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why is it sometimes so hard to cry
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Posted 1/12/09
Hun, peel a hundred onions without stopping.

You'll shed so many tears your eyes become dead dry.
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Neukuhn wrote:

i never cry at funerals, when i brake up with someone, ext, it has to be something really big (emotionally) but why, and does anyone have the same problem?


No. But I think you're lucky. On my case, I am so emotional and crying has always been my emo output.
Posted 1/12/09
i dunno...i wish i can cry again because i cant seem to shed any tears anymore.....
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Depends on how emotions trigger your tear glands heh. I hardly cry on anything even funerals but I tend to get angry but most of my emotions and feelings get balled up inside of myself and yeah its bad cause you sometimes feel a sense of depression but I already know how to get rid of that feeling but others are unfortunate and can cause them to ultimately break down to the point where they cannot live on. Crying can be psychological as well so if you werent thinking of the whole situation you probably wont cry even if the situation was serious. Sometimes you cry when you're touched by what someone did or someone said so it all depends on how you perceive things and how it affects you internally.
Posted 1/12/09
well, i think its because you just dont have any more tears to shed. subconsciously, you now you're tired of crying and the body just doesnt want to produce tears.


crying is tiring though it relieves.



i wonder whats gotten into me today and im talking like this..


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Teresa_Yuuki wrote:

maybe ur just not very sensitive.
if its so hard to cry, go buy some of those fake tears stuff.


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Posted 1/12/09

Neukuhn wrote:

i never cry at funerals, when i brake up with someone, ext, it has to be something really big (emotionally) but why, and does anyone have the same problem?


The real question is, why does it matter so much? Do you want to cry that badly? The question of being "unhuman" is moot point since you realize that you aren't crying when you should be crying.

Posted 1/12/09
~ i cry so much i forget! xD
Posted 1/12/09
i would say its coz u been crying too much
but yah
maybe ur just stupid
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real men don't cry so i guess you're a real man.

i haven't cried since probably 12...?
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Posted 1/12/09
coz your a man..... men dont cry... you shouldnt want to cry either... your questioning your manhood.... if you really need to.... get a boot in the balls... that always works
Posted 1/12/09
meh
I don't cry unless it has something to do with pity :|
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Posted 1/12/09
it's normal to cry in funeral. but i never went to one.
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Posted 1/12/09

kitoka wrote:


Neukuhn wrote:

i never cry at funerals, when i brake up with someone, ext, it has to be something really big (emotionally) but why, and does anyone have the same problem?


No. But I think you're lucky. On my case, I am so emotional and crying has always been my emo output.


lol emo!!!!!, but at least you can show your emotions, what about me, i couldn't cry when my best friend left me, she did and i think she thought i did not really care about her, plus they say its bad to bottle things up.
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specialist7 wrote:

Depends on how emotions trigger your tear glands heh. I hardly cry on anything even funerals but I tend to get angry but most of my emotions and feelings get balled up inside of myself and yeah its bad cause you sometimes feel a sense of depression but I already know how to get rid of that feeling but others are unfortunate and can cause them to ultimately break down to the point where they cannot live on. Crying can be psychological as well so if you werent thinking of the whole situation you probably wont cry even if the situation was serious. Sometimes you cry when you're touched by what someone did or someone said so it all depends on how you perceive things and how it affects you internally.


can it also have to do with traumas in the persons life, in my situation a had to bare somethings that i wouldn't want others to go through
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