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Earthling127 wrote:


berry_mallow wrote:


shibole wrote:

So, how long have you known each one?

This is not a question that someone on here can really answer since they don't know the people involved. I'd urge you to talk to other people you know in real life.

Things to think about: What does each person have to gain or lose by lying? Would your best friend lie to you or maybe simply have an inaccurate perception or be otherwise telling you something that they believe is true but might not actually be? In other words "how do they know?"

Good luck, and please do not take stupid people on a forum like this too seriously when it comes to a serious situation like this.


i know...
i wont take this seriously, im just taking this in other ppl's perspective,, u know, being more "open-minded" since im pretty sure im closed-minded..
i just need a couple of opinion before i made my deciseion...

i dont think my besties would lie to me though, cuz i know she had a hard time telling me.. i appreciated her so much that she finally told me so..
yeahh,, about the thing that you said "how do they know?"
my besties actually heard it from her boyfirend.. she was like "im about to tell u when im 100% sure,, im only like 50% sure rite now,, dont fully trust me on this, kay... im tellng this now cuz i dont want u to find out when ur TOO in love w/ him..."

well yeah
another common teenage drama. T_T



Well if your best friend heard it from her bf then shouldn't you talk to him about it? and ask how HE knows about it or why he thinks your bf is cheating on you. Did he actually see your bf with another girl or something.


ermmm,, read here
http://www.crunchyroll.com/showforumtopic?id=43732&pg=1#5226313
ull see the problem more clear then...
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kay, since the story line is vague.. ill tell the kronology...
here goes...

the character:
the boyfriend - L
the boyfriend's friend - D
my friend's boyfriend - R
my friend - G
me - M
mysterious girl - A

one day D came to L's house with A,, something happened seems like L and A had something going on...
then,, D ratted it out to R then R told G which then lead G to M...

G isnt sure about this cuz first of all either G or M know D that well,, so its either he's lying or he's telling the truth...

dats all,, supposedly

hmmm... That opens the possibility that the whole thing is a big misunderstanding but still dosnt make it any less true that you should watch his body language.
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yep,, seems like it...
i cant wait until morning so then i could talk to him... but i couldnt even get to sleep...
AAAAAAAAARGHHH 2 am alredy T_T


Yea well it's about 3 am here, but that's only because i've been working on my take home final for class. But I finished it already. But yea you should try to get some sleep, you're not going to be alert enough to ask questions the next morning if you don't rest.
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pigletchua19 wrote:

of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^


but isnt that sad?
well if i were u, i'll believe on my gf xD

but in reality friends are more dependable than gf/bf...maybe different ppl have different point of views...^^
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kay, since the story line is vague.. ill tell the kronology...
here goes...

the character:
the boyfriend - L
the boyfriend's friend - D
my friend's boyfriend - R
my friend - G
me - M
mysterious girl - A

one day D came to L's house with A,, something happened seems like L and A had something going on...
then,, D ratted it out to R then R told G which then lead G to M...

G isnt sure about this cuz first of all either G or M know D that well,, so its either he's lying or he's telling the truth...

dats all,, supposedly

hmmm... That opens the possibility that the whole thing is a big misunderstanding but still dosnt make it any less true that you should watch his body language.


yeah,, that's why...
the only think that i will avoid the most is a wrong accusation, u know?
i dont wanna accuse the wrong side...
and also cuz everything isnt clear and only a mouth-to-mouth thing, there's no evidence whether he's actually cheating on me or not...
and i really dont wanna accuse him if he really didnt do anything...
ill hurt him, and my self as well..
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yep,, seems like it...
i cant wait until morning so then i could talk to him... but i couldnt even get to sleep...
AAAAAAAAARGHHH 2 am alredy T_T


Yea well it's about 3 am here, but that's only because i've been working on my take home final for class. But I finished it already. But yea you should try to get some sleep, you're not going to be alert enough to ask questions the next morning if you don't rest.


i know... T_T
*drool
ahahahhahaha XD


pigletchua19 wrote:


CzzDitzz wrote:


pigletchua19 wrote:

of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^


but isnt that sad?
well if i were u, i'll believe on my gf xD

but in reality friends are more dependable than gf/bf...maybe different ppl have different point of views...^^


True.
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pigletchua19 wrote:


CzzDitzz wrote:


pigletchua19 wrote:

of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^


but isnt that sad?
well if i were u, i'll believe on my gf xD

but in reality friends are more dependable than gf/bf...maybe different ppl have different point of views...^^


True datttttttt..xD
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well have you gotten any clear insight from all of this at all?
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CzzDitzz wrote:


pigletchua19 wrote:


CzzDitzz wrote:


pigletchua19 wrote:

of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^


but isnt that sad?
well if i were u, i'll believe on my gf xD

but in reality friends are more dependable than gf/bf...maybe different ppl have different point of views...^^


True datttttttt..xD


so we have our own point of views as well...different ppl hv different judgement against friends and bf/gf...as for now probably becoz i din hv one thus i'll tend to think that friends will be more dependable!!!^^
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pigletchua19 wrote:


CzzDitzz wrote:


pigletchua19 wrote:


CzzDitzz wrote:


pigletchua19 wrote:

of course will be friends...^^ romance will end but friendship will always sail...^^


but isnt that sad?
well if i were u, i'll believe on my gf xD

but in reality friends are more dependable than gf/bf...maybe different ppl have different point of views...^^


True datttttttt..xD


so we have our own point of views as well...different ppl hv different judgement against friends and bf/gf...as for now probably becoz i din hv one thus i'll tend to think that friends will be more dependable!!!^^ :D


yep, but i still tend to depend to my friend,, as much as i depend to my bf,, but my bf hears more complaints and all ahahhahaha cuz whenever i got trouble ill be complaining about it in front of him....

insight from this
*confront him tomorrow
*get my bf and my friend in 1 room and get REAL!
*figured out everything clearly,, no more missunderstanding
*find another guy that will NEVER EVER CHEAT (is there even any?) so then these kind of thing wont even exist? XD

~trying to make herself laugh T_T
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insight from this
*confront him tomorrow
*get my bf and my friend in 1 room and get REAL!
*figured out everything clearly,, no more missunderstanding
*find another guy that will NEVER EVER CHEAT (is there even any?) so then these kind of thing wont even exist? XD

~trying to make herself laugh T_T


This answered my question from earlier. Sounds like you have a game plan.
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so we have our own point of views as well...different ppl hv different judgement against friends and bf/gf...as for now probably becoz i din hv one thus i'll tend to think that friends will be more dependable!!!^^ :D

yep, but i still tend to depend to my friend,, as much as i depend to my bf,, but my bf hears more complaints and all ahahhahaha cuz whenever i got trouble ill be complaining about it in front of him....

insight from this
*confront him tomorrow
*get my bf and my friend in 1 room and get REAL!
*figured out everything clearly,, no more missunderstanding
*find another guy that will NEVER EVER CHEAT (is there even any?) so then these kind of thing wont even exist? XD

~trying to make herself laugh T_T

haha...thanx for sharing!! its true that bf/gf can be our listening ears when it comes to complaint...^^
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Oushiza wrote:


insight from this
*confront him tomorrow
*get my bf and my friend in 1 room and get REAL!
*figured out everything clearly,, no more missunderstanding
*find another guy that will NEVER EVER CHEAT (is there even any?) so then these kind of thing wont even exist? XD

~trying to make herself laugh T_T


This answered my question from earlier. Sounds like you have a game plan.


yep,, in a way, yeah... i just probably will be EXTREEMLY NERVOUS when ill do that.... aaaaaaahhhh,,,, T_T
i just dont wanna accept the truth if he's actually cheating... dont wanna be hurt anymore T_T


pigletchua19 wrote:

so we have our own point of views as well...different ppl hv different judgement against friends and bf/gf...as for now probably becoz i din hv one thus i'll tend to think that friends will be more dependable!!!^^ :D

yep, but i still tend to depend to my friend,, as much as i depend to my bf,, but my bf hears more complaints and all ahahhahaha cuz whenever i got trouble ill be complaining about it in front of him....

insight from this
*confront him tomorrow
*get my bf and my friend in 1 room and get REAL!
*figured out everything clearly,, no more missunderstanding
*find another guy that will NEVER EVER CHEAT (is there even any?) so then these kind of thing wont even exist? XD

~trying to make herself laugh T_T

haha...thanx for sharing!! its true that bf/gf can be our listening ears when it comes to complaint...^^


lmao~ yepp cuz they're like "aww,, its all okay..."
eventhough we know that its NOT okay it just makes u feel better when the say that..
ahahaha XD
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seems like alot of people responded to this thread, hope you got what you came here for.
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Yeah but haven't you heard the saying that you're best friends can be your worst enemies? I'd suggest you investigate the problem a little more. Try to get in their conversations with other people, in short, eavesdrop. Yes it may sound rude but don't you think that your gf/bf or best friend is telling other people information that you don't know about?
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