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why is it sometimes so hard to cry
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Posted 1/12/09

makix wrote:


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i never cry at funerals, when i brake up with someone, ext, it has to be something really big (emotionally) but why, and does anyone have the same problem?


The real question is, why does it matter so much? Do you want to cry that badly? The question of being "unhuman" is moot point since you realize that you aren't crying when you should be crying.



does it matter yes, kus crying is a way of relieving your self of your own emotions, its no good for the human body and mind to bottle things up, thats why people fall t in to depression and if it keeps going on like this it leads to the person not wanting to live on, no i dont want to cry badly its just a question and yet again, i cant fucking cry over me not being able to cry, doesn't make scenes, there a lots of people with this same problem.
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maybe because you've gone through something much bigger then what the event you go to at. i don't cry much either. only if it gets to me.
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You didn't cried when you were borned?
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i dont cry ever...but i hav really watery eyes
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I rarely cry infront of people and never that histerical crying you see on TV and such... just a subtle tear. However, when i'm alone the tears will flood down my face. I guess i don't like looking weak infront of people and i don't really show my emotions unless i am alone


I'm pretty much the same, but I seem to cry at pretty much every movie I watch, even when there is a happy ending, I guess I am emotional in that aspect, but I'm not sensitive to things that should cause me sadness.

Does anyone understand this, because I'm losing even myself.
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i started to notice that i didnt cry about things after my grams had died.
she was someone so important to me yet at the funeral i didnt cry because i cldnt.
i was 14 years old when that happened n now im almost 17.
before that happened i use to cry all the time about the littlest things that hurt me n i use to throw tantrums as a kid if i didnt get what i wanted but now it takes a lot to make me cry n even then id rather just have anger then sadness. ive hardened up is what my mom tells me but ive just actually realized that ive grown up n that i dont wanna be a crybaby.
i dont like crying, it makes me exhausted n its not that i dont care or am emotionless its just id rather act mature n move on.
one thing i dont understand is why did my grandmas death effect me in a way that resulted in me not crying much anymore after all she is still someone that i miss n admire..
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i cry really randomly. like a person could die and nothing, but if my sister is yelling at me i'd go to a closet and cry..i'm stupid like that..
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because you didn't drink enough water...
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I have, we are simply cold hearted.
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KeiXIII wrote:


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maybe ur just not very sensitive.
if its so hard to cry, go buy some of those fake tears stuff.




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jebusxjuice wrote:


mamd87 wrote:

I rarely cry infront of people and never that histerical crying you see on TV and such... just a subtle tear. However, when i'm alone the tears will flood down my face. I guess i don't like looking weak infront of people and i don't really show my emotions unless i am alone


I'm pretty much the same, but I seem to cry at pretty much every movie I watch, even when there is a happy ending, I guess I am emotional in that aspect, but I'm not sensitive to things that should cause me sadness.

Does anyone understand this, because I'm losing even myself.


yeah~! i do understand how u feel, sometimes i jz feel I'm so stupid, but jz can't control the tears, it jz keeps dripping~~ n i do agree with mamd87 :"However, when i'm alone the tears will flood down my face. I guess i don't like looking weak infront of people and i don't really show my emotions unless i am alone"
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Neukuhn wrote:


makix wrote:


Neukuhn wrote:

i never cry at funerals, when i brake up with someone, ext, it has to be something really big (emotionally) but why, and does anyone have the same problem?


The real question is, why does it matter so much? Do you want to cry that badly? The question of being "unhuman" is moot point since you realize that you aren't crying when you should be crying.



does it matter yes, kus crying is a way of relieving your self of your own emotions, its no good for the human body and mind to bottle things up, thats why people fall t in to depression and if it keeps going on like this it leads to the person not wanting to live on, no i dont want to cry badly its just a question and yet again, i cant fucking cry over me not being able to cry, doesn't make scenes, there a lots of people with this same problem.


You're stressing way too much over something that's meaningless. You're sound emo-ish.
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Posted 1/12/09
I never cry at funerals either, though I just can't stop crying if someone breaks my 3D puzzle or if I see a abused animal...
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Posted 1/26/09
maybe you are not sensitive and not much affected...

sad to say ....
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Posted 1/28/09
Perhaps you're just used to holding it in subconsciously. I know I don't cry easily but then at the same time when I'm alone, I cry every now and again for the me illogical reasons. I am just now being open about it instead of lying and saying I never cry...
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