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which one would you believe the most, ur best friend or ur current boy friend that u love so much?

and
what if one day ur best friend says that ur bf/gf is cheating on you but ur bf/gf, which one would u believe?

ahhhhh its my current dilema XD

i tend to trust my besties tho.. "friends are forever, guys are whatever"? lol.
but then again, im trying to investigate the truth of her words... does this makes me seems not trust my besties? idk...
but then if he denied, and he said "ur suppose to trust me..."
what can i say back...

to know what's actually going on,, here..
read it before posting...
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=43732&pg=1#5226313

omg... im so in trouble, cant sleep T_T
its gonna be a long nite T_T

those who replying to help, thx so much XD
im appreciating u guys for helping ><
Posted 12/15/07
So, how long have you known each one?

This is not a question that someone on here can really answer since they don't know the people involved. I'd urge you to talk to other people you know in real life.

Things to think about: What does each person have to gain or lose by lying? Would your best friend lie to you or maybe simply have an inaccurate perception or be otherwise telling you something that they believe is true but might not actually be? In other words "how do they know?"

Good luck, and please do not take stupid people on a forum like this too seriously when it comes to a serious situation like this.
Posted 12/15/07
Please no VS thread and I can't choose between these two choose cuz I don't know is it good to choose girlfriend over friends.
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Posted 12/15/07
That is one serious problem...
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Posted 12/15/07

berry_mallow wrote:

which one would you believe the most, ur best friend or ur current boy friend that u love so much?

and
what if one day ur best friend says that ur bf/gf is cheating on you but ur bf/gf, which one would u believe?

ahhhhh its my current dilema XD

i tend to trust my besties tho.. "friends are forever, guys are whatever"? lol.
but then again, im trying to investigate the truth of her words... does this makes me seems not trust my besties? idk...
but then if he denied, and he said "ur suppose to trust me..."
what can i say back...

omg... im so in trouble, cant sleep T_T


Im sorry, but it sounds like hes playing...
but thats just from his speech. Depending on his background or age group, it could be hard to determine.

Anyways, im not aware of your previous experiance with your friend and bf, so its difficult to suggest anything. However, it would be wise not to do anyhting hasty either way until you know more.
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well u if he really loves u he will understand the question...
u should bring ur bestfriend who told u tomeet ur bf & talk about the matter...
that way there will be no way for them to lie....
& ur bf gets angry u should just explane the u dont want to get hurt. or betrayed...
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Posted 12/15/07
Well, i would probably believe.....arghhhh....it depends >.>
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Posted 12/15/07

shibole wrote:

So, how long have you known each one?

This is not a question that someone on here can really answer since they don't know the people involved. I'd urge you to talk to other people you know in real life.

Things to think about: What does each person have to gain or lose by lying? Would your best friend lie to you or maybe simply have an inaccurate perception or be otherwise telling you something that they believe is true but might not actually be? In other words "how do they know?"

Good luck, and please do not take stupid people on a forum like this too seriously when it comes to a serious situation like this.


i know...
i wont take this seriously, im just taking this in other ppl's perspective,, u know, being more "open-minded" since im pretty sure im closed-minded..
i just need a couple of opinion before i made my deciseion...

i dont think my besties would lie to me though, cuz i know she had a hard time telling me.. i appreciated her so much that she finally told me so..
yeahh,, about the thing that you said "how do they know?"
my besties actually heard it from her boyfirend.. she was like "im about to tell u when im 100% sure,, im only like 50% sure rite now,, dont fully trust me on this, kay... im tellng this now cuz i dont want u to find out when ur TOO in love w/ him..."

well yeah
another common teenage drama. T_T
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It's stupid for any person to tell their bf/gf that you're supposed to trust them. Trust is something you have to earn. It's not just given to you.

Try to use your best judgement and know that this situation is never simple. Listen carefully to both sides.
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Posted 12/15/07

tinbad wrote:


berry_mallow wrote:

which one would you believe the most, ur best friend or ur current boy friend that u love so much?

and
what if one day ur best friend says that ur bf/gf is cheating on you but ur bf/gf, which one would u believe?

ahhhhh its my current dilema XD

i tend to trust my besties tho.. "friends are forever, guys are whatever"? lol.
but then again, im trying to investigate the truth of her words... does this makes me seems not trust my besties? idk...
but then if he denied, and he said "ur suppose to trust me..."
what can i say back...

omg... im so in trouble, cant sleep T_T


Im sorry, but it sounds like hes playing...
but thats just from his speech. Depending on his background or age group, it could be hard to determine.

Anyways, im not aware of your previous experiance with your friend and bf, so its difficult to suggest anything. However, it would be wise not to do anyhting hasty either way until you know more.


yeah, im waiting for further news... gonna keep my eyes ears open up,, REALLY BIG... lol XD
who sounds like playing?
my friend or my bf?


devil_joker wrote:

well u if he really loves u he will understand the question...
u should bring ur bestfriend who told u tomeet ur bf & talk about the matter...
that way there will be no way for them to lie....
& ur bf gets angry u should just explane the u dont want to get hurt. or betrayed...


i know,, i shud try that....
yeahh he shud understand my insecurities if he really loves me... XD


CzzDitzz wrote:

Well, i would probably believe.....arghhhh....it depends >.>


amazingly hard to choose, isnt it?


thx for responding, appreciate it XD
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of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^
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mangopop wrote:

It's stupid for any person to tell their bf/gf that you're supposed to trust them. Trust is something you have to earn. It's not just given to you.

Try to use your best judgement and know that this situation is never simple. Listen carefully to both sides.


True.
never thought of that...
yeah,, i shud listen from both perspective even more...
ahhh,, its not gonna be easy, i cant sleep, its gonna be a LONG *** NIGHT!!
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pigletchua19 wrote:

of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^


but isnt that sad?
well if i were u, i'll believe on my gf xD
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Posted 12/15/07

So, how long have you known each one?

This is not a question that someone on here can really answer since they don't know the people involved. I'd urge you to talk to other people you know in real life.

Things to think about: What does each person have to gain or lose by lying? Would your best friend lie to you or maybe simply have an inaccurate perception or be otherwise telling you something that they believe is true but might not actually be? In other words "how do they know?"

Good luck, and please do not take stupid people on a forum like this too seriously when it comes to a serious situation like this.


I agree with this statement here, you should talk to people that you know in real life to help you answer this question. They would actually have the full scope of the situation and would more likely be able to help you through it. However, if you are looking for opinions of different people, then that's fine. As for my opinion on this matter, it's a really a question of trust. If you're best friend has been their for you in the toughest times, then I'd say go along with what she/he says. However, your best friend could be jealous of your relationship aka "the green eyed monster" and could be making things up. So if you want to take a risk and put both of them in the same room and try to figure things out that way, then that would be a good idea if you're up to the task that is.
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...this might sound wierd...but I would trust my friends. Its just the kind of bond that we have that makes it easy to trust them with this type of situation.
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