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Do you mostly blame parents for teenagers who become suicidal?
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Teens who become wards of the state or have been in foster homes in and out I exempt but I really believe that parents are to blame when their children become suicidal or dangerous to others. For example that kid in Nebraska who killed the 8 people in the mall. I was watching a segment on the whole incident and his mother said that she saw the signs and knew something was wrong with her son. I was waiting to hear the part where she says I tried to help him or I did my best. I really believe that no matter what your religion is or where you come from or who you are when you grow your children with love and respect and constant tell them that they are who they are and must always love themself no matter what I believe that children like those turn out to be decent human beings. What do you think?
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I blame environment, or people you hang out with. Or parents, like you said.
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sometimes it's caused by society also, the kids might not welcome someone 'different'
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parents are to blame if they never tried to care for thier child... but if the parent tries to care but just isn't good at it..and the child acts liek a brat, then it's the childn't fault
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Yea i think that society is to blame too but parents can do something about that u know home school your kids or make them change schools, help them, talk to them if the parent is not financially stable enough to do that then that's when I'd encourage parents to keep a really watchful eye on their kids and no matter how much they say they hate you or whatever still try because when you stop trying that's when they give up that what I think.
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I blame the stupid teenagers. What pussy fucks.
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ya i agree with la0soulja..
its like emo....
maybe sometime its parents fault for not helping.. but what if they dont know whats going on with their child.. maybe their child never told them they're like.. upset about something...
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skygod333 wrote:

I blame the stupid teenagers. What pussy fucks.


wow on the other side you're just annoying
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But I believe that if that parent made an effort to build a relationship with their child then that wouldn't be a problem. I mean your mom and or dad has been the best parents to you your whole life and have told you repeatedly and shown you that they'll give you the world and that you shold respect yourself and talk to them if you need help and so forth I mean it's kinda hard to push yourself away from parents like that.
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Its tough to be a teenager and its tough to be a teenagers parent so i dont blame the parents, its mostly western lifestyle that leads to stress and then to depression.
Depression is a disease...educate yourself!
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Sometimes, some parents pressure the teenagers too much about grades, boyfriends, etc. Sometimes the pressure gets to them and they just crack. So I guess sometimes I blame the parents, but sometimes its someone else, such as bullies, ex's, etc.
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it's totally the parents fault. if they did a good job raising their kids there would be no problem. i think kids need to be shown that they are loved and they need to be taught to love others. but most parents (like mine) don't do that at all.

i like what Justin said "it should be a law that anyone who wants to have kids must get an okay from a psychologist first"
Posted 12/13/07

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skygod333 wrote:

I blame the stupid teenagers. What pussy fucks.


wow on the other side you're just annoying


And you're a senstive asshole living in contemporary society, sympathizing with every fuck out there who say it's something else's fault. It's time to pony-up people. It's your fault if you try to commit suicide. For god's sake, it's your own damn fault, no one else's. And if you succeed, you are one big fucking pussy to drop out of life like that because the going got tough. Cry me a river fags.
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Killar well you don't seem like ONE OF THOSE PPL so I'm gonna go ahead and say I'm glad you saw the problem in your parents actions.^_^ I mean good ppl can come from crappy parents but eventhing that society can do to trigger such dangerous actions can be stopped by parents. Most just sit by and hope that it passes and parents that have gone through things like these with their children will tell you to watch and love your kids but no one learns untils it's too late. Depression isn't permanent.
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ok ppl plz dnt fight yea it's the persons fault but it's mostly the parents. I saw a docomentary about ppl who grow their kids believeing in hitler and his actions and so forth. You child will believe whatever you grow them to believe. If you don't grow your child with morals and values and sayings as simple as love yourself then they will go out and go get those teachings from some pyscho idiot. Another big problem is teens having kids
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Posted 12/13/07

skygod333 wrote:


Ichigo_O wrote:


skygod333 wrote:

I blame the stupid teenagers. What pussy fucks.


wow on the other side you're just annoying


And you're a senstive asshole living in contemporary society, sympathizing with every fuck out there who say it's something else's fault. It's time to pony-up people. It's your fault if you try to commit suicide. For god's sake, it's your own damn fault, no one else's. And if you succeed, you are one big fucking pussy to drop out of life like that because the going got tough. Cry me a river fags.


okay thats stupid, the way kids turn out is directly affected by their parents and their surroundings as they grow up. if your dad beats your mom all the time your more likely to end up doing the same. and if all your parents do is yell and beat you then you more likely to freak out and kill people like in that mall.

i think you KNOW this but you just want to get others riled up
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