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Do you mostly blame parents for teenagers who become suicidal?
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Posted 12/13/07

chocuqueen wrote:

ya i agree with la0soulja..
its like emo....
maybe sometime its parents fault for not helping.. but what if they dont know whats going on with their child.. maybe their child never told them they're like.. upset about something...


Yeah, you're right alot of kids don't know how to express how they feel or don't want to, or tell their parents and thats where the problem presists.

Unlike the good parents out there, there are those that'll put you down simply because they can and those kinda parents are to blame with most suicidal cases, imo.
Posted 12/13/07
Bah ~.~

What I was going to say was that I think environment causes it more than anything. Environment is a very broad term and includes parents and many other things, so I agree that parents can cause it, but not so sure it is the most common reason... if I had to choose one, I would say peers cause it for teenagers most commonly.

Oh, and I am only talking about teens who do it, ones who claim to wanting to do it I never believe now a days, most are just attention seeking emos.
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sometimes...
Posted 12/13/07

killar wrote:


skygod333 wrote:


Ichigo_O wrote:


skygod333 wrote:

I blame the stupid teenagers. What pussy fucks.


wow on the other side you're just annoying


And you're a senstive asshole living in contemporary society, sympathizing with every fuck out there who say it's something else's fault. It's time to pony-up people. It's your fault if you try to commit suicide. For god's sake, it's your own damn fault, no one else's. And if you succeed, you are one big fucking pussy to drop out of life like that because the going got tough. Cry me a river fags.


okay thats stupid, the way kids turn out is directly affected by their parents and their surroundings as they grow up. if your dad beats your mom all the time you more likely to end up doing the same. and if all your parents do is yell and beat you then you more likely to freak out and kill people like in that mall.

i think you KNOW this but you just want to get others riled up


No need to get riled up. If parents made their kids commit suicide, they would constantly be attempting suicide, by your definition. Not to mention, kids are more influenced by other people rather than parents seeing as how they spend less time with parents than at school. Just thought I'd throw that out there. If you attempt it, you have free will and have the full responsiblity for choosing your fate. No one makes you do it. Otherwise that's homocide, not suicide. Since we all have free will, we make the choice. Since you made the choice, it's your own damn fault. You could have chose to live on but no, had to cry and quit when it got tough. And since I have free will, I will argue this civily until you, Killar decide to put an end to it.
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tru but the parents have the power to change. You can't wake up one morning when you child is 17 and decide you want to build a relationship you have to make an effort to do that when you child is growing up. Society plays a big part in the kind off adults you kids become but at the end of the day they are coming home to you and they spend more time at home and regardless of what they saw or heard during the day you can change that because you as a parent have the power to change that.
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I think it is all down to what kind of environment they grow up in, and yes parents are usually a big part of that environment.
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I blame the things they watch on T.V's dats what infulences them.
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no.................if their kid want to die............let them
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Parents can limit and choose what their children watch for the most part so once again parents fault. I hate insipid ppl.
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Posted 12/13/07
dont blame d parents, caused by peer presure i tell ya
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Posted 12/13/07

skygod333 wrote:

No need to get riled up. If parents made their kids commit suicide, they would constantly be attempting suicide, by your definition. Not to mention, kids are more influenced by other people rather than parents seeing as how they spend less time with parents than at school. Just thought I'd throw that out there. If you attempt it, you have free will and have the full responsiblity for choosing your fate. No one makes you do it. Otherwise that's homocide, not suicide. Since we all have free will, we make the choice. Since you made the choice, it's your own damn fault. You could have chose to live on but no, had to cry and quit when it got tough. And since I have free will, I will argue this civily until you, Killar decide to put an end to it.


it's an indirect thing. parents are supposed to teach their kids right from wrong. but when they don't their kids go out into society and let it influence them to do things they shouldn't. it all boils down to 'was the kid raised correctly?'. aside from the odd exceptions, every teenage suicide or murderous rampage happen because the kid had horrible parents who never taught them right from wrong and when they finally got out into society they could'nt handle it.

this can be proven by looking at socioeconomic classes. some of the worst places to grow up are the ghettos of the world. yet plenty of kids grow up there and DONT end up in jail or on the streets. and in the richer areas some kids DO end up going nuts and breaking the law. so no matter where you grow up, if your parents raise you right then you will be okay and blend with society just fine. but if they don't you are more likely to end up doing something stupid.

Posted 12/13/07
^What about the Comlumbine kids Killar? What had more effect on their desisions to be assfucks? Childhoods or the others around them that supposedly pushed them over the side? They decided to be assfucks on their own, even with the added suroundings. My understanding was that they had decent houses and decent folks. They still decided to run around and be little shits. What about emos? Who kill themselves for no reason, despite a decent and modest homelife? What about people with depression who do it? Full-grown adults? People do these things on their own ultimately but it's never someone else's fault, even if they contributed. In the end, it's the decision that places the fault on the asshole.
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skygod333 wrote:

^What about the Comlumbine kids Killar? What had more effect on their desisions to be assfucks? Childhoods or the others around them that supposedly pushed them over the side? They decided to be assfucks on their own, even with the added suroundings. My understanding was that they had decent houses and decent folks. They still decided to run around and be little shits. What about emos? Who kill themselves for no reason, despite a decent and modest homelife? What about people with depression who do it? Full-grown adults? People do these things on their own ultimately but it's never someone else's fault, even if they contributed. In the end, it's the decision that places the fault on the asshole.


Man just shut the fuck up.
Remember the Virginia Tech shit? Society and people surrounding him made him do that shit, not the other way around. If he was with better people, i doubt he would kill those people
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Posted 12/13/07
I think its about their surroundings. Like no EXACTLY all the parents fault probably was schools fault. Making friends, graders..etc. like that.
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yeah! Of course, children grew their characters and personality in the environments they're given. So basically, they commited suicide may be the pressurized comments and statements parents given. And not knowing how to handle stress nor supporting them more, this will be the result.
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