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why are bf's so protective over their girl?
Posted 1/2/09
don't know
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Posted 1/2/09 , edited 1/2/09
girls like it but if we guys are too much its like chocking the girl leaving you with a bad point.

the guy just want the GIRL ALONE for HIMSELF NO OTHER GUYS will TOUCH HER!
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Posted 1/2/09
I hope u didnt make this thread coz ur obsessed with Twilight!
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Posted 1/2/09
some guys treat their gfs at items to show off
sooo they dont wana lose it o.o
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Posted 1/2/09
the girls confuse me a little.. if we are "much protective" they complain, but if we try to not be "protective" they complain too
Posted 1/2/09
Because they think that some other guy will try to steal us girls away from them~thats what I think
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Posted 1/2/09
Because they're pussy-whipped.
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Posted 1/2/09 , edited 1/2/09
I think guys are like little kids. "That's mine, don't touch it" that kind of feeling. They care a lot about their pride
Posted 1/2/09

kaira741 wrote:

im just wondering why are boys so over protective over their girl
and how far would they go just to be with her? :O



As an adult male (38 and married, sorry girls) I can answer this .
Boys act like that because of their insecurites. They are afraid that they'll lose their girlfriends to someone else, so they first become "over-protective", then tyranical, then abusive. If they could simply relax and enjoy the time they have with whom ever they are with, things would work out for the best.
I am not over-protective of my wife, therefore she is not resentful of me. I let her do as she pleases, go where she wills, hang out with whom ever she likes, and engage in activities of her own choosing, like movies (I only ask that she checks with me to see if I would like to go along )
But, being over-protective is a good way to drive someone away from you and cause alot of hurt and bad blood.
So guys, don't start on the power trips and unreasonable expectations, just BE with your girl.
Also, and trust 100% me on this guys, they quickest way to a girls heart resides in learning how to give great foot rubs. Learn to do that and she'll love you to death , not to mention the side benefits .

As to how far they would go..... well I can say without doubt that NO girl should make a guy jump through hoops are engage in stupid games. Doing so will cause guys to lose interest and, quite frankly, it pisses us off.
Simply accept that they want to be with you, and be happy in that knowledge..... don't make them prove anything, because it WILL blow up in your face.
So girls, do start in with mind trips, childish game playing and unreasonable expectations, just BE with your guy.

A good relationship (marriage or otherwise) is never based on love, but respect, trust and comminucation.
So remember, give reasons trust each other.
Don't betray that trust.
Remain faithful.
Talk to each other and be open about everything.
Respect each other, no matter the differences.

And if you REALLY want your relationship to go the distance remember these tips:
NEVER argue with each other in public. Always present a untied front to everyone else
No matter what the argument is about, NEVER bring up past problems. It's not fair and has nothing to do with the present matter.
NEVER curse at, insult or call each other names in anger. This could do major harm to your relationship (unless, guys, you really ARE being jerks LOL).
NEVER go to bed angry at each other. Resolve your arguments as best you can (even if that agreeing to disagree) then make up.
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Posted 1/2/09
its like one of those primal things lol
but to be honest how would you like it if ur over half was gettin chatted up? common sense really
Posted 1/2/09

290389 wrote:
but to be honest how would you like it if ur over half was gettin chatted up? common sense really



If the trust is there, why would you need to worry ? hmm.

I get flirted with and chatted up all the time, I simply play along.
Then I have an amusing story to tell my wife.
Why would I tell her ?
because it simply confirms A: that she has reason to trust me and B: that she made a good choice in marrying me

Hell I get hit on IN FRONT OF HER, and she just laughs as WE (my wife and I) walk away.
No insecurities there, folks.

The ONLY time I ever get "over-protective" is when some idiot does something to put my wife in danger, then I simply frog stomp the idiot and enjoy the rest of my night while that person bleeds.
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Posted 1/2/09

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290389 wrote:
but to be honest how would you like it if ur over half was gettin chatted up? common sense really



If the trust is there, why would you need to worry ? hmm.

I get flirted with and chatted up all the time, I simply play along.
Then I have an amusing story to tell my wife.
Why would I tell her ?
because it simply confirms A: that she has reason to trust me and B: that she made a good choice in marrying me

Hell I get hit on IN FRONT OF HER, and she just laughs as WE (my wife and I) walk away.
No insecurities there, folks.

The ONLY time I ever get "over-protective" is when some idiot does something to put my wife in danger, then I simply frog stomp the idiot and enjoy the rest of my night while that person bleeds.



ok fair enough but ur like 38 right? your too old to be worrying and something like that, plus your married so ovi shes unlikely to cheat on u if she married u huh?
it's a different story, compare that to someone in their late teens and early 20's
no offence in all of this just stating the facts
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Posted 1/2/09
they are cause they want her to be happy and nothing bad to happen to her ever again.
Posted 1/2/09 , edited 1/2/09
i think girls are more protective, they just dont fight each other physically over a guy, they do it verbally
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Posted 1/2/09
Really?o-=o
my friends bf are like so BLEH they dunt care.xD!
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