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Posted 12/15/07
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yeahh my first thread that actually developing...
appreciating everybody who's writing cuz they care ><
yeahh i hope i soon figure everything out...
once everything cleared up,, ill make sure i post it XD
so then everyone will know the end of the complication..
not to show off,, to show that i appreciate them :)
in a way :)

*yes, im weird.
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Posted 12/15/07

emberslave wrote:

Yeah but haven't you heard the saying that you're best friends can be your worst enemies? I'd suggest you investigate the problem a little more. Try to get in their conversations with other people, in short, eavesdrop. Yes it may sound rude but don't you think that your gf/bf or best friend is telling other people information that you don't know about?


WHOOOOO another good one...
yeahh i should probably spend 1-2 days to investigate and understand the problem even better before actually confronting them...
i shud do dat.
i think XD
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berry_mallow wrote:


emberslave wrote:Well it depends on you're choice. You may do what I suggested or not. But remember, the choices you make will always have concequences. I suggest you choose wisely. Don't rush things. Take it slowly and calmly. Your control over the problem will be much better that way.

Yeah but haven't you heard the saying that you're best friends can be your worst enemies? I'd suggest you investigate the problem a little more. Try to get in their conversations with other people, in short, eavesdrop. Yes it may sound rude but don't you think that your gf/bf or best friend is telling other people information that you don't know about?


WHOOOOO another good one...
yeahh i should probably spend 1-2 days to investigate and understand the problem even better before actually confronting them...
i shud do dat.
i think XD


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Posted 12/15/07
investigate. u'll never know
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Posted 12/15/07
You should talk to him and sort it out but don't accuse him straightaway. Afterall, you didn't hear it firsthand. Besides stuff like this always gets messed up. Who knows, along the way stuff might have been made up to make the story seem more serious or believable.
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that's a big problem., i know a lot of ways you could approach this problem., either you asked your bf the real truth (though that wouldnt be really advisable coz he could just lie)., then you could find it out yourself by asking who A is (if you just knew who you would ask 4 info)., then you could also find out by asking friends' help., and im not just talking about one friend., im talking about a lot of friends.,

my ultimate advise, dont take sides., not yet., just make sure who is telling the truth., that would lessen the complications.,

good luck with that problem berry mallow.,
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omg, i hate the situation where im stuck in between my bestie and the guy i liked but i have known my bestie for 5 yrs and the guy i liked less then 5 mths...?
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Posted 12/15/07

Ultimatedzl wrote:

Please no VS thread and I can't choose between these two choose cuz I don't know is it good to choose girlfriend over friends.


I agree with ya. But, here.
I understand your problem. But, if you think properly. Don't you think that boyfriend/girlfriend is as same as bestfriend? If you are currently in dilemma, you must trust yourself. You don't have to trust your friend or your boyfriend/girlfriend. First, you should think rationally. What makes sense. You should investigate. Don't judge without proper investigation. Don't be emotional. Stay alert. Stay cool. Relax. The most important thing is, you ask somebody else about the case.
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24 / F / Batangas City
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Posted 12/15/07
you must weigh which do you think tells the truth..listen to your heart..and believe what it says..sometimes we must be able to know the needs of our heart for us to able to reach the necessity of the mind..
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Posted 12/15/07
We don't allow vs threads here!

but since there is so much discussion I will allow it.

another mod might lock it though
Posted 12/15/07
i would trust my friends.... they were there from the begining, plus if u leave your boyfriend who would you turn to then if your friends were gone?
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25 / F / center of the earth
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Posted 12/15/07
well...hmm...here is one question :
do ur bf tells u everything? like where he is going,what he is doing..etc.
if u dont, maybe u shud ask...
i am not saying that ur bf is cheating on u...but just to be on the safe side...u know, just to make sure that he is doing what he is doing...not saying one thing and doing something else...
i din ask u to spy...u can ask some of his close friends in a casual way.
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Posted 12/15/07
Well...you can stay neutral and if they actually think about tat decision thoroughly, then they might conclude that since you like ur bf and besties equally strong, then they might put you off the pressure of you choosing who you believe is right.

PS...sorry if this doesn't make any sense
Posted 12/15/07
i guess you should believe your best friend rather than your new boyfriend,
for you know you friend more than your boyfriend and well i guess your best friend
doesn't really want to hurt you it's just that he/she just want to help you and lessen your
pain, because if you would see it straight from your own two eyes it would be more painful. so i guess you should just trust your best friend
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Posted 12/15/07
Solution for both: I will check personally by myself... And judge it wisely.

I can't simply just say yes... cause that stupid... And if you best fren or GF/BF left you because your not siding with them... I'll say thanks GOD... Cause he showed me the true form of my best fren and BF/GF.



Anyway, for fun, My fren got an interesting theory about BF/GF and frenz...

Showing Love and Friendship... Is like baking a cake.

If you bake a normal sponge cake, without any icing whatsoever, then that is a true fren. You treat your fren normally, and try to help them when they needed like you bake the cake.

If you add a little choclate chips in the cake, or some almond perhaps, but no icing, that is good/best fren. You tend to give more then usual your usaul fren... As you put the almond or chocolate chip in... But you didn't perfect it...

If you put icing into the cake, that is your BF/GF. You tend to perfect the cake, aka give them more then you give to others... You sealed all the loopholes of the cake by icing, meaning give them roses and present until they say I LOVE YOU!!!

BUT!!! If you put TOO MUCH Icing in the cake... Does it taste good? You eat the cake or the icing? Same to your BF/GF. If you shower them with lots of lots of present, follow them wherever they are, always call them... You're in BIG TROUBLE BABY!!!

Let say someone suddenly gives you a lot, always ask you whether your alright, always call you... even when your sleeping, follow you around... Will you like it?

Think about it... Maybe you don't quie understand, but once you read again, you might get it.

A lot of thanx to my gud fren, lecturing me about love... HEhe...
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