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Post Reply How long does it take for u the relize u r gay/lez/bi?
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Posted 3/20/11
It took me about 1-3 years actually, it was a long process too. At around 15-16 I was starting to have attractions towards people in general, but then that slowly went to only men when I was 18. By the time I was 19 and a half I realized I was homosexual.
Posted 3/29/11
Well just recently I'm realizing I'm Bi. I always liked guys and girls but I'm just now accepting that.
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Posted 4/17/11
Took me like half a year to one year to grasp I wasn't straight, but now I definitely know I'm not straight however I dunno if I'm bi or gay :S
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Posted 7/6/11
Hmm... too long. Way too long. I can look back and see signs that I wish I had picked up on from when I was 14, but I didn't even contemplate that I might not be straight until I was 18, at which point, I labeled myself as bi-curious. Things continued moving on at a glacial pace, and I think I finally came out as gay when I was... 20? I had accepted it at some point when I was 19, though...
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Posted 1/14/12
I first realized I wasn't straight at 10. It took me about 2 years because I was debating whether I was lesbian or bi. After having a pretty long experience with being with a girl which was about 6-7 months, I'm bisexual. :3
Posted 5/12/12 , edited 5/12/12
I was in 7th grade when I realized i was bi, but as the years have gone by I realize it's even broader than that. I'm attracted to *people* regardless of how they label themselves. I've had crushes on gay & straight men & women & I could potentially even crush on a trans person. I'm esp a sucker for androgynous types -- girly boys & boyish girls & people who are gender benders.

All body & gender configurations are OK by me. I'm attracted to the *person* first.
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26 / M / San Antonio, Texas
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Posted 11/4/12
Growing up I didn't have many friends, so I wasn't peer-pressured into liking girls. I had a crush on a sempai when I was in 7th grade. Later I learned what it meant to be gay, and I knew I was.

Coming out.... that's a whole other story :/
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Posted 10/13/13
I've always known.
Posted 6/20/14
Finding out and accepting I'm transgender...

28 years.
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Posted 8/9/14
Too long
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Posted 9/27/14
I was in denial over it for a long time. Took me 4 years after I accepted that I was sexually attracted to women to realize that I'm a lesbian. You'd think that it would have been obvious (and it was), but I'm panromantic, meaning that I can fall in love with anyone regardless of if I find them attractive. And when I do fall in love I overlook appearances. I also grew up being taught that you could only marry and have kids with a man. So I didn't want to consider the fact that I may prefer women. I kept rationalizing it. It was obvious I found women very attractive, but I just thought, "I wouldn't be in a relationship with one, so I'm not bisexual." Eventually I accepted the fact, but I still had mostly only let myself fall for guys at the time, so it was hard for me to admit that I was a lesbian. But by the end of my last relationship with a man, I knew that I was. I knew a relationship with a man couldn't work when I didn't have sexual chemistry with them. And I also just wanted to be with women so badly by that point, romantically and physically. Women are wonderful. Amazing. Fantastic. Being in a relationship with a woman now, I feel so free and like I wish I'd realized this sooner and had just been true to myself from the beginning. I think back to highschool and how I could have been going on dates with some of the girls there instead of being with disgusting guys. But alas, we can't change our past. I've got a great girlfriend now and am happier than ever, so I can look towards the future.
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Posted 11/24/14 , edited 11/26/14
No idea xD
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Posted 8/17/15
Well, I just sorta came to terms now, but looking back, Im pretty sure I always new.
(im a guy)

Funny Story

Tenth birthday I wanted a rainbow cake with mustaches, ya Im pretty gay.
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23 / M / Montreal,Quebec,...
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Posted 8/20/15
As a boy. I always had a fascination to both sexes. Nobody really knew besides me, until recently I came out as Bi to everybody. I had met somebody over PSN 6-7 months ago and I've been loving every moment that we're together. It's definitely difficult dealing with a long distance relationship, but when we do meet up in a couple of months, it will definitely be something special for the both of us.
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Posted 6/10/16
I realized I was gay after I kissed a girl in like 3 rd grade or 4th
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