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Posted 1/7/09 , edited 12/4/09
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Okay, so I guess this turned into a COMPETITION
Answer all these advice related questions, and if I'm fond of them,
YOU'LL WIN!

Wanna know the PRIZE!? =D
You win MY LOVEEEE!! ^^
LMAO NO JK JK XD
I'll give you the satisfaction of calling you my 'friend' xoxo
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LMAO OKAY NO JK :D
UMM, THE PRIZE WILL BE........
Bread.

I'LL THINK OF THE PRIZE LATER KAY XD




The QUESTIONS (?)


1. What is love to you? What's your definition of it?

2. Use 5 word(s) to explain your life.

3. Would you die with the one you hate/love the most?

4. What would happen if the one you LOVED LOVED LOVED the most, betrayed you? (BE DESCRIPTIVE!)

5. In life, things happen for a reason don't they? I DON'T BELIEVE THAT. Explain why you do, I can never seem to find the answers for these 'reasons' in life.
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1. What is love to you? What's your definition of it?
Love is something that you can't control, no matter how much you would wish you could. It can't be bought or sold, and if you're lucky (or UNlucky) enough to Love someone, it won't just go away. It is a precious thing, but can easily hurt you, and is hard to get rid of at the same time.
But in the right circumstances and with the right conditions, it's the bringer of ultimate joy.


2. Use 5 word(s) to explain your life.
Random
Confusing
Unpredictable
Fun
Adventurous


3. Would you die with the one you hate/love the most?
With, or without...? Because, yes, I would most likely die -or at least want to- without the one I love the most. The one I hate the most, I don't care. My life would probably be a LOT better without her... =_=
But I would keep living, if not for my own sake, for the sake of those who care about me. And eventually, I'd be okay without the one I love the most.
(Though, I'm yet to even FIND the one I love most. Right now, I only love my family and my best friend the most, though if I lost any of those people I would be.... a wreck...)


4. What would happen if the one you LOVED LOVED LOVED the most, betrayed you? (BE DESCRIPTIVE!)
I would go through a series of stages. First, depression. Next, anger like you'd never believe. After the grief washed over, I would want revenge like no other >=D That guy would regret ever betraying me. You know that good ole' saying, "Hell hath no wrath like that of a woman scorned."

5. In life, things happen for a reason don't they? I DON'T BELIEVE THAT. Explain why you do, I can never seem to find the answers for these 'reasons' in life.
I think things happen for a reason because they just do. The reasons might not always be logical or to our likings, but they're still reasons.
The good things that happen are to fill our lives with happiness and fond memories, and the bad things are to strengthen our hearts, and teach us to be weary of dangerous things. I have a really good example of both of these.
The good things: A few years ago, my mom took me to a store to get some pencils and such for school, and there was a new pet store that had JUST opened. I have no idea why, but I asked my mom if we could stop in and see if we could find something for my dog. It turned out they were hosting this thing where you could go in and look at the kitties. My mom and I went in, and the first kitties I saw were looking at me, both with bright blue eyes. One of them meowed a little, and My mom and I asked the lady in charge to open the cage so we could pet and hold the kitties.
We ended up falling in love with those kitties, and we went home with them.
But the weird thing is how much like our old cats they are. And this leads me to my bad thing.

Our old kitties, Mungo and Rumpleteaser, we brother and sister. Mungo used to drool a lot, and he was honestly the most mellow cat I have EVER encountered. I once even gave him a bath when I was little. He just sat there, looking pretty upset. But he just sat, and meowed once. He didn't squirm or scratch or bite or anything.
And even though Rumpleteaser was more seclusive, and hid from my brothers and I, she was still a great cat. And my mom really loved her.
When they died, I was wondering what God was doing, messing with a young girl's heart like that. I was about 13 at the time, and I didn't fully understand the idea of everything dying at some times. Mungo and Rumpleteaser died within a week of each other, and since I had grown up with them, and they'd been by my side my whole life, I was really upset for a long time.
But they died for a reason. One, they're mortal, and all mortal things die, but also... I think fate had to teach me that valuable lesson. If I hadn't gone through a loss like that before hand, I would have been an absolute wreck when my GGK (my great grandma) and GGB (my great grandpa) died. I was still very upset, but not as much as if I hadn't already experienced the feeling of loss.
So in exchange for the grief early on that was bearable, I didn't have to suffer unbearable grief later on.

Things happen for a reason.
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wow.. embie-san-uan-jan-man-gan-tan-ran-kan-stfu-man o-O
DEEP ~
^^'' i'll let yu knoe tha results later [:
& THA REASON I ASKED #4 CUZ WELL..I KINDA FEEL TASHII BETRAYED MEH :/
LATER ON..I'LL TELL U ABOUT IT..
& + I WANTED TO HEAR UR ANSWER ON THA WHOLE THINGG
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D: Betrayal is stupid >.< It should die.
No more betrayal, and the world would be a MUUUUCCCHH better place O.o

heheheheh ^^' I can be pretty serious/insightful sometimes .^^. Most of the time though, I'm just crazy xD
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1. What is love to you? What's your definition of it?
Love is something all people have within them. It is their choice whether to embrace it and share it with others or shun it in a dark corner in their heart. Love can always be created but always hard to destroy. Once you truly love someone, it's difficult to withdraw your feelings towards them. Love can be cruel and a burden but at the end of the day it's love that is the most rewarding when you see the one you love welcoming you home with open arms. That's love: the most precious emotion in the world.

2. Use 5 word(s) to explain your life.

Fun
Unpredictable
Worth it
Crazy
Loveable

3. Would you die with the one you hate/love the most?

With or without??? Well if the one I love most die I wouldn't know what to do with myself. I would fall into a deep depression and give up on the other things that I loved. I wouldn't be able to write, draw, or play music for weeks and all of the tissue boxes in my house would be empty by sundown.

If the one I hated most died, I would actually feel sorry. I would be sad that I didn't patch things up with them before and that they died with a grudge against me. There wouldn't be much that I could do except pray that God would forgive me and that person.

4. What would happen if the one you LOVED LOVED LOVED the most, betrayed you? (BE DESCRIPTIVE!)

I would be really really sad. Probably cry for a while. Then that sadness would soon turn into anger. I would gather all of the things that they had given me and the next day give it all back to them. And if they said anything to me, they will wish they have never been born. But luckily when I love someone and they really really love me back betrayal won't be an issue.

5. In life, things happen for a reason don't they? I DON'T BELIEVE THAT. Explain why you do, I can never seem to find the answers for these 'reasons' in life.

Although things might seem unfair, everything happens for a reason. If one really wanted something but it wasn't good for them then odds are that they aren't going to get it. God works in mysterious ways. Although we don't know why He does things, He always has a reason. God said that He would never leave us in our time of need, and even if things go bad and you think it is unfair God has a plan that will be tens times better than what you yourself had planned. So yes, things happen for a reason because we don't really have control over them. However, it will always work out in the end. God promised :)

((Yes I am a Christian ^^))
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GOOD JOBB!<33
WOLFIEEE-CHAN (:
I ENJOYED READING UR OPINIONS [:
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Thank you Koko-chan ^^
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D: Betrayal is stupid >.< It should die.
No more betrayal, and the world would be a MUUUUCCCHH better place O.o

heheheheh ^^' I can be pretty serious/insightful sometimes .^^. Most of the time though, I'm just crazy xD


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truee, true.
yea but i'm good at hiding my feelings from ppl..i neverrrr open up now that i think about it..
love..just...confuses my judgment on EVERYTHING..
i don't need it anymore....i cant take it anymore!
its just...love has 'games' yu knoe, and some guys know how to play that game..
they're called 'players' i guess.
&& its always confusing to understand them!!
[tashii comes to mind]
IM TIRED OF THA GAMES!!!!
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Aww, Koko-chan T.T
Everyone needs love.
:[ Some day, everything will make sense. I'm sure of it :]
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Ugh, players =_=
They bug me, how they think girls are just trophies to collect or that it doesn't matter how many of them they hurt or cheat on or flirt with =_=
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Koko-chan you need to find someone who is deserving of you! Don't let guys get you down! Don't give up on love, we have all had a ride on it's roller coaster but it's worth it at the end of the ride!
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Ohh, dat's deep Wolfie-chan =D
It really is like a roller coaster too.
Ups and downs, man. Ups and downs.
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I am deep aren't I Hahahahahaha!!
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1. What is love to you? What's your definition of it? Love to me is something you cherish, enjoy and love the feeling. [Idk wth i just wrote] My definition for it is love is something hard to understand. Hard to learn, hard to know the true meaning of it. Not one definition is true. But the feeling you get when your in love...it's kind of hard to get rid of it right? So that's a bad thing about love. Love is something you shouldn't play around with, cause if you do, who knows what the conquences will be? Heartbroken? Pain? Sadness? Happiness? You'll never know. [Gah, worst answer ever = =''] [LMAO the answer to the questions are mixed in the paragraph xD]

2. Use 5 word(s) to explain your life.
Boring-ish
Cheery
Happy
Weird
Crazy

3. Would you die with the one you hate/love the most?
I would definitely die with the one I loved most. Knowing i'll find him again, somewhere, even when i was gone. Id still see him, remember him. Everything.

As for my hated one, I would still be gladly die with them, saying a few words like 'Im sorry' 'I hope we see eachother soon' With a smile placed on my face, hoping I would see that person again, so I can apoligize correctly.

4. What would happen if the one you LOVED LOVED LOVED the most, betrayed you? (BE DESCRIPTIVE!) I would probably go into a bit of a depression just to get over him. Maybe talk to a few good friends I could trust, and ask for help on this problem. [Ex:Sam[ RL fren] or Sean [MS friend] Their good people I could trust ^^, and after I was done groaning around, i'd finally take up all my courage, and move on with what I have left. Or atleast try

5. In life, things happen for a reason don't they? I DON'T BELIEVE THAT. Explain why you do, I can never seem to find the answers for these 'reasons' in life.
I believe in things happen for a reason because, even though you may not find a certain reason for something to happen, you'll find it out one day. You'll know why it truely did happen, like if you got your heartbroken. There's a reason for that, a reason for friends to become friends, lovers to become lovers, kids to be born...etc. I mean, I cant find these certain 'reasons' either, but i know for sure i will. Because even though i've been hurt way to many times by people I now hate, I know there's a reason why they did that. I know there's a reason why I hate them. But wouldn't that reason show up soon? Or maybe after a long time. No matter the time, there's a reason for everything.

[that kinda sucked, but better then my def for love lmao]
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That was beautiful Kinne T.T All of it, even your definition for love. *sobs out of happiness*
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