wrote:

im just wondering why are boys so over protective over their girl
and how far would they go just to be with her? :O
its the same feeling as wanting to protect your brothers sisters children ect. you love them and dont want any harm to come to them. it just comes natural to want to protect the ones your love nomatter the cost.

Posted 9/13/10 , edited 9/13/10
My ex was and it was annoying. He told me it was because he loved me and he didn't want to share me (which is weird because I never intended on cheating, anyway.) I think it's really because I'm a virgin and he was afraid I'd lose my stuff to someone else. As if I'd give it up to anyone.
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phia_7887 wrote:

cuz they think they own you


We protect our property
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He loves her to much to risk losing her.. :S
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Posted 9/13/10

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this is why i dont have a BF.........
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Not all guys are the same. Even the girls can be the protective one......
But what do i know, never had a girl before.
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Posted 9/19/10
`Cause they worry over them , and worrying means they care .
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they dont want any other guy holding them?
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Posted 6/17/12
Guys see women as theirs sometimes.
So protecting their stuff against other men is natural.
Posted 6/17/12 , edited 6/17/12
My uncles pretty much had double lives. My dad cheated, and so did my last boss. My married friends often call me to visit brothels or strip clubs. My cousins pretty much lived in a cheating clusterfuck.

I don't trust anything with a penis. Perhaps you girls should try to be protective too? Assuming you care. Don't test men too much, they're bound to fail at some point. As much as I'd like to believe romance movies... not happening.
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There are several different reasons why a boyfriend would be protective of his girlfriend.

1.) The optimal reason would be because he loved her. Anyone who isn't a total scumbag, man or woman, will protect the ones they love. This is not a bad thing and should not be seen as a bad thing.

2.) The boyfriend thinks the girlfriend is his property and tends to become obsessive about preventing her from having sex with other guys. It quickly becomes a matter of lacking trust in one's partner. This is a less pleasant reason, obviously. These kinds of boyfriends (and girlfriends as well, don't fool yourself) want to have so much control in a relationship that they will oftentimes fight with you over whether or not you're allowed to even speak with the opposite sex.

3.) You're about to be ripped apart by vicious, carnivorous predators. Should you really be asking this question, at a time like this? ... If it's the girl defending the guy, that would be something to see.

4.) They're concerned for your well-being. It's demeaning in the sense they see you as stupid, weak, and vulnerable .. but endearing in some ways since it's usually quite sincere. Once again, applies to both genders.

5.) They're well aware of the fact the guys you're talking to would rape and murder you. Sometimes women can be oblivious, I guess, but there are sincere motivations for them not wanting you to hang out with certain groups of guys, occasionally. The fact this is occasional is usually why it's ignored.

These are just some of the intricate mysteries of the male psyche.
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