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why are bf's so protective over their girl?
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Posted 2/16/10
well it's like, "that girl's mine, she belongs to me". guys are just possessive over their girl, and i think that means that he cares about her.. but of course, over-possessiveness and over-jealousy will make things difficult..
Posted 2/16/10
Well if they feel the need to be so protective, then there's no trust o_e
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Posted 2/16/10
That's what boyfriends are for.
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Posted 2/16/10 , edited 2/16/10
i would call it more 'controlling' they like feeling powerful i guess (not all, and it's just a generalization on my part)
theres also jealousy and that stupid PRIDE thing they have
oh, and by 'pride' i mean it in the more 'asian' term, like 'face' or protecting their honor' kind of pride.

tho, the pride thing isn't limited to bfs, but MALES in general.. if there was some way to extract pride, (most, if not all) males should get that operation,
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Posted 2/16/10
Like a lot of ppl who answered before me... Boys dont want to lose their girl to any other boy. You could call it pride.. or just plain stubborness.. But who wouldnt want a little loyalty? ^^
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Posted 2/17/10
so tha in case they cheat, they are assured that it's ONLY him who cheats. and cheatin is a no-no to her gf, only for him.
its like they're the fiinger-player in the game (it happened to me thats why)


but generally, i think its bcuz guys think its their purpose to protect girls.
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Posted 2/17/10
men are protective to the one's they love because they are the most precious thing to them, they are the gems that shine on to the night sky,that is why they are the last things they would ever want to lose.
not ever

~srry just kinda sad bc if of the anime im watching "kanon" i finished ep.10 and kinda sad
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Posted 2/17/10
I rather not have someone think about eyeballing my girl.
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Posted 2/17/10
Becaues that's how they're made. It's in their genetic make up to protect and provide. Some may deny it, but if this question was asked then it's because it's an obvious tendency.

Instinct.
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Posted 2/17/10
Protective or possessive?

Being protective is just natural, and it's out of love, for the most part. They just care, and I think it's kind of their instinct. Sometimes, it can get a little out of hand to the point where it becomes destructive and if that's the case, you should let your guy know.

Possessiveness, on the other hand, is just out of insecurity. When someone is possessive, it's usually because they're very unsure of themselves and lack real confidence.
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Posted 2/17/10
It's instinctive
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Posted 2/17/10

AjaniDarkBlade wrote:

Girls are a guy's equvialent to a dogs territory. We have to make sure people know that your ours.


I agree, but not all guys are like that.
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Posted 2/17/10
Guys have this whole male dominance thing, so you being their girlfriend is like being their property.
Now would you like anyone to have your property without permission?
Ahaha xD didn't think so.
Posted 2/17/10
I think its nice sometimes, but they have to tolerate the fact that you have male friends. Otherwise it gets really annoying.

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Posted 2/17/10
i protect my hoes cause of money, thats the life of a pimp.
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