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why do guys talk to the girl they like so much the first day, then ignore them the next?
Posted 1/17/09
His friends may have said that he likes you and he honestly doesn't or he doesn't want anyone else to know that he does like you and so tries to prove this by not speaking to you.
Posted 1/17/09

freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:

Or maybe he somewhat "realised" or thought that it might be "too friendly" towards you to talk like that and was scared or nervous that people might think he likes you.


((NOTE: Don't take this the wrong way but please don't assume that he likes you straight away. That is the first step towards disaster... ))



I dont. I'm just trying to figure him out.


Well, that's a good thing... but I'd say that he'd still want to be friends. It's not like you did anything to annoy or offend him so... yea...
...


hopefully I didnt do anything. Ya hes a great friend. fun memories.


Yea... good luck then!... xD...
...


thanks, he probable doesnt like me though.. ahh guys, he gets up all in my space, like there are no boundries. he will just get so close my face with his side of his face its annoying.
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Posted 1/17/09

bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:

Or maybe he somewhat "realised" or thought that it might be "too friendly" towards you to talk like that and was scared or nervous that people might think he likes you.


((NOTE: Don't take this the wrong way but please don't assume that he likes you straight away. That is the first step towards disaster... ))



I dont. I'm just trying to figure him out.


Well, that's a good thing... but I'd say that he'd still want to be friends. It's not like you did anything to annoy or offend him so... yea...
...


hopefully I didnt do anything. Ya hes a great friend. fun memories.


Yea... good luck then!... xD...
...


thanks, he probable doesnt like me though.. ahh guys, he gets up all in my space, like there are no boundries. he will just get so close my face with his side of his face its annoying.


Hhmmm... you never know what's going on in a guy's head... (besides sex and porn... xD... )... yea, guys are strange... (rather ironic coz girls are strange too... O_o... )...
...


Posted 1/17/09

freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:

Or maybe he somewhat "realised" or thought that it might be "too friendly" towards you to talk like that and was scared or nervous that people might think he likes you.


((NOTE: Don't take this the wrong way but please don't assume that he likes you straight away. That is the first step towards disaster... ))



I dont. I'm just trying to figure him out.


Well, that's a good thing... but I'd say that he'd still want to be friends. It's not like you did anything to annoy or offend him so... yea...
...


hopefully I didnt do anything. Ya hes a great friend. fun memories.


Yea... good luck then!... xD...
...


thanks, he probable doesnt like me though.. ahh guys, he gets up all in my space, like there are no boundries. he will just get so close my face with his side of his face its annoying.


Hhmmm... you never know what's going on in a guy's head... (besides sex and porn... xD... )... yea, guys are strange... (rather ironic coz girls are strange too... O_o... )...
...




haha I know right, ya were also weird and strange. so do you think I should tell him I like him?
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Posted 1/17/09
maybe there thinking of a another way to you know

ask you out ??

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or their having mood swings
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Posted 1/17/09

bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:

Or maybe he somewhat "realised" or thought that it might be "too friendly" towards you to talk like that and was scared or nervous that people might think he likes you.


((NOTE: Don't take this the wrong way but please don't assume that he likes you straight away. That is the first step towards disaster... ))



I dont. I'm just trying to figure him out.


Well, that's a good thing... but I'd say that he'd still want to be friends. It's not like you did anything to annoy or offend him so... yea...
...


hopefully I didnt do anything. Ya hes a great friend. fun memories.


Yea... good luck then!... xD...
...


thanks, he probable doesnt like me though.. ahh guys, he gets up all in my space, like there are no boundries. he will just get so close my face with his side of his face its annoying.


Hhmmm... you never know what's going on in a guy's head... (besides sex and porn... xD... )... yea, guys are strange... (rather ironic coz girls are strange too... O_o... )...
...




haha I know right, ya were also weird and strange. so do you think I should tell him I like him?


It depends how long you've known him and vice versa. Besides getting rejected, I've gotta say that one of the worst things that can happen after a confession is for the guy to feel pressured and suffocated. Especially rushed. If this is too sudden for him, it can turn things awkward. Are you friends with his friends or have friends who are friends with his friends or are going out w/ them?
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who knows.
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i don't know sorry
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the best answer comes from him
Posted 1/17/09

freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:


freakaga1n wrote:

Or maybe he somewhat "realised" or thought that it might be "too friendly" towards you to talk like that and was scared or nervous that people might think he likes you.


((NOTE: Don't take this the wrong way but please don't assume that he likes you straight away. That is the first step towards disaster... ))



I dont. I'm just trying to figure him out.


Well, that's a good thing... but I'd say that he'd still want to be friends. It's not like you did anything to annoy or offend him so... yea...
...


hopefully I didnt do anything. Ya hes a great friend. fun memories.


Yea... good luck then!... xD...
...


thanks, he probable doesnt like me though.. ahh guys, he gets up all in my space, like there are no boundries. he will just get so close my face with his side of his face its annoying.


Hhmmm... you never know what's going on in a guy's head... (besides sex and porn... xD... )... yea, guys are strange... (rather ironic coz girls are strange too... O_o... )...
...




haha I know right, ya were also weird and strange. so do you think I should tell him I like him?


It depends how long you've known him and vice versa. Besides getting rejected, I've gotta say that one of the worst things that can happen after a confession is for the guy to feel pressured and suffocated. Especially rushed. If this is too sudden for him, it can turn things awkward. Are you friends with his friends or have friends who are friends with his friends or are going out w/ them?


I have known him for 5 months, and we becam friends rather fast for some odd reasone, it takes me a year or two to like a guy and in his case, it took 3 months. We talk so easly to each other. he makes fun of things I like~in a good way. I dont want him to feel bad, So I'm confused, and worried about him. I dont care if i get hurt I just want him to be ok.
no hes a freshman, and i have know idea who his friends are outside of class. but he has his brother and he somtims brings up randome things. He also was very rude to me once because~ I'll tell you the story.
ok so it was in class he was teasing me in his cute way, and then his brother walked in an the guy I like said. "I'm torturing (insert name). then he said "shes diserves it", and then it was ackward silence. The guy I like gave him a look. random times. I just ont know what to do.
Posted 1/17/09
That guy probably heard his classmate or someone else talk about his action toward you , depend on what he heard , he might react .
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I have known him for 5 months, and we becam friends rather fast for some odd reasone, it takes me a year or two to like a guy and in his case, it took 3 months. We talk so easly to each other. he makes fun of things I like~in a good way. I dont want him to feel bad, So I'm confused, and worried about him. I dont care if i get hurt I just want him to be ok.
no hes a freshman, and i have know idea who his friends are outside of class. but he has his brother and he somtims brings up randome things. He also was very rude to me once because~ I'll tell you the story.
ok so it was in class he was teasing me in his cute way, and then his brother walked in an the guy I like said. "I'm torturing (insert name). then he said "shes diserves it", and then it was ackward silence. The guy I like gave him a look. random times. I just ont know what to do.


Hhmmm... my best friend's in a situation similar to that... almost exactly the same... well... the thing is that it makes it so much easier if you were able to talk to his friends but in this case, don't just go up to them and talk to them coz they'll probably figure out that you've got something for him. (If they already haven't.) The best way to meet a guy's friends is to be introduced to them by the guy himself... most of the times... I guess it's different for every guy...

About the brother thing... guys have strange connection moments with each other often... it's not only girls... they're either having this "joke" or "secret" between themselves... The brother could have done that if your friend likes you and his brother knows it. However, he could also have done it as a joke and planned to have gone, "Jokes! LAWL!" (or something else depending on his personality) but things got awkward. Or he could have done it on purpose to make things awkward. Boys. Really. *sighs* Too many possibilities...

But really, if you want to tell him, then go ahead. But make sure that you'd both be ready for it. The only absolute answer to whether the guy likes you or not is within the guy himself.


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Posted 1/17/09
I think he dint wanna show that he likes you and ignoring is his way of saying it. I think some Boys do that.
Posted 1/17/09

freakaga1n wrote:


bleachgirlygirl wrote:

I have known him for 5 months, and we becam friends rather fast for some odd reasone, it takes me a year or two to like a guy and in his case, it took 3 months. We talk so easly to each other. he makes fun of things I like~in a good way. I dont want him to feel bad, So I'm confused, and worried about him. I dont care if i get hurt I just want him to be ok.
no hes a freshman, and i have know idea who his friends are outside of class. but he has his brother and he somtims brings up randome things. He also was very rude to me once because~ I'll tell you the story.
ok so it was in class he was teasing me in his cute way, and then his brother walked in an the guy I like said. "I'm torturing (insert name). then he said "shes diserves it", and then it was ackward silence. The guy I like gave him a look. random times. I just ont know what to do.


Hhmmm... my best friend's in a situation similar to that... almost exactly the same... well... the thing is that it makes it so much easier if you were able to talk to his friends but in this case, don't just go up to them and talk to them coz they'll probably figure out that you've got something for him. (If they already haven't.) The best way to meet a guy's friends is to be introduced to them by the guy himself... most of the times... I guess it's different for every guy...

About the brother thing... guys have strange connection moments with each other often... it's not only girls... they're either having this "joke" or "secret" between themselves... The brother could have done that if your friend likes you and his brother knows it. However, he could also have done it as a joke and planned to have gone, "Jokes! LAWL!" (or something else depending on his personality) but things got awkward. Or he could have done it on purpose to make things awkward. Boys. Really. *sighs* Too many possibilities...

But really, if you want to tell him, then go ahead. But make sure that you'd both be ready for it. The only absolute answer to whether the guy likes you or not is within the guy himself.




so confussed I dont know if I should tell him, you know what his brother did say some stuff " have you asked her." The guy i like was in akward silence.~ He proble wasnt talking about me though, then his brother was ramebleing about the guy i like "should be asking her right know.~ again i have no idea who he was talking about. and then once the guy I like was talking about this pic and he said how atractive the girl was, and then apparentle I looked sad and then amedetaly said he was kidding, and gave me an interesting look.

but however the guy I like said my name while looking down at his desk, then started shaking his head~ again I have no idea what what was going on throgh his head, becuase I didnt do anything stupid, I was being quite. I am being picked on alittle out side of class~that probable has nothing to do with this subject.
Posted 1/17/09
To attract the girl's attention?
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